People are social animals, why do they feel lonely?

Because there are too many ineffective social activities in society now, and ineffective social activities will only make people more lonely, and this loneliness exists in their hearts.

Under the seemingly lively appearance, there is often a cold heart hidden, which is a place that only a few people can touch. Before meeting them, loneliness will flood in.

Walking in a bustling city, maybe strangers will smile at you, but you know this can't offset your loneliness. Today, with the development of internet, all kinds of chat software emerge one after another, and some even introduce the function of anonymous chat, which just captures people's loneliness. Some time ago, I saw a news that a little girl would rather trust a naked netizen than go home with her parents.

So why is this? Because that netizen walked into her heart, her loneliness was resolved by him. It was a feeling of meeting her bosom friend, but as everyone knows, it might just be a disguise of an emotional liar. The human mind needs healing and deep communication, and the convenience of the internet makes many people mistakenly think that they have met intimate friends. So, all this is strange because of loneliness.

In order to put an end to loneliness, we can do other things to enrich ourselves, take time to read more emotional books, communicate with the characters in the books in our consciousness, understand their inner feelings and dispel the deep loneliness; You can also communicate with your family and call your parents more. Sometimes a few simple greetings can break the lonely castle, because you will feel that someone is waiting for you all the time.

In addition, you can make more high-quality friends and chat more in your spare time, and loneliness will turn into a cloud.