How to treat the sentence "Xiu Ai En died quickly"?

There is some truth in this sentence. Showing love is actually to get praise from others and seek recognition, and showing love is also a manifestation of insecurity, so this kind of love has a high probability of death.

Love is a private emotion that only belongs to two people and cannot be shared with others. Excessive showing off, that is, showing off, will not give you praise or blessings from the relative majority in the surrounding groups, but will stimulate others' subconscious malicious speculation and jealousy in social relations.

People are social attributes, and society is dynamic, so showing love greatly increases the risk of love, and the death probability of showing love will be higher than that of not showing love.

However, it is definitely wrong to generalize that "show love dies quickly", because the basic show love should be available to most people. The person who fell in love just now will think that the person I love is very good and make me feel that I can be with her. I want to tell the world that I am very happy. Therefore, proper show of love will not only affect feelings, but also increase emotions for each other's lives.

But if you show your love unilaterally, it can reflect that this relationship may encounter some potential problems. Too frequent intimacy in public places is mostly the externalization of psychological motives. In fact, the parties are seeking partner recognition and social recognition.

The essential problem is that this kind of emotion lacks security, so we must constantly show our possession of an emotion to the public in order to gain a sense of security. This belongs to the type of "showing love and dying quickly", because the essential problems in this relationship have not been discovered and solved, and will eventually usher in a prominent ending.

Get along with each other, especially lovers and lovers. "Love is always simple, but it's too difficult to get along with!" Couples and couples get along for a long time, and their feelings gradually deepen. In fact, the most important thing is not to eulogize "love" through the circle of friends, but how much tolerance and understanding two people can get along with.

The correct way is to do less superficial work and pay more attention to your love life. Because if you are happy, only you know, you just need to know.