Speech performance of scheming women (what kind of performance does scheming women usually have)

Recently, I talked to a friend about his girlfriend, and he lamented that "a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea." I quickly asked what was going on. He said, "At first I thought she was a cute little girl who didn't understand the world, but now I find that she is much more complicated than I thought. There is a heart that makes me feel unfathomable under the silly and sweet appearance, but I underestimated her. Now I find that I am that silly and sweet girl.

After chatting with friends and coming home, I have been thinking that in fact, most men like their women to be simple and gentle, but the reality is often not as good as their wishes. Some women are simple on the surface, but complicated on the inside, and their scheming is quite heavy. Everything starts from egoism. Feelings and men are just tools for them to gain their own interests. They are playing their own tricks in the name of talking about feelings. Then, as men, they cooperate with each other. Actually, it's not that difficult and mysterious. If women are calculating in the process of interacting with men, the following performance betrays their purpose.

First, people feel that there are many pseudo-pure women behind the sunshine smile. She always wears a sunny smile, which makes people around her always think that she is a good-natured woman. When communicating with her, she will always talk to men calmly, so that men can feel her self-restraint. When a man chatters, she is more likely to listen to his thoughts with a gentle face. Men know how to comfort a few words in a timely and gentle way when they are sad and pause. When a man talks about excitement, she only agrees. In short, he can feel warmth when he is depressed and respect and admiration when he is happy.

Men tend to think that such women are more considerate. In the face of such a woman, men are very willing to pour out their thoughts, thinking that they have met each other for a long time. In fact, she just wants to create a relaxed and gentle atmosphere for men, and getting the information she wants from men is her ultimate goal.

Just like there are many jokes on the Internet, when a woman is in contact with a man, she will use her smile that makes people feel close to get the truth from him. When the man's conditions meet her, the woman will say softly, "I just think you are a nice person, and the rest really doesn't matter to me." After all, the days will be spent by the two of us, which makes the man very moved, but if the other party can't satisfy himself. Women also refuse to make people feel comfortable: "You are fine. The woman who can meet you in the future will be very happy. Maybe I won't have this blessing. Good luck. "

In the final analysis, this seemingly sunny woman is always good at using her closeness to get men's real thoughts and information, and then make choices according to her own purposes and needs, especially for those women who like to smile and are full of tenderness. If they always try to ask men for all kinds of information without mentioning their own situation, then nine times out of ten, her gentle sunshine is for her own scheming.

Second, innocence is her best disguise, which always makes people want to believe her simple appearance and tone of voice. It seems difficult for people to associate them with scheming. No matter what happens, she is always excluded, which makes people unwilling to believe that she will make mistakes. When you ask her, you will naively deny what you have done, ask too many questions, and even ask her grievances, which makes people feel very sorry. An innocent look always makes people feel that she shouldn't.

In fact, this kind of woman who is good at making herself look innocent is more hidden. They will pass the buck for themselves with their appearance and tone, and have no courage to admit it. Of course, they are also reluctant to admit it from beginning to end, for fear that admitting it will destroy their simple image in men's hearts. Therefore, when they make mistakes, they strongly deny what they have done and persuade men to give up the investigation. They seem to be a tolerant woman. In fact, she just wants to keep her image in men's hearts.

There is a saying: the most dangerous place is the safest place, so the innocent are often not so simple, and the simple surface of a scheming woman is often out of touch with the complex inner, so a scheming woman always cherishes her feathers and shapes herself into a spotless image. Innocence is their best way to confuse men.

Third, control your emotions freely. It is difficult for a man to see that her emotions are another mirror that reflects her. A woman who really loves a man can't hide her emotions. When they meet happy things, they will share them with men for the first time. When they encounter unhappy things, she hopes that her man can comfort herself at the first time, while a scheming woman will hide her true thoughts according to her own thoughts.

I remember when I was in college, a male classmate talked about a girlfriend from another department. They walk all the way every day and look very sweet. Coincidentally, his girlfriend's roommate is also his roommate's girlfriend. One day, his roommate told him, "Listen to my girlfriend, did your girlfriend say good night to you early these days?" Say I'm a little tired from studying these two days? "

"Yes, she went to bed early recently. What's wrong? "

"I heard my girlfriend secretly tell me that your partner's ex called me these days, and she chatted with her ex every night for a long time."

After listening to the roommate's message, the male classmate angrily confronted his girlfriend the next day. His girlfriend was surprised at first, but then calmed down: "I didn't mean to hide it from you." He came to harass me. I didn't tell you because I was afraid you would be worried and angry. "

This kind of emotional control is in full swing, and the rhetoric is watertight, which makes it difficult for men not to believe her rhetoric. A scheming woman is good at manipulating her emotions, also knows how to appease and grasp each other's feelings, and is comfortable in the emotional world with men. What a man sees is always what a scheming woman wants him to see, and a man will never know her true thoughts and inner feelings.

Fourth, know how to use women's gentleness and weakness to gain men's pity and sympathy. In A Dream of Red Mansions, it seems to tell us that men are made of mud, women are made of water, men should pity women, and scheming women always make men look delicate. Men always have an impulse to protect, in fact, they just use their gender advantage to cover up their weakness to stimulate men's desire for protection, and then politely put forward their own needs.

Many women in love soap operas deliberately fall down in order to test men's minds. Although it's just a broken skin, crying is like a real fracture, which makes a man's heart ache and he goes to the infirmary for treatment. This kind of intentional probing behavior often exposes women's minds from the side. True love does not need to be tested. In daily natural life, two hearts will feel each other's love. This kind of gentleman's principle of using men to cherish fragrance and jade to test men's investment in themselves is ostensibly to let women seek security in their own hearts, but in fact it is only to satisfy their sense of accomplishment brought by manipulating men.

To sum up natural feelings, there should be no intentional factors and no artificial performance in the process of getting along. However, a scheming woman will be good at hiding her goals by all means. As a man, in the process of interacting with women, we should understand each other's behavior and motives, so that we will not return empty-handed to a woman with all intentions, and our feelings will be given to a woman who deserves it. For women who are only good at routines, men's sincere concern and dedication to them will only become disdain and laughing stock in their hearts.