My boyfriend is going to attend his ex's wedding. Should he go?

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There are two possible situations when a boyfriend wants to attend his ex's wedding:

First, he hasn't let go of his predecessor.

In this case, you can see from the clues whether he still has feelings for his predecessor. You can let him go, but you must go with him. You can see the real state of him and his predecessor, and your position in his mind. This may be an opportunity to rethink and test your relationship with your boyfriend. You don't have to be afraid, and you don't have to strictly prohibit contact, because only by clearly understanding his heart can you make the next decision.

Second, he has let go of his predecessor.

If he has let go of his predecessor and returned to the state of ordinary friends from lovers, there will be no gap between them, and they can also be regarded as ordinary friends, and they don't have to die of old age. It is better to get along with each other calmly than to die of old age. Hate as much as you like, and you won't care if you let go. Moreover, if they let go to find a lover who is more suitable for them, they may get along in another mode. Many people can become good friends after divorce, what's more, lovers may break up.

In fact, on the surface, it seems to be the relationship between boyfriend and ex, but your entanglement actually reflects the problems between you and your boyfriend. Maybe you don't trust him, or maybe you don't know him very well. Your insecurity and confusion reflect your insecurity and anxiety about your relationship. If you have enough sense of security and confidence, your boyfriend's ex can't influence your heart.

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