Three women in one scene, my mother and her six daughters shot n scenes-

"Small three, small four, small five, come and help me." We looked at each other. Who is this? In case of emergency, my mother often shouts like this. After shouting, she also felt ridiculous and bowed her head and enjoyed herself. If a neighbor happens to visit, he will follow haha: "These girls confuse your mother."

I was born in the late 1970s. I am the third in my family and have six sisters. My parents gave birth to a string of girls in ten years for a boy. I also paid a super-life fine. One year, there was a show called Super Guerrilla on TV Spring Festival Evening, and neighbors often joked with their parents. Alas! Being famous is hard.

My elder sister is two years older than my second sister, my second sister is two years older than my fourth sister, my fourth sister is two years older than my fifth sister, and my fifth sister is two years older than my sixth sister. When I studied the concept of arithmetic progression in high school, I understood it at once.

The six of us often confuse the villagers, most of whom know the elder sister and the second sister. When it comes to me and my three sisters, no one can recognize them except a few close neighbors by the door. I can't help but say, "Who are you, junior three or junior four?" I also explained at the beginning: "I am a mistress."

Later, before anyone asked, I counted off. Smile at the same time, raise your right thumb and forefinger in a circle, and the other three fingers will stretch out separately, and others will smile.

Until now, I met familiar villagers when I went back to the village. They still looked confused: "Who are you?" I'm sure, except elder sister and second sister. The other four of us, the villagers, have been puzzled. It is really hard for them, haha!

Our big family with many female households has long been the talk of the villagers after dinner.

However, I am not afraid of being talked about by the villagers. Because we grew up all the way, which is a miracle.

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From primary school to high school, our sisters' academic performance is top-notch, so they are also attracting attention at school. Although I don't dress as well as others, I never feel inferior. Because of good grades. The children in the neighborhood have been in junior high school for about a year, and they dropped out of school because of hopeless grades. We all got good grades. As long as we are willing to go to school, our parents try their best to satisfy us.

Every school season is the most worrying time for parents and the saddest day for us. Sadly, we don't have any self-esteem, and we also want to pay the tuition early to earn some face among our classmates. But when we got home and saw our parents worried about money, we felt uncomfortable. It is in this torment that I study harder and harder and dare not slack off for a moment.

The children of poor families are in charge early, and the eldest sister worked with her parents at the age of seven. There is a shortage of male labor at home, and my father is too busy to do it alone. There is always endless work at home every weekend. No matter how young children are, they are arranged to do what they can. All school assignments are completed on time.

Six sisters were arranged to close the henhouse before dark every day when they were five years old. Five sisters are seven years old and come back from school to clean the yard every day. Four elder sisters and two elder sisters are older, and they cook home-cooked meals together. One pulls the bellows and the other makes noodles. My sister and I will go to the fields with my parents to help.

Although my childhood was poor, I lived a carefree and interesting life because of the company of my sisters and my parents' unintentional stocking.

After graduating from junior high school, my elder sister dropped out of school in order to lighten the burden on her family. If you are poor, change it. Besides farming, your parents also made a fortune in the clothing business. Going to the market and setting up stalls everywhere are rare at home. So after school, big sister cooks for us.

After I was in high school, my parents watched the aquaculture industry make money and set up the first chicken factory in our village. It remained 15 years until I graduated from college and joined the work. My mother always said that the four of you can go to college because of the eggs pulled out of the chicken's ass. It's true. A village with 1000 people can produce a college student in only two or three years. Most villagers don't care about their children going to school. Especially girls will get married sooner or later, just know two words.

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After graduating from college, I passed the local civil service exam. Second sister has been teaching in Guangzhou. After graduating from junior high school, Sisai first worked as a substitute teacher in a neighboring village. Later, I went to learn computer typewriter typesetting and supermarket cashier, all of which were temporary jobs and part-time jobs. Five sisters and six sisters graduated from school one after another, caught up with the national policy, passed the examination and became primary and secondary school teachers.

We all got jobs and positions and found life partners. Compared with their peers in the village, they have a fixed income and enviable jobs, and their parents are also pleased.

