The routine of married men picking up girls

Beware of three common ways of picking up girls for married men. The sooner women know, the better. In feelings, men are visual animals and women are auditory animals. Men are easily attracted to the opposite sex and express their inner love with touching sweet words, while women are not like men. Even if she meets a man who fell in love at first sight, she will only miss him secretly in her heart. This is the difference between men and women, like a raging wave. In the face of love, men know how to win each other's hearts better than women, which may be an innate ability. Using skills for love is a skill, but if this skill is used by men with ulterior motives, such as married men, it will become a "routine", so women must be wary of those scheming married men, otherwise they will definitely suffer. Married men have love experience. They know what to do to please women and how to disguise themselves so that women will never give up on him. In fact, when a married man pursues a woman, there are only a few routines. If you know them, you will avoid being fooled. Routine 1: Pretend to be pathetic, sympathize with a married man and try to win the heart of another woman. This routine is commonly used. They described themselves as the weak at the wedding. For example, the wife doesn't do any housework at home every day, and she wants him to do everything; For example, in his family, his wife is too strict with his economy, which makes him lose the dignity of a man ... Men speak ill of their wives behind their backs just to get the understanding of the women in front of them, because they know that all women have a virginity to save the weak. Men will also exaggerate their hard work for their families, thus showing that they are a good husband and father who love their families very much. Once a woman expresses sympathy for this man's experience, she will give him the kindest tenderness, and the man will seize the opportunity to express his love for the woman, especially hoping that the woman can understand him. The woman was soft-hearted, and he felt grateful on the surface, but he felt very strong inside, and finally cheated her into his hands. Routine 2: Pretend to be mature and considerate. Men know that most women like mature men, so they just like them. They pretend to be mature, have no temper, are resolute in character, think of women everywhere, and be responsive. In this way, any woman will be confused by his gentle trap and feel that she is stupid to meet true love. Women know too little about men. They don't know that sometimes men actually have a purpose and just want this person. A scheming married man knows a woman's weakness and knows what to do to have a good impression on him. If a woman knows a man's routine, you can spend more time getting to know him. If you are calm about everything he says, men will lose patience and they will change their goals. If you want to test whether a person really loves you, it is how he helped you when he met something for a long time. Routine 3: Be kind to you desperately and make you feel dependent on him. Generally, men with high emotions will use it. At first, a man will try his best to get close to you, often chat with you, talk about what you are most interested in and say what you like best. Suddenly you will feel that you and he are the same person, and there is a feeling of deja vu. When a man approaches you and treats you well, you will gradually become dependent on him, and he will change his strategy and become a little cold. However, he has always habitually appeared in your life. At this time, he will take the opportunity to tell you that he snubbed you because he had a good impression on you. He was afraid that he could not control that impulse, but in the end he hoped you would become his lover. Sun Tzu's art of war says, "Know yourself and know yourself, and you won't be in a hundred battles." Emotionally, if women know the routine that men often use to pick up girls, they will not be easily cheated. Suppose a woman finds herself in love with a man with a family, and must stop her loss in time. Those who find that the other person has a family, but still can't live without it, and even want to save the other person, are either short of money or lack of love. On the other hand, women must become mature, because only mature women can see that men's routines are actually sugar-coated shells. The routine of married men in pick up hot chicks is 2 1. In terms of choice, first of all, he will choose his colleagues in the company or cooperative unit, as well as married women who have been in contact (I will say why below). He can't say that his face value is the best, but he can generally accept it, so a beautiful wife is still the most dangerous. 2. The routine starts from the first sight. He will go to the place where his sister works to chat during work hours, and every time her sister speaks, she looks at each other tenderly and looks straight. Of course, my sister's remarks are definitely supportive and recognized. I talk to my sister for an hour every day. Do the sisters feel that they have found a bosom friend? After a while, natural WeChat began to speak. Of course, married men always have attractions, such as singing. For example, speaking softly is artistic. Of course, this is what I summarized according to my colleagues. Most married and educated girls always expect to be noticed. I have been married for a long time, and I am not in a hurry when I am in love. It's better to remove this premise. A married man will ask his sister to talk about her family, life and work, and express envy and even jealousy, so that you can talk about whether your sister feels floating. 