My brother hasn't got a wife yet. Will he be laughed at if he wants to get married?

Before, the idea of son preference was still very serious. In this new era, the idea of son preference still exists. As the saying goes, the palm of your hand is full of meat. For a family, sons and daughters should be treated equally, and a bowl of water should be flat.

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Zhang is 56 years old. He has a son and a daughter. His son is Zhang Peng and his daughter is Zhang Chen. Zhang and his wife worked hard for this family when they were young. Now their children are old enough to get married. They used to worry about their education, but now they are worried about getting married.

Old people still prefer boys to girls. Between the eldest son and the younger daughter, they also prefer the eldest son. Before going to school, in order to leave more opportunities for the eldest son to go to school, the younger daughter dropped out of school before finishing primary school.

When I was a child, my parents were partial to my brother, and my daughter Zhang Chen knew it. Since then, she felt that her parents were unfair to her, so now that she has grown up, she seldom listens to her parents.

I remember once having a conflict with my parents because of a little thing, and it still stayed in her heart for a long time.

Because he feels that no matter what he says or does in front of his parents, the whole family is biased towards his brother and doesn't even take her seriously.

When I was a child, in order to make my eldest son get ahead, my parents gave my son Zhang Yong many opportunities to let my younger brother go to school first, and the delicious food was also reserved for his younger brother first.

From then on, Zhang Chen knew that her parents didn't love her.

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When he was a little older, Zhang Chen went to work in a big city. At first, she came to the big city alone, penniless and afraid to tell her parents, so she also suffered a lot outside.

At that time, no matter how hard and tired she was, she didn't tell her parents that she had walked alone for seven years and had eaten everything.

After that, Zhang Chen met her current boyfriend, who took good care of her. Only then did she realize what true love and care were.

For Zhang Chen, who lacked fatherly love since childhood, it is also a great blessing to meet a man who loves himself so much, so in the second year of their love, Zhang Chen took her boyfriend to see her parents.

But Zhang Chen's parents are against this marriage. Zhang Chen's parents said to her. Your brother hasn't married a daughter-in-law, and now your sister is getting married. Not afraid of being laughed at?

In the face of parents' doubts, Zhang Chen replied:? I'm not afraid. When you were young, you were partial to your brother in everything. You gave him delicious food first, and gave him a chance to go to school first. In the end, even if you make a mistake, you should be partial to him. You are all your children. Why do you always treat him differently?

Over the years, I have suffered silently every time, and I want to be loved by my parents, but you are always partial to my brother. Have you ever thought about my daughter? ?

Hearing Zhang Chen's words, my parents were speechless and didn't say another word.

03.

In fact, in this relationship with parents, parents' preference for sons did great harm to Zhang Chen. The palm of your hand and the back of your hand are all meat, so parents should also have a bowl of water flat, and don't impose son preference on their children.

No matter whether a son or a daughter gets married, parents should be equally happy and happy.

Home is father's kingdom, mother's world and children's paradise. Emerson

Family is different for everyone, and everyone has a different understanding of family, but the happiness of a family can not be separated from the cooperation of a family's Qi Xin, and the harmony of a family can not be separated from the cooperation of a family's Qi Xin.

Father is the pillar of a family, mother is the core of a family, and children are the branches and leaves of a family.

Being born in a family has a great influence on a person. The concept of son preference is also a kind of destruction to a family, and son preference can also cause great harm to children.

It will make children feel inferior. In family life, if a child is not cared for by his family and parents, he will feel insecure and feel inferior. After entering the society, interpersonal relationships will also be affected. People with too low self-esteem can't get respect from others no matter where they are, and sometimes they are sensitive and suspicious.

It will make children's feelings fragile. Such children have no sense of security since childhood, and they will feel inferior and insecure when they treat their feelings. They are also emotionally vulnerable, too sensitive and suspicious, and their final emotional journey will be bumpy.

Children cannot be allowed to establish a correct world outlook. Parents are role models for their children. The influence of parents on children is particularly important since childhood, and children who lack parental care.

In real life, it is easier to breed hatred and have different attitudes towards life. World outlook, outlook on life and values are particularly important to a person. Only in a loving family will the flower of happiness bloom.

At any time, the influence of family on a person is particularly important, so I hope everyone can understand how to manage the happiness of family. Parents should treat their children equally, not differently. Children should also be filial to their parents.

As the saying goes:? The tree wants to keep quiet, but the wind will not stop; My son wants to serve his parents when they are old, but they are gone. ? A happy family can only be happy and harmonious if Qi Xin works together.