Every dark cloud has a gold edge.

I will unconsciously stay away from those friends who are too sleek and sophisticated, and even have some resentment for no reason. Xiao Qiao is a young man I dislike very much, especially his special attitude towards leaders and his concern for personal interests every time.

Later, I heard that he used to be in the Tibetan medicine business. He had an accident and lost more than one million to his victims. As a result, he was heavily in debt and changed from a small boss to a wage earner. The great changes in living environment and interpersonal relationships have made him smart in all aspects, but he is somewhat at a loss. The former freedom and the pursuit of profit may seem sloppy and powerful in the team, and I am criticized by pedantic people like me.

His beautiful wife is pregnant, and Xiao Qiao seems to suddenly become a literary youth. Inadvertently, a few words of junior high school English will pop up, or a few elegant sentences and Tang poetry and Song poetry will make things more human. After his son was born, he often used mobile phone videos, and everyone around him could feel his deep fatherly love.

Once he bought a box of Vietnamese red dragon fruit. He said he didn't eat it at all, but gave it to his wife alone. My heart is shaking. He said that his wife married him with hundreds of thousands of money she had saved when she was in debt. He must be kind to her. The wife with the baby also said that she would sell vegetables to subsidize her family. Now, the young couple have racked their brains to figure out how to earn more money and live a rich life.

Natural and man-made disasters, like a long life journey with dark clouds in Phnom Penh, helped Xiao Qiao find true love and become a more mature, hardworking and popular friend.

Among this group of friends, there is a young and talented female college student Lian. I found that she shared a handwritten reading note, thinking that she had something to say. One day, Lian sent a 5700-word small letter copying the scriptures of the Diamond Sutra, which was neat and exquisite. In everyone's praise, she said that in order to earn enough tuition for her study and research, she would sell supper in her spare time and work as a nanny at her employer's house. I like this inspirational girl very much. Later, she sent some of her own paintings one after another, which were very aura.

However, Lian often fires at some friends in the group inexplicably, and her words are sharp, which seems to have a deep hatred. The group friends also advised her, and I have been paying attention to enlighten her privately, but without success.

Cheryl is really unlucky. Her parents died when she was a child, and the weak orphans grew up with the help of relatives and suffered from school violence. Her childhood boyfriend died in adulthood. She should have been single at the best stage of her life and wanted to die alone. Everyone sincerely wanted to warm her young and intelligent heart several times, but her obsession was rock solid.

While showing off his hard work to make a living, Xie Lian violently fired at every imaginary enemy. Many friends complained that she was partial. I advise everyone to tolerate her more. After all, her experience is too painful, and there will inevitably be some psychological shadows. One day, she said in dismay that the loss of love and no longer love also originated from the complete removal of her uterus, and the group sighed again.

Xie Lian's views are becoming more and more extreme. I advised her not to take too much hatred to heart. She said, Sister, I understand your concern and advice, but some people, some things can never be let go. Everyone can see Xie Lian's sharing in the group, some are good books, some are good materials and good experiences, but everyone is afraid to meet summer sowing or doesn't want to respond. Because someone occupied summer sowing, Xie Lian was likely to be bombed again, and Xie Lian gradually became a caring, regretful and helpless friend. After repeated failures, Xie Lian quietly retired from the group.

It is unfortunate to cherish lotus. It has been shrouded in dark clouds several times, and her life has been hit hard several times. But her talent and vicissitudes, every time I know her experience, I can't help but love and pity her from the heart. Those who are willing to lend a helping hand are not necessarily the bright Phnom Penh behind the thick dark clouds, and Xi Lian has not seen it yet. I hope that one day Xi Lian will suddenly look back and be shocked by the bright Phnom Penh, and everything will be as usual from then on.

Tian Tian is a middle school teacher deeply loved by students. She is busy teaching and educating people while running a small restaurant. She is very busy for her career and family. One day, she suddenly asked me heavily if I could introduce a lawyer who is good at divorce proceedings. After a few words of persuasion, I let them communicate alone, without asking the result. For a long time, her circle of friends was all about work and study. Suddenly one day, she basked in the happiness of a family of three. I know that her haze has dissipated, revealing Phnom Penh.