The only thing that worries me is my sister. Sister and brother-in-law have been running a chicken farm with their parents since they got married. For more than ten years, the profit of aquaculture is not what it used to be. And stay in the chicken farm every day, for a long time, the elder sister is seriously allergic to the dust in the chicken house and has severe asthma, which is no longer suitable for raising chickens.

Second sister is in Guangzhou, far from thirsty. I am the oldest of the remaining children and work in a government department. My mother pinned her hopes on me: "Xiao San, you report to the company outside every day, and you are more familiar with society than them." Pay attention and see what you can do to make money now. This chicken can't be kept If you keep it, your sister will get lung disease! "

After listening to my mother, I fell in love, too. I am thinking about it. I can't open a restaurant. I'm so tired. You can't even make a cake. After all, your arm is not your own. Set up a roadside stall, alas, there are more people setting up stalls than shopping. Doing business is like a tiger eating the sky. I don't know where to start. Well, go and cooperate with others. Look at the age of elder sister and brother-in-law. Both in their early forties. They all graduated from junior high school, not to mention the low salary. Which boss wants to use it first?

Every time I go back to my parents' house and see my sister and brother-in-law tortured by life, I feel that I live too easily and feel guilty. However, the opportunity came. 20 1 1, the province implemented the plan of "Gasification of Shanxi, Blue Sky and White Clouds", coupled with high oil prices and great pressure on car owners, the development of automobile oil to gas industry was in full swing. Because of work, we first felt this change, and people around us were also surprised by the rapid development of this industry and the huge market cake of emerging industries.

Therefore, I pay special attention to the professional quality requirements of this industry. As long as it is a garage above the scale, the conditions are enough. Because my brother-in-law repaired cars in his early years, he knew the structure of the car. This industry suits him very well. Opportunity knocks but once. If they miss this opportunity, maybe they will never have a chance to change careers again.

I forgot to go back and told my parents about this opportunity on the phone. After work, I went to the nearby garage. Maybe god intends to help me. As soon as I entered the gate of the comprehensive transportation market, I rode my bike and looked around. I happened to meet an elder in our village. He runs an automobile chain repair shop by himself. The scale and conditions of the shop meet the requirements of automobile modification, and the site conditions for obtaining the installation license of pressure vessels are more than enough. After I made my intention clear, he expressed his willingness to cooperate. And remind me that I can apply for an installation license from the province, draw up a cooperation agreement, sit tight and solve the problem at any time.

I am responsible for running the formalities to get the license, and my brother-in-law is responsible for negotiating with chain stores to rent space, buy equipment, dig trenches, recruit people, and negotiate prices with suppliers.

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Things are going well. My elder sister works early, contributes the most to the whole family, and is also a bitter boss. She loves to worry and works hard, and now she has finally grasped some hope. The whole family is looking forward to a bright future for their family. Second sister also called from Guangzhou to ask questions. Other sisters also watched with concern over the weekend. Fourth sister comes the most, and she cares very much. After several visits, she suggested that she wanted to take a stake.

Her request embarrassed me. Because doing business is risky, the greater the profit, the greater the risk. Sisters doing business together is another way of saying that whether they can make money or not is likely to destroy their feelings. Plus, considering that she usually spends a lot of money, she has to be fully armed, regardless of the cost. Besides, the elder sister is frugal. If she can make do, she will never buy it. She can save it. They will argue about some details of daily management. So I'm firmly opposed to them mixing together. Moreover, the elder sister's brother-in-law has cooperated with automobile chain stores, and the profit is already very thin. Therefore, she is only allowed to make a special account for the refitting workshop, check the account with the accountant of the head office every day and pay her salary every month.

In order not to make her doubt me, I made it clear to her that I only lent my sister 10 million for working capital, and I never participated in this venture of my sister and brother-in-law, but only gave me help as much as I could. Help run the formalities, and when they enter the formal, I will quit in due course.

