Don't want to care about anything, just want to live alone, is it normal?

Normal, in fact, many people have experienced this psychological process, just for a long time. Some people may be just a moment, and some people have been wandering for many years.

I have this idea because my business failed, I am ashamed to face my parents and dare not meet my girlfriend who has been in love for many years. The fall of a "friend" disheartened me. I just want to find a place where no one knows me, so that I can die alone and freely.

But after the trough, I still want to live, and my parents need to support me. My parents, grandparents still expect me to get married and have children. Think about my age and great youth for me to enjoy and struggle, and slowly I will come out.

The same is true of friends around me now. They are not married in their thirties, and they don't even have a stable girlfriend.

I remember what he said after drinking: "I'm tired, I'm really tired. I really want to live alone all my life. I don't have to think about cars, houses and children! " As much as you earn and spend, it is enough to save a pension for your parents ... "

As a result, I got up the next day, and I had to work when I should, and I had to go on a blind date. People are always gregarious animals, and it is impossible to live so selfish. It is inevitable that there will be times of depression, but there will always be a rainbow after the storm.

There may be all kinds of difficulties in front of you, but don't give up life easily. When you see the bright side of life, you will definitely rekindle your fighting spirit. Believe me, tomorrow will be better.

If you have no relatives in this world, I think it is normal for you to think so. If you have relatives, this idea is not normal.

I have had this idea before. I don't care about anything. I just want to live a good life. I don't say this because I have no relatives or friends. It is because from junior high school to leaving society, I have lived alone for nearly 20 years and have long been used to living alone. You have to rely on yourself in everything. If you are ill, you must take care of yourself. Sometimes I feel lonely, but I must be strong. I didn't know until I grew up that everything really depends on myself. Relatives can help you for a while, but not for a lifetime. People may go through all kinds of tests when they are born, and no one's life is smooth sailing. But in the end, you can't care about anything, because people are emotional animals and naturally care about and miss your closest relatives: "Parents, brothers and sisters, although they don't contact often or even rarely, will still miss them in their hearts."

If relatives are still there, but they don't care about anything, they just want to live alone, just like in TV dramas, they see through the world of mortals and become nuns, and their six roots are clean. If you can do it, on the one hand, I admire you, but on the other hand, I think it's a performance of evading responsibility, leaving your loved ones behind and taking care of yourself.

But anyway, I hope you have a good life. Nine times out of ten, the most important thing is happiness, because the world can't satisfy our desire.

Finally, there is a word of encouragement: "Be yourself and face life and life positively and optimistically"!

One's mood, one's world. Everything is a person, since fate has chosen me, I should bear it, nothing to be afraid of! People live in a mood and enjoy happiness! Nothing more than loneliness, what's the matter! Go to work, do what you want to do, and exchange your labor for harvest. I am such a person, to see the scenery, to observe life, to appreciate the wind and rain, to experience the joys and sorrows of life. A person's happy mood is the highlight of life! Give yourself a hug, give yourself a smile, open a door for yourself, let yourself go out of the inner world and see that the clouds are light and the wind is light and the sky is high. Of course, there will inevitably be some bitterness and embarrassment, and there will always be pain in my heart, and I don't want to mention it. Just live it well! Throw away those real troubles from your heart forever. I once said to myself, living is value, and live every day with the best mood! There is no turning back in life. See with your own eyes how long the road is and how high the sky is! Life is only once, how about creating your own limited life! Life and death are not important to me. When it's time to leave, my heart is smiling! This is my confession and what I want to say now. I hope you don't laugh! [Like] [Like] [Like] [Pray] [Pray] [Pray] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose]

Why do you live alone? Each of us is an independent individual. Let's just say that we have been walking alone since childhood. Although we have parents' care and brothers and sisters' company, there are many things we can't tell them. Even if they listen, they may not understand, and even lead to preaching and supercilious look. More seriously, we will beat and scold, so there are many things we have been hiding in our hearts. I dare not tell others, including my closest lover and family, and it is impossible to meet a bosom friend. The so-called good brothers may not laugh at you behind your back, but they will also be sarcastically abused when they say it online. Therefore, some things can only stay in my heart forever. It's good to be with him, and he will be with you. Aren't you lonely at all? At least there is lonely company. Loneliness is a friend of people like us, which is more real than being in a crowd. Take me for example, as a wardrobe, hahahaha, who can you tell this kind of thing? Dad, mom, wife, children, good friends, unless you don't want to live, you can only face it alone in the dead of night. In Rousseau's words, people are born free, but they are everywhere in chains. Look at everyone on the street, everyone has their own worries.

There are several situations where you will feel this way. 1 You have anxiety, depression or autism, so you don't like contact with people. Most people have anxiety. You have a high IQ. The higher the IQ, the less people like outsiders to take part in accidental amusement and get along with others. They think it is a waste of time. People with high IQ usually spend their time on improving themselves and doing things they like when they are alone, and have no time to spend on interpersonal relationships. You have a family full of troubles and quarrels or make you dissatisfied. A person in a high-pressure environment or an unhealthy family for a long time will cause permanent psychological damage. Over time, he will have a sense of self-protection to the outside world and start a state of self-protection. He will subconsciously become unwilling to intersect with other people's lives, dislike being close to others and love incompetence, and feel that all relationships are very troublesome.

But in fact, it's nothing. Remember, your life depends on yourself. How can I live happily? There is no difference between normal and abnormal. There is nothing, so there is no dust.

I seem to have posted answers to similar questions last year. It's normal. Why can't you live alone? As long as it meets the conditions of self-care, there is nothing wrong with living alone. It is better to be a good person, and it is better to be a bad person than not to want to live. As for loneliness, it's just a psychological thing. Your heart is lonely, Gaotang Mansion has nothing to do with you, relatives and friends seem to disappear, and the food is tasteless. I really can't help it. Maybe only you know where the key is. We have several reasons to be happy. Why not? Even if a person lives, it will make life interesting, not sad and unhappy. Space is limited and I don't want to expand. Anyway, back to the point, do you just want to live a normal life alone? The answer is normal. Is it normal to talk alone? The answer is not normal!

(brief discussion)

It must be abnormal.

Because of helplessness and helplessness, I am lonely and don't care. Take the abnormal as normal, and live like this for a long time, and mistake it for normal.

Don't want to care about anything, just want to live alone, is it normal? Finally, when you think like me, we have the same rotten tastes, and that's how I live. It's normal!

I think it is normal. Whether a person is happy or not, don't judge him with secular eyes. Just be yourself. For example, transvestites, homosexuals and the Dink family, if you think others are different, they will enjoy it. As long as it is not illegal, you can break through the secular vision and do whatever you want. Your present state does not represent your future state.

Live a normal and high life, regardless of other people's opinions, because the experience is different, not to mention relatives and friends, even your first-born compatriots and biological parents can't understand. Only you know how many blood bubbles and boils you have walked and how many boils you have grown on this road. Boils are removed again and again by ruthless hands. Actually, I'm telling you that I'm tired.