Yan Yan used to be an employee of a public institution. After she got married, she had two children. Besides, she is in poor health. So she resigned and became a housewife. From not doing any housework before marriage, to the top leader at home and abroad now. The neighbor said that she took care of two children by herself, and her home was cleaner than that without children. She is gentle and virtuous, and filial to her in-laws. It is rare to see a better daughter-in-law than her.

However, Yan Yan has also been shrouded in dark clouds. Eight years of housewife life has separated Yan Yan from the society, and the distance from her husband is getting farther and farther. Her husband is a little male chauvinist, occasionally has domestic violence, ignores Yan Yan's contribution to the family and thinks that everything Yan Yan has done is what she should do as a woman. What she can't do is that Yan Yan is useless and disdains to help Yan Yan make progress together. Yan Yan realized the root of the problem and began to study hard and seek advice and help from her friends. She has come out of the gloom and is trying to become a florist.

There is a hot article on the Internet, probably "My wife has no job", and her husband (husband) has the following conversation with a psychologist (heart):

Xin: What do you do? Sir? Dave: I'm an accountant at the bank.

Sim: Where's your wife? Dave: She doesn't have a job. She is just a housewife.

Xin: Who cooks breakfast in the morning? Husband: My wife, because she has no job.

Xin: When will your wife wake up to make breakfast for you? Dave: Around 5 o'clock in the morning, because she has to clean the room before cooking breakfast.

Xin: How does your child go to school? Dave: My wife sent them to school because she has no job.

Xin: What did she do after sending her child to school? Dave: She went to the market to buy food, and then went home to cook and wash clothes. You know, she has no job.

Xin: What do you do when you come home from work at night? Dave: Rest, because I'm really tired after work.

Xin: What is your wife doing at this time? Husband: She prepares dinner for the whole family, takes care of the children's meals, washes the dishes after meals, cleans the room and puts the children to bed. ...

When I shared it with a circle of friends as a humorous joke, many housewives and non-housewives, even a doctor and a university teacher, left messages and sent two lines of tears. There are countless sweet people and Yan Yan in this world, who actively improve themselves when the dark clouds are overwhelming, and are strong and confident to meet Phnom Penh behind the dark clouds.

Jia Jia is a primary school teacher who loves code words. She felt that she was in a bad state and could not adjust. She's anxious. She listed her own situation and asked me to help analyze it: during the World Cup, her team lost; I feel like an outsider and out of place with my friends. Their interest is always Qian Qian's money, and they talk about how to be opportunistic, with little positive behavior and mentality. Disappointed with the material comparison of society, it is difficult to have spiritual communication and singing, but in order to survive, I have to keep in touch with these friends I don't like.

I gave him advice for his reference: adjust your work and rest objectively, and you will be prone to depression when you are tired. I'm not a fan, let alone a fake fan. I may not have the right to speak, but my mood, spirit and even beliefs should not be influenced by others. As for the three views of others and the present situation of society, it is good if you can try your best to help them change, so don't worry that you can't.

Everyone has their own difficulties, but they must be strong and make life choices. Try to find fun and balance in the helplessness of life and spiritual freedom, and make every effort to live a good life. What we can grasp is our own heart and character, even in the cracks, let ourselves grow sturdily. Although it is a bit difficult, we must do this in order to turn survival into life and make life more interesting.

Jia Jia replied to me: Thank you, Sister! Believe firmly, do what you can, and live the fun of small people.

Jia Jia also spoke my mind and found herself behind, resting, thinking and reading. The old movie The Devil in Prada helped me. No matter who you are and what kind of past you have, you will smile and shake your head in the face of the challenges given by life. Everything is floating in the wind, and you will continue to grow and change. Even those who live in the most difficult environment will nod and smile. With layers of defensive hearts open to you and high-profile seats at your fingertips, you can still hear your inner voice and make choices that suit you. How can there be any reason to be sad and depressed? !

Two world bestsellers, Rebuilding Life and Rebuilding Mind, also guide us: everyone has the ability to adopt a positive way of thinking to achieve physical and mental health. Louis Hay, the author, extracted thoughts and actions beneficial to all mankind from his own tragic pain, which influenced and changed the lives of millions of people.

The haze will eventually dissipate. If you stay too long, it may be the obsession in your heart that invited it. "Everything is just right. If it is not good enough, it must not be the end. " No matter what you meet, please keep smiling and firmly believe that every dark cloud is inlaid with Phnom Penh!