How to get along with strict friends?

Having a strict friend is actually a very good luck. Why do you say that? Such a friend, you will learn a lot from him, because he is meticulous in his work, which can make casual people rigorous and make rigorous people more rigorous. I believe that your partner and boss will prefer meticulous people both at work and in life. Such people not only keep their lives in order, but also keep the lives of people around them in order, and people around them will save a lot of thoughts.

Is a rigorous person perfect? Of course not. No one in this world is perfect. If you are a very strict person and have a very strict friend, there are many contradictions when people with similar personalities are together. When two strict people meet, it is undoubtedly like two bullfights. Everyone wants to do their best for others and do everything conscientiously, which will form a contrast in each other's hearts. We will look at each other's way of doing things, get along with others, and then compare with ourselves and do better than ourselves. We may feel a little worried, do worse than ourselves and look down on ourselves.

People may have such a distorted personality. How can we avoid such contradictions? The simplest way to avoid disadvantages is that two people do different things and get along with people who don't get along very well, so you don't have much overlap in life and work. You two are completely independent individuals, and then become like-minded friends because of each other's hobbies. Without the same circle of friends, not many people will compare you together, so you two will get along more casually and easily. If Qi Xin doesn't work together to finish a job, there won't be too many interests disputes, and there won't be any disputes about who has more and who has less.

It is a great experience for a lazy person to have strict friends, but at the same time there will be a little trouble. Because he is lazy, he doesn't do things carefully. To put it mildly, he is informal and procrastinating. Such people may be the biggest headache for their strict friends. For example, if you want to finish something tonight, serious people will finish it in the morning, while lazy people will wait until 1 1 half past one in the morning. Such a strict person can't stand it, and will urge lazy people to work all day. Friends are like this. No matter what method you use, I hope I can be better.

For such a situation, what a lazy person should do is to gradually give up his lazy character with a strict person, and don't be impatient and tired of his serial killing, because once such a mentality appears, there will be many contradictions between you. If he doesn't treat you as a friend, he won't waste his breath and energy on you. Sometimes, they may blame you for your delay, but they will help you as always. In fact, it is a great thing to have such friends around. He may take care of a lot of things for you and won't make you worry too much. If you don't do well, he will help you correct it over and over again, and then do those things perfectly.