After reading eight conversations between Tsinghua and her mother, I understand why I want to study.

After reading this conversation, I understand why I should study.

1, with so much spare time now, why can't I watch the live broadcast and play games? The reason is simple, because fragmented entertainment such as games and short videos is an invisible time killer.

Maybe you get a short-term enrichment and happiness from it, but in the end it only brings you endless emptiness and depravity.

An empty mineral water bottle, worth a dime at most; Full of water, worth one yuan; The value of packed drinks is 3 yuan, and the value of packed drinks is 100 yuan.

If you are full of games, it is worthless, if you are full of knowledge, it is priceless.

Son, if you spend your time on these useless entertainments, you will waste the most expensive brain in the world.

If you want to be a valuable person, you want to climb mountains and see more beautiful scenery in the world.

Then don't waste your best time confined to illusory happiness.

2, but the students are all playing mobile phones. Will I be unsociable if I don't play?

Yes, many children in your class like to play games and mobile phones. You sometimes play with your mobile phone, but try to have the same topic as everyone else.

But son, what are the consequences of your efforts to get along with others? Maybe you can gain a few short-lived friendships, but what you lose is yourself, even the most precious time.

A straw tied with cabbage is worth the price of cabbage; If it is tied with hairy crabs, it is the price of hairy crabs.

People are the same. With different people, your life will go in different directions. A friend who really deserves to make deep friends is the one who walks side by side with you, makes progress with you and becomes better together, not the one who breaks you down.

Children, every excellent person, have gone upstream and walked alone for a lonely time.

Self-cultivation. When you are good enough, you will naturally attract a group of friends who stride forward with you like the sun.

3. Sometimes I don't want to play, but I can't control myself. What should I do?

Son, the most terrible thing for people is sober degeneration. Covetous indulgence, although happy and satisfied for a while, will be swallowed up by endless emptiness and guilt afterwards;

Choosing self-discipline may be painful at first, but when you get into the habit, you will live a fuller life and get more achievements and happiness in reality.

The second kind of happiness is richer, more lasting and more advanced. Son, if you don't push yourself, you will never know how powerful you are.

Reject the temptation that others can't refuse, and do what others can't, so that live high can be what he wants.

4. But the country advocates "double reduction". Why are you still so strict with me?

A meaningful picture appeared on the Internet: a bird nestled comfortably in its nest, and in the distance, a group of birds flew higher and higher in the vast blue sky.

With a sentence: "Son, I know you are tired, but everyone else is flying …" Isn't this bird a true portrayal of you now?

Son, "double reduction" does not mean "happiness", nor does it mean that you can indulge yourself from now on. After all, after the double drop, you will face a lot of tests.

Think about it, you are playing mobile phones and games, while others are previewing their lessons; You are dozing off in class, while others are listening attentively; You go with the flow, others paddle hard.

In the long run, after ten years, the school you want to go to can only be taken by others, and the life you want can only be taken by others.

So, son, don't blame teachers and parents for being strict with you.

Everyone is running like hell. Let yourself live comfortably today, and you will lose your confidence and future tomorrow.

The teacher has reduced the homework after class. Why should I do extra homework?

That's a good question. Do you know why some students get into the top three in every exam? Is it because they are smarter and more talented than you?

Actually, it's not. They study hard after class, and you can't see it every day.

Don't underestimate this 20% after-school study time, which almost determines a person's 80% Excellence.

Because every day in class, what you learn is the same. If you want to quietly open the gap with others, you often have to work hard after class.

The completion of school homework does not mean that you have mastered all the knowledge; Just because there is no exam at school doesn't mean that you are no different from others.

The fairest thing in the world is time. Will not take sides with anyone. Everyone has 24 hours. Where you spend your time, there will be flowers.

6. Is there no future without going to college? No, son, even if you can't go to college in the future, you can still be a useful person to society.

But you know what? If a small tree 1 year, it can only be used as a fence or as firewood; 10 years later, this tree can be used as a purlin;

More useful in 20 years. It can be used as beams, columns and furniture.

How much you study does not completely determine a person's future, but it does determine how many choices he has in life.

All your accumulation and efforts now are for giving yourself more choices in the future, rather than being forced to make a living.

You should also have your own dreams and the person you want to be.

The most helpless thing in life is that opportunities and dreams are in front of you, but you have no ability to seize them and watch them slip away.

Therefore, every effort you make now is paving the way for your future.

7. But learning is really difficult. I always feel that I can't see my first child at a glance. Nothing in this world is not hard.

Mom and dad go to work every day, rain or shine. Isn't it hard to go home and cook and help you with your homework?

Isn't it hard for her mother-in-law to come out to sell breakfast at the gate of the community at four or five in the morning? Aren't those takeaway brothers who run up and down from morning till night and are exposed to the sun hard?

Yes, learning is really difficult. It is difficult to solve equations and do olympiad. It is difficult to understand Chinese reading. Memorizing English words is boring, and there is no return in the short term.

However, this is the only thing in the world that pays off as long as you work hard.

The bitterness of life is the bitterness of despair, and there is no way out for a long time.

This kind of pain can't be seen or touched, but it will last a lifetime. Son, when you grow up, you will understand:

There is a "law of conservation of suffering" in life. You can't suffer from reading today, but you will suffer from life tomorrow.

If you have no education and skills in the future, you are destined to make a living.

For you now, learning is the easiest thing and the easiest way to get rid of the hardships of life.

8. Sometimes, what should I do if I work hard but my grades are still not satisfactory? Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what?

The learning process is like boiling water. Although there is little difference between hot water at 99℃ and boiling water at 100℃, there are essential differences.

Many times, a pot of water does not boil, not because the weather is too cold, but because the heat is not ready. By the same token, a person who gives up halfway will never succeed.

As the ancients said: "If you don't accumulate steps, you will be thousands of miles away; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas. "

Your accumulation day by day is the watershed from quantitative change to qualitative change.

Between people, the smallest gap is IQ, and the biggest gap is persistence.

As long as you persist in studying, live every day in a down-to-earth manner, keep a normal mind, overcome impetuous mentality and make a little progress every day, you will definitely become boiled water.