Even so, Huei-fang still has a lot of complaints about us, saying that the whole family is biased. Everything is for my sister. She also said that her parents couldn't pay her tuition on time when she was at school, which made her lose face, so she chose to drop out of school. Now neither the elder sister nor she has a job. Everyone just wants to help her, not her. In fact, my mother said that when she decided to drop out of school, her mother advised her to go back to school, and she was determined not to go. In a word, it's hard to hear what she said. My mother stamped her foot in anger: "None of the six girls can pay their tuition on time. You are neither the oldest nor the youngest. Whoever can attend, you will not be allowed to attend. It's not that you can't attend alone. Besides, it's only a few days late, and it's not that I didn't attend. "

After graduating from junior high school, Simei also worked everywhere and suffered the hardships of life. But she is unreasonable, turning over old scores and finding fault. This makes me very angry. I am one year ahead of her at school. After a semester, her textbooks and exercise books are brand-new. She was clever and didn't work hard, but later she was playful and couldn't learn. I regret it now, but I find fault with my parents.

Besides, I did it for my parents. Parents live with their sister's brother-in-law. Only when their sister and brother-in-law live well can their parents live well with them. Huei-fang doesn't even know this, and she slanders others. I feel bad that the contribution is over. However, I still try to avoid confrontation with her.

I'm afraid I'm here, and business is going well. Customers who come to change cars and consult are also in an endless stream. But at the beginning, people need to run in too many things and the workflow needs to be improved. In addition, the elder sister has just come out of the countryside, and there is still a lack of treatment, especially to receive the city people who come by car and speak Mandarin to each other. She can't open her mouth. Speaking in dialect, she has to explain it to others over and over again. Therefore, it is the kind of person who is cautious and passive towards Nuo Nuo in middle age, for fear of saying something wrong and doing something wrong.

Huei-mei hates iron and cannot produce steel, so she can't help getting angry with her sister's brother-in-law, who is a man. Besides, when Simei came to my house, she was less than ten years old. She watched her grow up, so she ignored her.

My sister is a strict girl. She never tried hard. When she admitted failure, she was scolded by Sister Four. She has a bitter face and a fire in her heart. When doing the accounts at night, Simei was angry because the elder sister didn't go to the head office to go through the formalities in time. "It's a mess, so I won't go to a formal place. Do you think this is a fire pit in the countryside? If you want to put one in the stove, can you put two? " Big sister couldn't hold back any longer: "Didn't I just study accounting for two days?" I can keep accounts in this home-grown way. What can you do? " The little one refused to accept the little one, and the big one refused to accept the old one. Finally, the two men lifted the table. Afraid of making my parents angry, my brother-in-law told me after half a year.

Because the head office is afraid of high cost, the cooperation will be unhappy. My sister's brother-in-law is in charge of car modification. Everyone has been wearing several hats, and Sisai's accounting identity is also a part-time job. Every day, she takes time to check the income and expenditure of the day and make accounts. Check with the head office accountant every month. So she got the monthly salary 1000. The full-time accountant of the head office was paid 1300 at that time, and was in the company all day, responsible for the accounts of several workshops. Even so, Huei-fang is still too few and very emotional. She always blows her beard and stares at us as if everyone owes her money.

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One year passed, the refitting factory entered the formal stage, and my sister and brother-in-law also adapted to the life in the city. They paid me back100000, and I also had a surplus. I used my savings to buy a house in the city. During the Spring Festival, my parents also had a warm Spring Festival in the city. The whole family is beaming.

It's just that Huei-fang is getting more and more elusive. In the past, the whole family got together on holidays. She didn't think the food we cooked was delicious and kept cooking. Now she tells my mother privately that she hasn't been to school and her family doesn't spend much money. Why would she do that? She should sit at the table and eat. My mother doesn't know what it means, saying that only what you cook is delicious. They just went to school and can't even cook well.

Later, when we got together again, Huei-fang always excused herself or came early. When we all arrive, she will make excuses for leaving early. Anyway, she didn't spend much time with you, and her expression was extremely cold. It took a long time for everyone to understand her intention. But there's nothing I can do.

