I don't know how to get along with people. What should I do?

Make yourself confident and study more.

Actually, people are all the same. Some people talk a lot, but their emotional intelligence is very low. Some people don't talk much, but their emotional intelligence is high. What matters is what you say. Talking too much will only expose your IQ, and outspoken is a taboo. The breadth of knowledge determines the depth of your speech. Everyone likes to share, maybe talking about a place is just a place you know you are interested in.

But you are ashamed to express yourself and dare not be together. Over time, it becomes a habit, and you won't listen to what others say.

1, make yourself confident and don't seem so unsociable.

2. Don't bury yourself in your own business, get up and walk often, get together with others to praise others and remind others to take a rest.

Buy some afternoon tea or small gifts and distribute them to colleagues.

You should always smile when you talk to others or when others come to you. Smiling can dissolve everything and leave a good impression on others.

You can say less, but don't say it. Once you have said it, you should try your best to express your views. Don't just be Nuo Nuo, but be generous.

6. Stop here and don't go on.

7. Speak as loudly as possible and at a steady pace.

8. Apply what you have learned and read more books. If you don't use them, they are just books, not knowledge. Books can change one's appearance and temperament.

I believe that if you were asked to report your work or talk about things at work, you would definitely not do so, because it is purposeful and has something to talk about, so you will be very comfortable. But in the face of small talk, you don't know how to start, precisely because you have no purpose. People are animals and don't want to move unless they are driven.

So you should learn to build a topic, build a topic that you think you have something to say, so that you won't feel like a supporting role in the conversation. As long as you get rid of this cognition, you won't be like that. A person who loves to toss will never be a person who has nothing to say, because he has something to say. Don't be afraid of trouble when chatting, and don't be shy to express it. Even if you make jokes, you have to make them up. Man is a habitual animal. After doing this a few times, you will become a habit and people's impression of you will be improved.