Why are young people increasingly disgusted with "relatives"?

I think people today are very disgusted with relatives because, first, relatives always take advantage of themselves in the name of relatives; second, relatives always feel that they are family members and can say anything. Can do anything.

Let me talk about the first point first. Many families are like this now. The whole family lives in the city. Those who live in remote villages or whose economic conditions are not as good as yours will come over every now and then to eat. Drink, let your family help me with anything I need, and I won’t be merciless with your things. I have always felt that relatives are all related by blood, and there is nothing wrong with family members being close and lively, but now many people's intentions have changed.

Take our family as an example. My grandparents and grandparents came to the city very early to work and work hard. Their living conditions are very good. Our three children all have good jobs. The family’s economic conditions are good. My parents usually do the same. Together with other elders, we bought a lot of things for my grandpa’s family and sent them there. My grandma's brothers and sisters are very greedy for money. Although it is a bit rude to say this, it is true. They live in a rural area about 30 kilometers away from us, and they come here once a month on average. When they come, they bring some home-made steamed buns and vegetables. But after they come, they ask my aunt to buy their designated type of wine, and my mother Cook a certain kind of fish that they like to eat, but not eat other kinds. And before leaving, I must prepare tea and wine for him. If one is missing, he will lose his temper. If it weren't for my grandma's sake, I would even want to fall out with him.

If you just have requirements for food, forget it. The Laoshan green stone my father bought for my grandma looks good at home, but my uncle insists on taking it back to his home. My father can’t give it to him. I bought a smaller piece, but he was dissatisfied but accepted it. During the holidays, he would take it out and say that my dad was stingy, and he wanted to take away whatever new things were added to my grandma’s house every year.

Secondly, relatives are just relatives after all, not grandparents or parents, so don’t educate your children all the time. You have to study hard, you have to find a partner as soon as possible, you have to have children as soon as possible, otherwise you will be older. . To be honest, my parents wouldn't care about so many of my personal matters. If it was just nagging, I could accept it reluctantly and treat it as if they cared about me, but I happened to see a Weibo post last night that made me very uneasy.

The blogger had a cat at home, and his aunt came to Beijing to temporarily stay at their house. She said she didn’t like the cat in his home and said she would throw it away sooner or later. They didn’t take it seriously, but one day the blogger came back from work. I found that the cat was really missing. My aunt insisted on giving it away. She took the train back to her hometown the next day and didn’t answer the phone. After being pressed by the blogger’s family, she said that she had thrown the cat away. When the blogger went to her home, she said I can't find the place where I dumped the cats. The blogger said that the two cats were raised from one month to ten years old. They are already old cats and have not been out alone. There are too many relatives who take themselves too seriously and make decisions on their own and others. Now, including me, I hate so-called "relatives" more and more. Many people say that some relationships with relatives are now worse than friends. I think it is so right.