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A New Interpretation of Disciple Rules: "Clothes and the Generation Gap"
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Speaking of dressing, it's a fashion topic. Since it is a fashionable thing, it has a distinct time. There are obvious differences in the aesthetic standards of clothes in different times, and the generation gap between parents and children has been the most intuitive embodiment in dressing. Schools have an innate advantage in dealing with children's clothes. Uniform school uniforms eliminate all differences, but when we return to our families, contradictions naturally arise. As an investor in clothes, adults naturally want their children's aesthetics to be closer to themselves, while children disdain the taste of adults. The aesthetic pursuit of both sides is completely opposite, and they often lose both sides because of buying clothes. Of course, such problems are not only reflected in clothes, but also in children's hairstyles, which is something that schools and parents are very entangled in. In the case of uniform clothing, children cherish the unique hair on their bodies, and then their heads become the commanding heights to highlight their individuality. However, some schools will make relevant regulations on students' hairstyles, such as girls' hair should not be shawled and boys' hair should not be over the eyebrows. I remember when I was in high school, there was a city-wide moral education exam called Ma Jun Cup every year. Students call it shaving cups, because the main purpose of this exam is to shave the manes of the black sheep in school. On the eve of every inspection, the director of the Political and Educational Affairs Office will stand at the school gate angrily, with a ruler in his left hand and a pair of bright scissors in his right hand. Anyone who sees a hairstyle that is suspected to be unqualified will be dragged over and poked on his forehead with a big ruler. Anyone who crosses this line will be shot with scissors. However, no matter how strict the school rules are, children will still make various efforts within the scope allowed by the school rules. Boys wear hats, and girls hide their hair with hairpins like they used to hide food, in order to avoid the enemy's search and try to keep the spark of their next personality. There is such a joke that a school advocates boys to keep short hair and stipulates that hair should not exceed eyebrows. A boy simply shaved his eyebrows and kept long hair. A joke is a joke, but it tells us a truth that personality can't be erased by rules.
In my opinion, there is no need for parents to interfere too much with their children's dressing, and there is no need to worry about their children's worries. It's not that serious. In short, only they are young and you are old. It is true that parents are always worried about their children's poor study, but you think that a little personality in clothes and hair is a precursor to poor study, which is your logical confusion. This kind of disordered logical reasoning is actually inherited from the previous generation. In the early days of reform and opening up, bell bottoms and frog mirrors were all the rage, but this trend was not ashamed of the older generation and was regarded as the standard configuration of hooligans. If a child wears a pair of trousers with slightly wider legs, it will be regarded as a warning signal by parents and teachers that he is about to degenerate, while if a young man parades in the city with a frog mirror, he is almost certain to be a hooligan. This reasoning of judging a book by its cover is illogical. Put on fancy clothes and you can become a hooligan. If the school designs Cheng Hongjun-style school uniforms, you don't have to worry about children not studying hard, because they should have the spirit of the Long March. If clothes really determine a person's character, why should we educate them?
Parents' vision is long-term. The so-called three-year-old sees the old, and seven-year-old sees the old. More worrying. He naturally changed when he grew up. When I was at school, I also felt that beggars' clothes could be personalized. My parents didn't buy it, so they picked up a hole in their pants. Now you let me wear it, I won't wear it. What kind of things do you do at what age? Don't you feel horrible if your children listen to model operas with their grandparents as soon as they get home? Regarding children's pursuit of individuality, we not only do not interfere, but also encourage them. Why is the relationship between parents and children always so tense now? Because he thinks you don't understand him and respect him. Every child has a rebellious period. In the meantime, the more you interfere with him, the more disgusted he is. At the end of this opposition, he doesn't care whether he likes it or not. It doesn't matter what kind of clothes he wears, as long as it can make your blood pressure rise, your heart beat faster and you have a nervous breakdown. That's good. Children pursue individuality, and parents should boldly encourage and support those who don't even have the courage to change their hair styles and talk about creativity. This tolerant attitude is not only conducive to the cultivation of children's personality, but also conducive to bridging the generation gap between the two generations and the development of family education.
There are also some parents who think it doesn't matter what they wear, but their children's clothes are so vulgar and disgusting that they expose aesthetic defects, so they must interfere. We should know that simple prohibition cannot change children's aesthetics, and cultivating children's healthy aesthetic taste is the fundamental way to solve the problem. We will discuss this topic in detail in a later article.
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