After divorce, many people don’t want to get married again.

When marrying someone, most people’s vision for the future is often very beautiful.

I feel that I will be very happy in the future, and I really hope that I and the other person can live together forever.

Unfortunately, imagination is beautiful, but reality is often cruel.

No matter how much you want to be with the other person for a long time when you get married, as time goes by, the relationship with each other may not be able to be maintained forever. It will only fall apart easily and never happen again. the future.

Divorce is always a helpless move, but it is also a fact that many people have to face. Moreover, the current divorce rate is really high, and being separated from someone is nothing new.

Many people will choose to divorce. The difference is that some people are still willing to love and enter into the next marriage after divorce, while some people are simply unwilling to love anyone anymore. , and don’t want to get married again.

A person who is unwilling to remarry after a divorce does not mean that he does not want happiness, but is a little disappointed in marriage and is more open-minded.

Discover that marriage is nothing more than that.

I have a friend. She and her husband have been in love since college. Both of them are good-looking, have good family backgrounds, and are quite capable. They are a couple that everyone envies.

At graduation, when everyone chose to break up, they just stood firmly by each other's side.

Later, they both got good jobs, and with the help of their parents, they also got their own houses. With the expectations of many people, they entered into marriage, which made many people envious for a while. Incessantly.

Everyone thought that after getting married, they would be very happy. However, after living under the same roof, they often quarreled over various trivial matters, and often felt as if they were not together. Don't know each other.

In the end, they didn't even quarrel anymore. No one bothered to talk to anyone. The whole room was quiet and they all felt very depressed.

After only three years of marriage, unexpectedly, they both couldn't wait to divorce.

Most people who enter into marriage will discover the truth sooner or later. It turns out that marriage is not what they imagined. It is not sweet at all, it is just plain, not so warm, and often... It's all just a piece of cake, all kinds of trivial things.

After experiencing expectations to disappointment, a little disillusionment in love, and marriage just like a pool of stagnant water, many people's impression of marriage will really become very bad.

I don’t feel how different it will be to be with different people. I just feel that marrying someone I like so much is just so embarrassing. Then being with someone else is probably just that. It will be worse.

So, if marriage can only be like this, if you have experienced it once, you will not want to experience it a second time or repeat it again.

It seems better to be alone.

In the past, in people's minds, marriage was a necessity, and everyone should do so. If you didn't get married, you would become a joke in the eyes of others and look very abnormal.

At that time, men needed to get married to continue their relationship, and women needed to be dependent on men and rely on men to support themselves.

However, as times continue to develop, at this stage, people's concepts have already undergone earth-shaking changes.

Even if you are still single at a very young age, many people will not say anything. Even if you are not married, you will still not appear to be very different. More importantly, both men and women can often be very different. Independence means being able to support yourself and survive independently.

When people’s ideas are so open and friendly, when a person can live a pretty good life without getting married, or even live a very comfortable life, then in the eyes of many people, marriage is really will no longer be so attractive.

Some people, even if they have never been married, will still feel that a person is quite good. Those who have been divorced and did not get what they wanted in marriage, but just lived in pain, will Comparing the status of one person and two people will make you like one person more.

If you just live by yourself, you won’t always be annoyed by someone, you won’t always be upset because of someone, you won’t always worry about gains and losses, and you won’t always think about whether the other person will be sorry. Myself, feeling like that would really be pretty good.

In addition, when you are alone, you will be able to focus more energy on yourself, do what you like, do what you want, and make everything happen. The way you want it to be.

It must be said that in this era, people’s awareness of independence and ability to be alone have become stronger and stronger, and there are more and more various entertainment projects. In this case, Being alone is really not a problem.

After divorce, many people will still be addicted to love and long for marriage.

After many people get divorced, they only see through marriage and are not willing to love anyone so hard anymore, and they are not willing to get married at all.

I finally got out of it, and I really don’t want to fall into it easily and make myself so miserable again.

For the rest of my life, I just want to focus on myself and take good care of the people who are more important to me.

I don’t need to look complete. In the eyes of others, I seem to be very happy. All I want is to feel happy. I have not wronged myself. I like myself and my life very much.

In fact, everyone can choose how to live after divorce.

I still want to get married again. I hope to meet a good man. If I am confident that I will be good in the future, then get married.

If you really don’t want to get married and really have no hope for marriage anymore, then forget it.

No matter how you live, it’s your whole life. It doesn’t matter whether you are the same as others, as long as you like it.

Text/Tan Meng