Six sisters, two boys, and the children are still young. My in-laws are too busy doing business to look after them. When parents go to the winter slack season, they live in a house in Liu Mei and help take care of their children. Huei-fang also said that parents preferred sons to daughters, and they also helped to take care of the boys born to six sisters. Her parents didn't take her daughter. In fact, she doesn't trust my mother because she doesn't take care of the children as carefully as her mother-in-law. In a word, Huei-fang is becoming more and more unreasonable. What words hurt her feelings and what words she was picking up. Parents are afraid that a bowl of water between their daughters will be even, and she will destroy this balance. You said she was angry.

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It is said that peers do not have the same benefits. Brother-in-law's efforts quickly mastered the company's business, coupled with his easy-going personality and patient after-sales service, won the trust of customers. The profit of the refitting workshop has gradually occupied a place in the head office. There is a car 4S shop in the same trade, which has worked hard to obtain the qualification of modification, but the business has been sluggish and I want my brother-in-law to contract their business. Brother-in-law considered that Sisai had the idea of buying shares before. I discussed it with Fourth Sister, and Fourth Sister is very happy at the moment. Hit it off, quit his job and contracted the modification of 4S shop. Brother-in-law gave business guidance in the early stage. Because this industry has made considerable profits in the past two years, we are all rejoicing in this good opportunity that fell from the sky. I hope Huei-fang can seize the opportunity and shine.

However, in just three months, the market has changed. In August of 20 14, oil prices fell for two consecutive days, both of which plummeted. Coupled with international standards, the oil price adjustment cycle has also been greatly shortened. Oil prices have been high since before, and now everyone can accept it.

The automobile oil-to-gas industry entered the severe winter instantly. You can't change ten cars in a month, and you can't even maintain the cost. Unwilling, I struggled for three months with uncertainty about the future. I returned the 4S shop contracted by Sisi, and the 50,000 yuan invested by Sisi was like being thrown into the sea and disappeared in the blink of an eye. Only two computers, two printers and two filing cabinets were moved home.

The modification business of the elder sister's brother-in-law completely closed down after half a year, and it also lost less than 60 thousand. Fortunately, the money earned in the early stage has bottomed out, and it is still profitable overall.

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Going to the seaside sounds enjoyable, but if you really go to the seaside, who knows who will suffocate. The elder sister helped the fourth sister, but let the fourth sister lose money. I felt guilty, but Huei-fang was surprisingly calm. She's not as hurtful as before. I think, after some tossing, she also understood the good intentions of her family.

During the summer vacation of 20 15, Simei decided to set up a student counseling institution to pick up and drop off students, provide lunch and help parents with their homework after school. Because she abandoned teaching for many years, and her education is not high, and I was born in a normal university, Sisai intends to cooperate with me. On the one hand, my second-born daughter is only over one year old and has a job, so I'm afraid I can't take care of it. On the other hand, I'm afraid I'll be involved. Because of my interests, I can't calm down, and I have a conflict with Fourth Sister, which hurts my bones. Plus this investment is rent, water and electricity. Not much. She can totally afford it herself. At first, there were few students, so I helped with my homework. In primary school, it was mainly a few words, which was completely manageable. There is no labor fee. So she firmly expressed her full support. When there was no profit in the early stage, she was fully obligated to help, regardless of remuneration or salary.

This decision emboldened Fourth Sister, who quickly rented a house and signed an agreement. On the first day of school in autumn, students begin to enter school. Soon, students came in in droves. The sound of reading in the room keeps coming and going.

Serving students and parents is a special test of patience. If the child doesn't come home at noon, the counseling agency has to do it for the parents, prepare A4 paper for the child, dictate Chinese characters to the child, send some notices to the school, and sign the parents' names on the child's receipt. Telling children to drink more water and answer their parents' phone calls at any time is all a bit of a chicken and dog thing, which is particularly tiring. But Sisi, who was slapped by life, was crazy about these things, but she persisted. Life is not easy when people reach middle age.

After two or three years of persistence, Huei-fang had a little surplus. Although tired, my monthly income is much higher than mine. Once a person has achieved something, it is inevitable that he will not go with the flow. She went home to see her father in his seventies working in the orchard. Very distressed, I took the initiative to build a group on WeChat. There are only six sisters in the group, and the group rules have been issued: everyone gives 300 yuan money every month, and pays her on 1 every month, and then she pays her parents, so that parents can enjoy their old age without working in the fields.

