How do you protect yourself in a man's wine field, girl?

I have been working for two years, and I have been in my present position for less than one year. But as an overseas manager, or all girls related to the market, I really don't feel uncomfortable about how girls can protect themselves in men's pubs.

How many times have I eaten? I was at a loss at the wine table. The big leader spoke first and gave several rounds of wine. Generally, after three rounds of drinking, everyone begins to toast at will and pull relationships. I often become like a lost child at this time, often the smallest and only woman at the dinner table. In addition to hard work, I am often distressed. Should I drink, how much should I drink, and should I propose a toast to others? How should I respect it? I fidget whenever I have time. Don't propose a toast. Sometimes when somebody else's big leader comes to give you a toast, he can't drink enough. It's really embarrassing. Yes

Actually, it is lucky to engage in overseas markets, because the wine culture of foreigners is totally different from that of China people. But no matter which country or market you are in, you still have to deal with China people. China people's wine culture can be said to be profound and has a long history. You can't deny the power of alcohol, how many relationships have been established on the dining table of the wine table, and how many orders have been drawn through the intricate financing. Don't tell me that you are a cow, and you are too lazy to engage in these relationships. Sorry, as long as you deal with China people, you can't find any other way.

The status of women is constantly improving, and the career of girls is indeed thriving. But the dining table is still a man's world, and girls are always rare animals. So how to survive in a male-dominated world still needs to pay attention to some skills.

There are many occasions and purposes for drinking. One is that everyone is colleagues or familiar with each other and needs a drink or two to celebrate. At this time, everyone can better grasp the degree of drinking. In this case, you can drink a little. Otherwise, I'll be a little disappointed.

However, how to establish the relationship between the company and other wine bureaus needs to follow the following points.

Being able to drink is indeed an important quality of marketers, but if you can't drink well, you'd better not touch alcohol. There are three reasons: 1, you are a girl, how can you not drink alcohol on the grounds that you are allergic to alcohol? No one can force you. 2, you are not a big leader, your performance is too easy to overshadow the leadership and you need to worry as a drunk girl, so it is your job to protect yourself. 3, drinking is prone to problems, if the leader is drunk, you need to be sober to help the leader clean up the mess. Anyway, you are drunk. So, do you take care of the leader or the leader take care of you?

Someone accused me, probably meaning that you don't drink, which is equivalent to pushing the leader to the front. You should stop drinking for the leader. It's not your duty to protect yourself. This accusation has troubled me for a long time, but now give me this question, and I just want to say, "Fuck you! How did the leader achieve this position without two brushes? Moreover, the position given to me by the company is not a market striker. A big man doesn't need a little girl to give himself up drinking. In this mixed scene, your greatest help is to take care of yourself and take care of your leaders by the way. " I didn't come up with this conclusion out of thin air I have consulted many people, including several of my leaders, whether they should drink at the dinner table. The unanimous answer is: "Girls had better not drink. Don't take the initiative to toast, the leader is bragging, you just need to applaud. "

Generally, a man with quality will not say dirty jokes in front of girls. However, there are some qualities that need to be improved. Pretend not to hear at this time, pretend to concentrate on talking to the people next to you. In short, men may burst into laughter, but you should stay out of it. Some people may think that dirty jokes are nothing, and I will tell a few myself, but telling dirty jokes is also divided into occasions. Don't be too bold with a group of unfamiliar people or leaders.

I once sang K with my leader and a group of people in the 1960s. The feeling of them singing and dancing in front of you is beyond words. But most old comrades are actually very cute. You just need to order a few more classic songs of that era according to their time, and they will sing and dance happily. All you have to do is pretend to appreciate it seriously and applaud properly.

When singing K, an uncle drank too much and insisted on sitting next to me and pulling me. He pretended not to understand what he said, smiled politely and refused. Then you can go out to the toilet, or go to the song-ordering station to help them order songs. At that time, my leader touched me very much. He told me afterwards that he had been staring at the man and said he was ready. As long as he acts excessively, he will immediately turn his face. Fortunately, it was easy to deal with it in the end.

Having said that, what I want to say is that once you understand the leader's thoughts, you will know what to do. As a young girl entering the workplace, if your leader is old, then in their eyes, you are like their child, and they will naturally love you and shoulder the responsibility of protecting you. Good leaders never need their young female subordinates to take risks, which will make them look incompetent. If your leader is relatively young, it is easier for young people to understand each other. A sane man doesn't want the girls he knows to drink too much or something happens. You have no reason to stop them from drinking or doing anything.

Follow your heart and communicate with others if you have an idea.