Did your mind change before and after driving?

Ten years ago, I was frustrated in the workplace and proud in the stock market. After working hard for five years, the position that was destined to win was taken away by an airborne soldier before closing the door. I've been depressed for months, and I'm too lazy to look at the stock. God closed a door for me, but opened a window. I don't know what luck I stepped on. The junk stocks that were once trapped suddenly became big demon stocks.

People, with some money, can easily have a "psychological compensation" effect. Yes, I just want to vent my anger. At that time, hidden rules prevailed in large enterprises in our small city, and the phenomenon of seniority was very serious. Top management buys about 500,000 yuan, middle management generally buys about 200,000 yuan, and general employees buy about 1.5 million yuan. Everyone's annual salary is there, and no one knows what car to sit under!

Young and frivolous, young and frivolous, that's the tone of gambling. Jump two levels directly and buy the latest car. Ten days before driving a good car, I felt a little awesome when Heifer rode a motorcycle, and I was really "stunned" for a while. Deliberately choose the rush hour to drive to work, just like the lens in the short video now, roll down the window and put on rock and roll, for fear that others will not know.

This is the first thinking, identity thinking, showing off thinking and psychological compensation effect after driving. Later, I moved to Beijing. Ten years later, BBA, which is very eye-catching in our local area, has become a very popular product on the streets of Beijing. After ten years of growth, my mind has matured, and it makes no sense to be angry with anyone. The road of life is very long, and the key is still very long. The gains and losses of one place at a time are nothing. Now I look back, smile and let go.

The second thinking difference. Empathy, different eyes. I often drive with people, especially women. They are always scared and always remind me that the car I left is "too close". Sometimes I have braked, and they even scream, as if they are going to hit it. I can only smile and say, "I know."

The third thinking difference. Exercise a sense of space, get used to finding the way, remember landmark buildings, have a city map in your head, and get used to doing road work when you are away from home. I don't use navigation much. I like to drive by memory. At present, I am basically a "half-city pass" in Beijing.

The fourth thinking difference. It is easy to be anxious and angry, and the selfish thoughts centered on drivers are more serious. I used to walk, especially crossing the street, and I hated those cars that ran amok. After driving by myself, I was flustered when I saw pedestrians unconscious, riding bicycles retrograde and riding electric cars on the motorway. I feel that all pedestrians have no quality.

The fifth thinking difference. Get angry easily. I used to watch those little videos, saying goodbye to each other, chasing, fighting and quarreling, which was very funny. Shouldn't everyone drive their own car and go their own way? Why are you doing this? I didn't know until I drove myself that fidgeting was uncontrollable, carefree and uncontrollable. Suddenly, I was stopped by another car. Suddenly, someone else's car suddenly cut in front of you, and the car in front suddenly braked suddenly, which can make the little bubble universe in your heart explode instantly.

The sixth thinking difference. Often regret, chagrin, unhappy days. Traffic jams in Beijing are well known. Traffic jams have Murphy's law, and the more anxious they are, the more blocked they are. Open and open, change lanes, may not be blocked, but just change lanes, one side is blocked and the other side is open, so I want to slap myself. I accidentally ran through the exit, but I had to make a big turn, and I was afraid to tell my wife for fear that she would laugh at me. She asked me how to go this way, and I said I wanted you to see a different kind of scenery.

The seventh thinking difference. The flexibility of calculating time is different. If you don't drive, you can basically predict the time where you want to take the subway. For example, if you go to Beijing South Railway Station, you can go out 70 minutes in advance. If you drive, you must leave home 120- 150 minutes in advance. Wherever you drive, you will consider whether there is a parking space and the parking fee. Sometimes I have to drive to show off and eat a food stall in order to pretend to be forced. I feel uneasy. Will the car be towed away with a sticker? The electronic billing system seems to be ticking in my head. People eat barbecue and drink draft beer. If they dare to drink until two o'clock in the morning, I will find a reason to sneak to ten o'clock, otherwise the parking fee will be seventy or eighty. I drove to have a barbecue three hours in advance, then paid the parking fee of seventy or eighty, and then drove home for two hours. Am I here to have fun or suffer?

The eighth thinking difference. The biggest benefit. Broad vision, stable mentality and strong sense of family responsibility. With my own private car, my vision immediately expanded infinitely, and I could go wherever I wanted. Weekend holiday, checked the raiders, and left the next day. See your parents, go in big bags, and go back in big bags. When someone gives someone a ride, someone picks it up, someone pulls it, and someone goes to the hospital, don't worry about not getting a taxi. Sitting in the car, the family has a strong sense of responsibility. Driving a good car makes your family safe and comfortable, which is the first.

Finally, write a few words about the experience of buying a car, and have some suggestions: First, since you want to buy a car, you should buy a slightly better one. Some people say that the standard of buying a car is twice the annual salary. For example, if you earn 200 thousand a year, you have to buy a car with 200 thousand. In my opinion, the annual salary can be 2 times in big cities and 3-4 times in small cities. The car is not only a matter of face, but also the safety of the whole family. Brand premium will definitely enhance your value, pride, self-confidence and exchangeable value. Vehicles are really worth a penny, and safety comes first.

Second, people in the system should conform to the hidden rules of the unit. No matter how rich you are, never buy a luxury car. Don't exceed your income level too much. In people's impression, Bentley, Rolls-Royce, Maserati and other luxury cars are basically not discussed. Some people don't know them. Luxury cars recognize BBA. You buy a 300,000 Mercedes-Benz or BMW, people think it's a luxury car, and everyone thinks you're the big boss, especially when you go back to your hometown. However, Audi's car is just right, unlike Mercedes-Benz BMW, which irritates the eyes and won't be annoying.

Third, buy an old car. Ordinary people can't change models often, and there is no need to follow fashion. Some models, like pop songs, lost weight quickly, and after a few years, they were embarrassed to drive out. Some models are like classic songs, sung from generation to generation and never out of date. Mercedes-Benz, BMW and Audi all belong to this classic diamond. They haven't changed the shape of the car for decades. Every year, the new model is partially brightened, but it is still an eternal classic as a whole.