A boy said that if we are not together, we will be joking at once. What does that mean?

Men say "joking" has two meanings. One is that he likes you, but he doesn't believe you will like him or even talk to him. The other is that he doesn't like you, but just politely refuses you, because he will look down on him after saying this sentence and be afraid that you will dislike him, so he will say that this is a joke, which shows him that he really likes you in his heart, but actually cares about you. He can say this sentence, which shows that he loves you very much and wants to be with you very much. A person is not confident enough because he is afraid of being rejected by you. And both sides are embarrassed. Or really care about you.

I don't want two people to be friends in the future. He still has no confidence in himself. When a boy jokes, he mainly means that you should not pay attention to what he says, and don't take it too seriously, because in interpersonal communication, sometimes we can't hide what we say, and sometimes we must make a joke to enliven the atmosphere. If you take it seriously because of a joke, you may lose miserably. So as adults, we should distinguish right from wrong and know what is funny and what is serious. If you like him, you can joke that I like you too.

If he still says it's just a joke, you can also say it's a joke, but if he really likes you, you can consider your relationship. Boys like to play jokes on girls, which is a normal behavior in interpersonal communication. But if a boy only jokes with one girl, and the type of joke is very special, he doesn't like you and is afraid of hurting you, then he will say that you are joking. Usually I refuse others' love and say that you are joking.

The above is Bian Xiao's detailed explanation of the problem. I hope it will help you. You can leave me a message in the comments section if you have any questions. If there is anything wrong, you can also interact with me more. If you like the author, you can also follow me. Your praise is the greatest help to me. Thank you.