Why do some women choose to endure domestic violence?

First: influenced by family background.

In family of origin, mothers or people who have suffered from domestic violence for a long time will suffer from domestic violence again in their future marriages. This kind of domestic violence is not because the other party is a type of domestic violence, but because of the influence of the woman's family background, she lacked love from childhood and was abused by her family. When the woman has a conflict with the man, she will encourage him and constantly stimulate him with words, such as "Come and hit me if you have the ability", and then the domestic violence begins. This is the root cause problem, which cannot be solved by divorce.

Second: because of the children.

When a woman has children, she will become extremely strong. For the sake of children, they will put up with it. If she has no financial resources and depends on her husband to make a living, she can only bear it. They don't realize the importance of women's independence, and they don't have the strength to come out.

Third: I am afraid to face the gossip of the outside world.

When you are injured, you certainly don't want your relatives and friends to see you, hold your head up in front of them, be afraid of being laughed at, or be afraid of being looked down upon and sympathized with. They hide their pain, show people with smiles, pretend as if nothing had happened, and bear it bravely.

Fourth: threatened.

It may be controlled and threatened by the man, fearing to hurt his family or other innocent people. Can only choose injustice and bear.

Fifth: Husband and wife have a good relationship, but occasionally their emotions are wrong.

Although women are abused by their husbands, they are not often abused. Many times, men are in a bad mood before quarreling with women, which is not the case at ordinary times. That's what women do. If you give her a little kindness, she can forget the pain caused by men. Many couples have a particularly good relationship and are enviable, but men sometimes just beat their wives. Women will only think that men are in the wrong mood or do something wrong to make men angry, otherwise men will be very kind to women. In women's eyes, men's occasional mistakes can be forgiven. After all, two people have a good relationship.

Sixth: I am weak.

There is no dependence between men and women. It is a strong one and a weak one. We always let women who suffer from domestic violence escape from domestic violence men, but forget that not every woman has the courage to live alone. Originally, a woman's character is weak, and she dare not resist violence. One is her own lack of ability, and the other is that no one gives her support and dependence.

Seventh: you can't give up your interests.

A woman who has been abused by domestic violence can't live without a violent man, but she can't get the existing benefits after leaving. Some men know that they are violent and will tell each other when they get along with women. But women think that men may be exaggerating, and after hearing the generous treatment offered by men, they choose to trust men. After every violent beating, women can get generous preferential treatment, and women will be freed. After all, you don't get beaten every day.

Eighth: agree with men to belittle themselves.

Many women care about other people's opinions, especially the words of people around them have a great influence on her. Such a woman may be influenced by her family background, not recognized since she was a child, and especially eager for the attention of others. Therefore, married women are particularly concerned about what their husbands think of them and dare not do anything against their husbands' wishes.

Ninth: I still love him after all.

Maybe you liked him from the first moment you saw him, but you will never stop loving him because he hit someone for the first time. At most, you will be shocked and confused. This is why when a woman is faced with domestic violence, she will not leave this man immediately. No one can say that you don't love if you don't love. Love is a gradual process, and not loving is also a sad transition.

Tenth: I feel that I will endure it once and for all.

Many places are more traditional. There is no such thing as divorce when you get married and have children. Even if you divorce, you have to pay a huge price. In their place, divorce will be discriminated against, not accepted by everyone, and no one wants to accept divorced women. In this way, a woman's thinking becomes limited, thinking that a woman who marries someone is her husband's family should be faithful to her own life, otherwise no one will take care of her later life.