4. Next, you need contact. Married men will take their younger sister to dinner and go out to play under the pretext of work, and will certainly not take care of her publicly, but will create opportunities for two people to be alone from time to time in the process. Let my sister feel concerned, but never ask her out alone. He will tell her that she wants to laugh when she sees you and likes you so much. At this time, he feels that the time is almost ripe, so you should be alert to her. Next, the relationship between the married man and his sister is very good. To Lan Yan's bosom friend, although ambiguous, there is still a line of defense from the minefield. He will talk to his sister about his family's difficulties, his struggles, and he wants to vent. He will express his feelings with his sister, make him feel comfortable and happy, and make her feel that she has enough weight in his heart. All the above married men have maintained the status that we are friends and good friends, without giving gifts or excessive behavior. For such a period of time, has your sister been worried about you, and unconsciously has made you a little dependent? No matter whether this man looks ordinary or not, you won't think him ugly during this period of contact. This should be visual recognition. 6. Next, we need to enlarge the move. A married man will shyly hug his sister's waist, touch her hand and tell you quietly that he has strong feelings for you. He likes your smell. Would your sister refuse to have sex with you? I will be under normal thinking, but with the preparation some time ago, married girls will want this kind of excitement. I will think about it once. I know what I am doing, and I will never hurt myself or my family. 7. Next, I will recruit girls and unconsciously keep up with the arrangement of married men. He will take his sister to his house during lunch break and drive her to an empty street corner. There is no doubt that there will be no arrest. The married man is confident that he will arrange for his wife and children to ensure that he will never come home. He can take his sister home in an hour at most, and he will send her away, thus starting his cheating life. 8. I don't know when married men started chatting like that and saying sweet words, but when he wants to solve his physiology, he will talk to his sister about the topic. At this time, my sister needs to know that he has a new love and has set foot on two or three boats. He won't say let go. According to colleagues, a woman's relationship can't exceed two years at most. It will not be fresh and cold after one year, but it will take several months to completely separate. He will adapt his sister to life without him. He said it would not affect her future work contact. Do you want to say that this married man is love rat? I feel the same way. What's more, he actually summed up what kind of girls will last longer. One is that the size can grab each other, and the other is that there is no objection to being on call; As long as I think my sister wants more, I will give up decisively. In love rat's words, as long as I give spiritually, I must not be doped with substances. This is the best way out. I asked her, won't girls be sad after breaking up? He answered me like this. They are married, and they can't abandon their marriage. Therefore, they will not expose this relationship, nor dare to make excessive moves. Did they eat their sister's psychology, give up their struggle and ignore him? In this case, he won't take the initiative to talk to her, and time will heal. Eventually, her sister will let go of this relationship, perhaps psychologically, but on the surface, it will be like nothing happened. Girls, when you meet a married man so close to you, you must keep your eyes open. Women always move from reason to sensibility. Don't feel how powerful you are inside, stay away from love rat. Every normal love for lovelorn women is always more painful, struggling and sad. What's more, such an extramarital affair, without export, will eventually become a heart disease and make you haggard. Married men pick up girls routine 3 No matter how vigorous the love is, it will become dull as water after crossing the long river of years. When this relationship lost its passion and freshness, many men's hearts began to stir. There may be a thief who has no guts at first, but after feeling a sense of excitement, it is difficult to stop, from the initial worry to the final enjoyment. Many women around me have been loved by married men, but in my opinion, the so-called love in the mouth of married men is, in the final analysis, lies and deception. Once you believe it, it will only be yourself who gets hurt in the end. Therefore, as a woman, you must know that married men "pick up girls" will use this routine, and married men "pick up girls" will also use this routine without knowing it. Don't be cheated without knowing it. He looks very young and has a promising career, and there is no marriage in his circle of friends. Even if he chats with you, he will take the initiative to hide his marital status and even reveal what his ideal partner is like. In the face of such a good man, it is difficult for you to control your heart, but once you choose to be with him, you will become the third party in his marriage. If you break up before things are exposed, you won't suffer too much, but once the Lord finds out, it will ruin your reputation and reputation, and it's hard to explain why you jumped into the Yellow River. There are many men who exaggerate the misfortune of marriage. Although they don't hide the fact that they are married, they like to exaggerate their marital misfortune in front of women. It is clearly his problem, but they put all the responsibility on their wives and make themselves victims, so as to gain women's sympathy. If you are simple-minded and have no scheming, it is easy to step into his trap. You think you saved a man who suffered in marriage, but in fact you are the one who was fooled. Lure you with empty promises. When he pursued you, you knew that he had a family. At first, you refused, but later he kept chasing you, telling you all kinds of sweet words and giving you all kinds of empty promises, saying that he would definitely divorce his wife and choose to be with you. Coupled with his excellent acting skills, even a firm heart may be shaken, but if you believe his story, it is equivalent to falling into his trap and finally getting hurt. Therefore, as a woman, we must be cautious and rational emotionally. Don't trust men easily. We must know enough about the common tricks of married men to avoid falling into their trap. Otherwise, I've been cheated and I don't know. I thought I had found the treasure, and it was not worth wasting too much time on such a love rat.