My parents have worked hard all their lives, but they are still willing to work when they are old. It's not forced by life, it's more the need of life and the joy of life.

For so many years, I have given my parents lucky money every month, usually three or five hundred, and one or two thousand more during the Chinese New Year. How capable do I have to be to be filial? The other sisters, no matter who goes back, will not go back empty-handed.

Even in the early days of my family, when I was short of money and didn't give money, I would mend clothes, give pocket money, or buy some daily necessities such as meat, eggs and cream for my birthday, all of which were heartfelt and voluntary, and I never forced others. There are many sisters, and the living conditions of each family are different. How can we be unified? We are also afraid of the bad blood between sisters, so we all carefully safeguard each other's dignity.

As soon as Sisei made an announcement in the group, my second sister and elder sister and I knew her temper. She was too straight and stubborn to turn, so we agreed. Sister Wu is also not afraid of death. She can't play it by ear and loves to argue with her fourth sister, who is only two years older than her. A day later, she replied on WeChat, I just want to go home at the weekend, so I will give it to my parents first this month, so I won't go through your hand. Huei-fang was furious at once: "Old Five, you are hurting me like this. Go away. " The team was dissolved immediately. This group called Six Sisters was founded on a certain day. Besides, Huei-fang decided to quit the family.

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When I was a child, my neighbor Aunt Chen always told her mother that there were not many things where there were many girls. When I was a child, I said I didn't hold grudges. When I grow up and have more sisters, I don't pay much attention to them and like to make trouble. I didn't understand these words before, but now I finally understand them. Many things are inevitable, and the back of the hand and the palm of the hand are all meat. It's wrong to say fourth sister, and it's wrong to say fifth sister. Think about it, or wait for them to realize it separately.

After Sisai set up a tutoring institution, the children ate here and consumed a lot of flour. Every time she goes back, her parents always ask them to bring her two bags. Sister Wu didn't try her best and had no temper. Her parents asked her to send some bundles of Chinese cabbage and two bags of flour to Fourth Sister, and she did as if nothing had happened. Huei-fang lost her temper.

Last June, my father suddenly called me and said that he was dizzy, flustered and wanted to vomit. I was frightened and ran to the town health center. The nurse, a novice, took his blood pressure. My blood pressure is a little high. Considering that I am over 70 years old, I don't want to stay. Let me go to a big hospital for examination.

When I went to the District People's Hospital, my stomach was full of fire, which caused nausea and vomiting. After blood transfusion, my father felt very comfortable and his blood pressure returned to normal. A false alarm. The sisters were stunned. It is recommended to go to the hospital for a comprehensive physical examination. Physical examination showed that there was a slight cerebral infarction in the right skull. If you pay a little attention, there is nothing serious. You can check it regularly.

Therefore, Wu Mei proposed that both parents are farmers and there is no wage guarantee. The six sisters want to set up an account for their parents, and each person will save 2000 yuan in the account every year for the treatment of their parents' usual headaches and brain fever, and they can spend it as they want.

I keep the account now, because my work is more leisurely than theirs, and my parents can be on call. In view of the last experience and lessons, I never urged them to pay, as long as their parents used it, they kept accounts at any time and immediately publicized the use of funds to them one by one.

At first, my parents strongly opposed it, but I explained to them that I would not force anyone to pay if I wanted to, nor would I force anyone, let alone blame anyone. Don't make conflicts and make people look at jokes. My parents were a little relieved. That's good. Everyone deposits their money into their accounts in time, and no one has to rush them. There are also many contradictions. The second sister was in Guangzhou, and felt that she was losing money and was inconvenient to accompany, so she transferred money to her account, at least 3 thousand. Transfer at least 2000 yuan to mother's WeChat on holidays.

My parents are getting old and my children are filial, so I have to use money as a guarantee. I used to have a headache and a fever, and my mother always took it with her. With this account, my mother can come to the hospital with peace of mind When I was young, my parents were looking forward to their children, just to prevent old age. Now our six daughters are not as good as a son.