Is there any practical blind date method?

1, the first impression is very important, that is, as the saying goes, "I feel, feel or call", but some people think that the first impression is deceptive? Do you believe in first impressions?

There is a concept of first cause effect in psychology, which means that once the first impression is established, the subsequent information organization and understanding will be completed according to the first impression. Recency effect means that the latest information has a greater impact than the original information. Generally speaking, recency effect is easy to appear between familiar people, especially between close people. The first cause effect is easy to appear between unfamiliar people, but it is more obvious in the process of blind date. recency effect will play a greater role in future communication.

2. What kind of mentality should you keep when dating and how to show your best side? For example, blind dates introduced by girlfriends or relatives and friends are far from their own preferences. How to deal with it without hurting feelings?

Treat it with a normal heart, don't hold too much hope, or the greater the disappointment; Don't be pessimistic, otherwise there will be internal emotions before you leave, and the whole process will make you and the other party feel bad. Just behave appropriately and be natural and generous. If the blind date recommended by the introducer is very different from his own preferences, he can politely refuse at the first time, but please explain his preferences and requirements to the introducer. The clearer you express, the more the introducer can feel your trust in him/her and your sincerity in blind date, and will pay more attention to your feelings and introduce more suitable people to you in the future.

3. What do you need to dress up and pay attention to on blind date occasions?

It is necessary to dress appropriately, at least to respect yourself and each other. But don't be too sexy and exaggerated. The first meeting scares each other, because reassuring people is more important. You can choose light blue, light green, pink, lavender and other colors that can make people feel relaxed when they see it, while bright yellow is easy to excite anxious nerves in people's brains, so try to avoid this color. If you are talkative and extroverted, wearing big red can easily make the other person who meets you for the first time think that you are too confident and strong. You can skillfully use other reds with different purity and lightness, or decorate them with red accessories, which will bring a festive feeling and is not exaggerated.

4. I am too busy at work at ordinary times. I hope to use the long vacation to cast a wide net and concentrate on blind date to see if it is reliable.

Focusing on blind date seems to be efficient, but it will make you feel aesthetic fatigue, which will lead to illusion or disgust for blind date. Therefore, although it is a long vacation, please do it appropriately according to the principle of quality assurance.

Some older women usually have a narrow working circle and like online dating. How to avoid encountering online marriage swindlers?

Be sure to find a regular dating network. You can give the other person's ID number to the staff for identity verification, and get to know more before meeting. If you encounter it, please choose a safe place, such as a public place. And before establishing mutual trust, it is not appropriate to disclose your personal information too much in online chat, such as home address and work place. Control the time of the first date and insist on going home by yourself.

6. Both sides have a "mate selection standard". How to choose and persist? Many older unmarried men and women are looking for a husband or wife who is mentally compatible with themselves and has a good taste in life. They say that they have never met an object that meets their ideal conditions and makes them like it ... If they feel this way for a long time, they need to ask themselves whether they are too demanding, too perfectionist and picky about others.