How to make your girlfriend happy? I'm not good at chatting and I don't know what to say.

1 Of course it depends on what your girlfriend likes. What did you say?/Sorry? Aren't you familiar with the early days of love? Hehe, if it's normal in the early days of love, as a man, you should take the initiative to talk to her. You can talk about what you are happy about today. It used to be funny. In this way, she will think you are humorous and care about her. Don't care about her. Even if you like her, she thinks you don't like her. If you have been together for a long time and there is still no topic, then. . . Hehe, I think time is running out! 2. Do not talk about sex. We can talk about life, ideals, diet, customs and society. It seems that your quiet girlfriend doesn't need you to talk to her all the time. As long as you sit quietly beside her, it's fine. But if you are afraid of her boredom, you can pay more attention to telling jokes at ordinary times. There are many on the internet, and all kinds can be found. You can also pay attention to what she usually likes. Music, movies, books and travel. You can even talk about cooking. Talk to her about your childhood, smart things, stupid things. Will feel very kind. You can even talk to her about your parents' love story, which will be a warm and happy story. Quiet girls will like it. It feels like home. Talk about fashion, so that she won't think you are backward and boring ... In fact, if she loves you, these worries are unnecessary. When you really have nothing to say, it is convenient to put on headphones and listen to the same song with her. That's it. I'm not an expert, just giving some advice. I wish you happiness. She asked you to call and explain that she wanted you to associate with her. She was not very familiar with it at first, and the topic was to be found. The key is that you should get involved in her life. You know what she does every day, so you can never finish what you say. You will say everything you meet, what you say and how to deal with it. At first, I thought I'd ask her what she did first, and wait for her to say, for example, she went shopping. Which street did you go to? She said what she bought and what she saw. You just said what you look good in, what the street looks like now and what it used to look like. There is a barbecue shop around the corner, which is delicious. I had dinner with you that day, and then we started talking about snacks, and then we started talking about what to sell to make money. The topic has been changed. That's it. You want to talk about many topics, and your messages should be creative. Don't always ask if you have eaten. For example, you can say, "I'm working, and now I'm resting." I miss you. Did you miss me? " Then she would say, "What do you miss about me?" Just say you're afraid you won't have a good lunch outside. I just had dinner with my colleagues, but it's a pity that you weren't there. Why don't you have dinner with me after work? "Tell her before going to bed at night:" Baby, I miss you so much. It is getting late. Go to bed early and dream of me! "5. It depends on how fast two people think. When there is no topic, they usually think with their heads. Any topic will do. As long as you have something to say, such as trivial things in life, you can say, "Will you help me wash my clothes? "Something like this ... if you have this topic, I believe you can keep talking in a joke. Ha ha laugh ... It's time for your smart brain ... 6. Chat? About what? Chatting, of course. Starting from a day, for example, it is hot enough today. Fortunately, the T-shirt I bought yesterday has been changed, otherwise it will be discounted, but the style doesn't feel good. Are you free this weekend? Come with me to buy a pair of pants. Lunch is on me. It's very hot today. I didn't eat a good meal at noon. I can't eat. The canteen in my unit tastes terrible. What about yours? Are there any good restaurants near you? Hey. . . We are not depressed here. Similarly, many topics can fall from the sky, right? This is a situation where there is nothing to talk about when it is awkward at first. Hum, there is nothing to talk about when you are familiar with it. 7. Chatting with the person you like should not only make her happy, but also make her feel that you are connotative, literate, warm and considerate. Her trouble is that you should calm down and enlighten her, and don't make her more annoyed. Otherwise, she will think that you are incompetent and can't give her a sense of dependence and security. You are more angry than she is when she is wronged. You'd better be so angry that you want to bully her to pieces. Because many times, when a person is wronged and someone is more angry than her, she will not be angry, but will gradually get rid of the heavy feeling of being bullied and become happy. Be sure to give her a reassuring and warm "good night, dear" before going to bed every day. 5. Pay more attention to the weather. When it's warm and hot, send a text message telling her to get dressed, neither too cold nor too hot. 6. Pay more attention to nutrition and common sense of life, tell her that eating more red dates will make her beautiful, and drink more brown sugar water during menstruation ... so that he can always feel your gentleness and thoughtfulness. If you do this, she will rely on text messages and phone calls. Because your thoughtfulness has been integrated into her whole life. 8. Ask her about her work or study, or talk about yourself, and what she has been happy or unhappy about recently. If you have a good relationship, you are saying something disgusting ... haha, I have never tried it myself ... 9. Tell her honestly! Just say, "I just want to call you, but I don't know what to say. I just want to hear your voice." "Then I don't have to teach you how to be disgusting! Remember, the most important thing is honesty! Say whatever comes to mind! 10, 1 1, 12, I think men and women in love talk about everything (of course, it's embarrassing not to mention sex at first). We can talk about learning problems, trivial things in class, odds and ends in life, our own ideals (but don't always take ideals too seriously, otherwise they will be considered unrealistic) ... If both sides are interested in each other, they will never care about what you are saying, but all your actions, ideas, opinions and opinions (alas ... not even) ... How to do this? Tell me! Who knows this? I'll tell you what you can't talk about: don't talk about the moon during the day, don't talk about goblins at night, don't talk about eating in the toilet, don't talk about capsizing at sea, don't talk about your ex-girlfriend, don't talk about your ex-cellmate, don't talk about your girlfriend's shortcomings, and don't talk about your own advantages. . . . . . Do you know what to talk about? Hehe, I wish you a successful conversation! Falling in love is not a topic given to you by the composition teacher. That depends on your own sincere feelings. Two good men and women will have endless words together. If you have nothing to say to the girl you like, it means that you haven't talked about your girlfriend yet. It is absolutely impossible for a mature man to have nothing to say to the girl he likes. If so, no girl will like him. The simplest thing is that you give play to your opinions according to her ideas. If she doesn't accept your opinion, you should learn to adapt to her psychology in another way. Don't always talk about this problem when there are differences of opinion. It will take you a while to know what she likes to talk about and what she doesn't like to talk about. However, we should not blindly accommodate the issue of principle. Allow time to correct the other person's understanding and slowly change her opinion. If you can't talk to each other properly, break up as soon as possible, so as not to bring lifelong unhappiness to your later life.