Positive attitude towards life, the impact on life?

It's really big, really, so I think a positive attitude towards life is, don't waste your energy and physical strength on things that have nothing to do with your goals, be firm, focus only on your goals and ignore others?

Will this make life harder? But it may be a sense of accomplishment, a kind of happiness?

Sometimes the complaints are mostly about the mismatch between goals and reality, or the gap between ideals and reality. In fact, most people should still work and complain after work, not because they don't act, but because they can't achieve their goals. ?

Adjusting goals seems to be a more practical way. With a feasible goal, everyone will act. The core of strategy is choice, and the core of choice is giving up. Concentrating superior forces is actually giving up most of the goals. With a flick of a finger, you will be far away from youth [giving up youth] and ideals [giving up ideals], and finally your body will betray itself-[giving up health and life]. This is a helpless process. With this idea as the basis, it will be adjusted quickly. ?

On the busy manager, infeasible targets are directly deleted. Most people don't have this ability, and the process can only be painful. It's better to settle for the second best, make a net, set a goal and achieve it in a down-to-earth way, instead of dreaming or complaining all day. ?

Do more, talk less, and don't complain-this is my understanding of the "positive attitude towards life" of busy managers, and it is also my requirement for myself this year. Easier said than done, almost everyone can say one or two things about this problem. There are not many things that can really be done. It can be said that those who can do it are successful. Simply put, a person who has a positive attitude towards life is a person who keeps moving forward on the road of life. Although we will go the wrong way, take detours and even wrestle, we can walk for decades and accumulate considerable progress. On the contrary, a person who is pessimistic about life spends a lot of energy there to study what the people who walk in front did wrong, laugh at the people who walk behind and accuse why no one builds roads. After decades, some of his companions have gone to places where they can't even see their backs. ?

Send an example in real life. I knew several Rightists at that time. One of them used to be the Russian high flyers of Peking University. Anti-Rightists were sent to Qinghai for reeducation through labor. This kang builder started from his own home and became a famous local kang expert. The kang he built saves firewood and never pours cigarettes. In addition, this Marxist-Leninist book recorded the reading and writing of English, French and German in several different texts (it is said that his pronunciation of these three languages is very strange). In 1978 after the reform and opening-up, he carried a schoolbag with more than 300 pages of translations in five languages and went to the then Marxist-Leninist Works Compilation Bureau. It is said that people agreed to accept these manuscripts after confirming that they were all translated by him. The other studied mechanical engineering in Harbin that year. It was also because there was something wrong with the anti-rightist movement that he was sent to a small machinery factory as a technician. After the Rightists were rehabilitated, they returned to the university to teach cartography. A three-dimensional perspective, but I didn't make it clear three times. Finally, the students were kicked off the platform. As soon as you enter and retreat, you should be able to see the influence of a positive attitude towards life. When he is with the first person, he will talk with relish about how he built and demolished again and again in those years, demolished bricks and rebuilt the kang. How good are the people around him and who have helped him. When I was with the latter, it was the opposite. Every time it was like a meeting to recall that painful experience. Someone is sorry for him. That cadre fooled him. It's hard not to eat meat. . . ?