After 20 years of reconciliation, Song Dandan and Ni Ping met and wept bitterly. They had a quarrel over a joke. What happened?

Ni Ping and Song Dandan recorded a program together and asked about the relationship between Song Dandan and Ni Ping. Song Dandan answered very well, but asked Ni Ping who had a good relationship with her. Ni Ping was joking, but Song Dandan thought what she said was true, which led to a bad relationship between them.

First, many people don't know about the feud between Song Dandan and Ni Ping? Twenty years ago, Ni Ping and Song Dandan used to be very good girlfriends, but there was a contradiction because of some personality differences, and then they drifted away, and there was no intersection for so many years. ?

Song Dandan immediately replied, saying that you just annoyed me and didn't take any small things to heart, and then chatted with Ni Ping. More than 20 years ago, Song Dandan said "Ni Ping is my best friend" to his new friend, but Ni Ping said "Do I know you?" Teacher Song Dandan emphasized that I knew Ni Ping was joking. His words came quickly, but he was hurt at that time.

Second, don't make jokes casually. In my opinion, it takes a lot of courage for Song Dandan to take the initiative to meet Ni Ping, otherwise it wouldn't have been 20 years before we met. She broke off diplomatic relations on her own initiative. They can't go back as long as she doesn't untie this knot.

In real life, we often meet people who joke casually, and sometimes even feel that joking makes people uncomfortable and sincere, that is, holding a joke and saying what you mean. Especially those jokes with low emotional intelligence, just returned, everyone is embarrassed, it seems that you are too serious. Everyone says he has a bad heart. This is just a little joke. He might as well be tolerant, generous and smile more, but what should people who are hurt by that remark do?

Third, now they finally put it down. The two men finally said what they had been saying for 20 years on the show. Now Song Dandan has a very independent personality and is no longer so sensitive and fragile. Ni Ping also sincerely explained that it was really just a joke, but I didn't expect to hurt Song Dandan.

Finally, they made up and were moved to tears. Song Dandan offered to add WeChat, and the two returned to the original "little sister" state. When people are frustrated, they are sensitive and easy to get hurt. Similarly, when people are in the wind, it is easy to ignore the feelings of others, thus inadvertently saying something that hurts others.

Conclusion The misunderstanding between good friends should be solved in time, because it is too expensive to hurt each other for 20 years by unintentional words. I hope everyone can respect each other and achieve each other with good friends. Finally, congratulations to Song Dandan and Ni Ping for returning to be best friends.