My mother always told me that the next-door neighbor bullied her, and then she would blame me in turn, saying that I was timid and couldn't help her. What should I do?

Don't you realize where the crux of the problem lies? In fact, the reason why your mother is in this situation is related to her personality, but it is also related to your father's divorce.

Over the years, it's not easy for her to raise you as a father and a mother alone. It is also because of the psychological shadow brought by single-parent families and divorce that she is a little out of touch with society. She lives in a very self-centered circle, with no one to tell, no one to listen, no one to understand, and her relationship with her neighbors is getting more and more harmonious. This is all accumulated bit by bit. It should be a psychological problem. There is something wrong with the mental condition.

To tell you the truth, you can't give her spiritual satisfaction and hope no matter how objectively you deal with the problem. This will only make her more and more anxious. I also see that you are a very filial child. What you can do now is to take your mother to the hospital as soon as possible. I guess your mother will be very resistant to seeing a doctor. You shouldn't take her to see a psychiatrist. You can see a Chinese doctor or a psychologist. If these two things are combined, the effect will be better. If your house is big enough, wait for your mother to adjust better and take her home to take care of her, so that she can feel your son's affection and love. Even if it is inconvenient, you should always pick up your mother for dinner, chat and enjoy the family happiness you should enjoy.

Being a mother of a single-parent family is really not easy. I should have had a pillar to support my family, but unfortunately I left, so the burden of my family fell on a woman. Isn't there a saying that women are weak and strong! Your mother did it and did it well. She married your daughter-in-law and became a family. Over the years, her sufferings have angered her. Who should she talk to about her psychological dissatisfaction? So, in order to protect you and this family, she may have gone astray in her mind. This is not the result she wants, but she has unconsciously become what she is today. To put it bluntly, it is not for this family, but for your better growth to form today's situation.

Anyway, I hope you don't blame your mother any more, or find a suitable and acceptable method for her to recuperate and treat in time. When it gets to a serious level, not only will she be upset, but you will also be in more trouble.