What do you think of "I'll give you another chance and give you 300 thousand bride price in three days, and my brother needs money badly"

Love tests sincerity and courage; Marriage tests quality and heart. It is not easy to find a like-minded lover who will accompany you for life.

Everyone's story will start with romance and surprise, but it doesn't necessarily end with eternity and togetherness. Time has tested people's hearts, and many people finally face breaking up.

First love is sweet and beautiful. But when it comes to marriage, we suddenly face unexpected problems. Only then can we fully understand our lover's heart.

There is no perfect love. Only by taking a step back from the differences, understanding and respecting each other can the two sides reach an agreement and usher in a better life after marriage as soon as possible.

Be responsive, be honest and open. But if marriage is based on a large number of material needs, it is likely to bring regret in the end.

0 1. Su Kai (pseudonym) joined the work very early because he was not admitted to his favorite university. He is steady and steady, so his income has increased steadily. At the age of 25, he met Xiaoya (a pseudonym) who was still studying.

In the face of this beautiful, lovely, playful and lively girl, Su Kai was soon tempted. During the communication, he subsidized the other party's living expenses of 2000 yuan per month and obeyed her in everything. Xiaoya promised to be his girlfriend after graduation.

A year later, after Xiaoya graduated, Su Kai helped her rent a house and gave her more subsidies, but Xiaoya repeatedly shirked the issue of love relationship. Su Kai later learned that she had many suitors, so it was difficult to make a decision.

Su Kai is not a conformist, he has the idea of shrinking. However, before long, Xiaoya took the initiative to retain it. In the following relationship, Su Kai is meticulous. In his view, this relationship is really hard-won.

In the three years together, Su Kai has been very generous. Although his income is high, he has never saved any money. At the age of 29, he planned to start his own small company, but this idea was strongly opposed by Xiaoya.

"We are going to get married soon. You spent all your money. What about the bride price? " Su Kai promised: "Give less bride price first, and it's okay to write you an iou. Now I will seize the opportunity and I will definitely make up the money for you within two years. "

After repeated persuasion, the two set the bride price at 200,000. However, before receiving the license, Xiaoya learned that Su Kai did not buy a house. She once again showed disappointment: "Let my friends know that I am married and have no room, so I won't be laughed at?"

Xiaoya later directly hacked Sukayla. In order to save love, Su Kai even borrowed money to change the bride price to 300,000. However, no matter how sincere he expressed it, the other party was unmoved, and finally the two faced breaking up.

03. It seems that Su Kai had a dream, invested a lot of time and energy, and finally got such an ending. He is really unwilling. After that, he can only concentrate on his work, after all, his work has pinned all his hopes.

In just one year, Su Kai has made some achievements. He not only paid the down payment on the house, but also bought a car. On his birthday, he really received a phone call from Xiaoya. He said in a complaining tone:

"Didn't you say you would always take care of me? I've been waiting for you for a year, and now I'll give you another chance. I'll give you 300 thousand bride price in three days. I promise to get back together with you, just as my brother needs money badly. "

Su Kai knew that Xiaoya had actually been dating for a whole year, and now she didn't find herself because of true love. He then replied, "No, don't give me this chance. I don't think I deserve you. "

Long-term sincerity cannot be exchanged for response, and continuous efforts cannot be exchanged for sincerity. For a long time, Su Kai didn't get the heartfelt attention from the other side. This dramatic result also made him thoroughly see through the essence of each other.

Xiaoya is a naive girl. In love, she pays special attention to the situation of the other half. Vanity is too heavy and material. Maybe at first, she completely misinterpreted "love", and finally it is naturally difficult to get true love.

Time will eventually test people's hearts, and everyone's routines and careful thoughts will be exposed. If you are blinded by money and always strive for your own interests, it will be difficult to keep the fate, and eventually your lover will leave.

Girls can pursue a better life, but they can't treat marriage as a transaction. If you meet an active lover with unlimited potential, give him more time. Short-sighted, quick success, is equal to self-destruction of happiness.

A little more honesty will lead to more trust in love; More understanding, more warmth in love; A little more tolerance, love will be more happiness. Your state of mind and realm determine the level of love.

It is undeniable that the generation of good feelings has a certain relationship with the face value. We don't object to paying attention to appearance, but we should understand each other's hearts when we get along.

What ultimately determines the success or failure of a relationship and marriage is the mode of operation and the hearts of both parties. Choose a lover with good character and responsibility, and happiness will accompany you all your life.