Ran Yingying and Zou Shiming have been married for eight years and have had three children: Is it the touchstone of marriage to have children?

Ran Yingying and Zou Shiming have been controversial since they got married. I remember when she first appeared in Where's Dad Going, many people thought that she should covet Zou Shiming's money position.

After all, she is good-looking, and it doesn't match with Zou Shiming. At that time, she was hacked for a long time, including exaggerated dress style, which was not so pleasing.

But with the deepening of understanding, netizens began to discover that Ran Yingying really loved Zou Shiming.

I remember that the year before last, Zou Shiming faced the risk of blindness in one eye, and the outside world misunderstood him greatly. Ran Yingying stood at the forefront to speak for Zou Shiming.

Not only that, I found that Ran Yingying was a very good woman in the previous variety show "Mom is Superman". Zou Shiming plays outside all the year round, and everything at home depends on her.

In order to take care of her family, she gave up her career as a host.

In this marriage, Ran Yingying sacrificed a lot.

Of course, in exchange for the love of the husband and the cuteness of the children, everything is worth it.

I always think that having children is a mirror of marriage. For women, only when they feel safe and loved in marriage will their desire to have children become stronger.

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Ran Yingying's contribution, Zou Shiming has been in mind.

It can be said that in this marriage, they are mutually fulfilling.

Although Ran Yingying sacrificed his career, he opened up another world.

Many people only know that she is Zou Shiming's wife. In fact, she owns three companies, all of which are managed by her. And Zou Shiming's career is inseparable from her.

Zou Shiming and Ran Yingying have been controversial along the way, but there is no denying that they are the strongest couple.

Now that Ran Yingying has given birth to three children, it can better prove the affection between their husband and wife.

Nowadays, women always have a lot of fears about having children. A woman who is willing to have children for you must love you very much.

The marriage between Ada Choi and Max Zhang, from optimism to envy, lies in their joint operation.

In My Favorite Woman, Max Zhang is considerate of Ada Choi. On one occasion, Max Zhang and his mother found the hotel separately. Her mother suggested staying in a hotel first, and Max Zhang said to find Ada Choi first.

Later, after settling down his mother, Max Zhang immediately went to Ada Choi. From these details, we can see Max Zhang's concern and love for Ada Choi.

Ada Choi is willing to take the risk of giving birth at an advanced age to have three children, which shows that she loves Max Zhang very much and is satisfied and happy in her marriage.

The so-called having children is a mirror of marriage, but it actually reflects the state of your marriage.

Imagine that if there is a contradiction between husband and wife, no woman is willing to have children, because having children will completely change a woman's life.

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How hard is it for women to have children? Not to mention the physiological changes during pregnancy, just bringing children is enough to make women collapse countless times.

There is a question in Zhihu: How many people are disappointed in their husbands after a woman gives birth to a child?

There are many answers below, each of which is a woman crying silently.

A netizen said that after giving birth to a child, her parents-in-law were very unhappy because they gave birth to a daughter, and they were unwilling to take care of the child, even less willing to wait for next month. She sits on the moon and has to take care of the children.

The child woke up crying in the middle of the night, and her husband was sleeping soundly. Let my husband breast-feed/change my diaper. My husband just threw me a sentence: I won't. Turned to play games again, leaving her in a mess.

Others will get fat when they are confined to the moon. She lost ten pounds when she was confined to the moon.

But these husbands can't see it, and often even blame her for being melodramatic. Originally cheerful and lively, she became very sensitive and always shed tears. Sometimes when a child cries, she will cry.

I believe many women have encountered such a scene. If the marriage is happy, the husband is unreliable, just have a baby. Before giving birth, men always clamor for children. After having children, men don't even hug.

Some men always feel that the living expenses for their families are the greatest contribution to their families. There is a lot of housework at home, and he finds it difficult to do it without going to work.

Why are women increasingly reluctant to have children?

I'm afraid I can only take care of my own life, but men have never fulfilled their responsibilities as husbands and fathers. This is the most terrible thing.

When you meet an irresponsible man, let alone give birth to three, giving birth to one is enough to make people feel the urge to divorce.

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Having children is a mirror of marriage, reflecting the happiness of your marriage and whether you have chosen the right man.

Ran Yingying gave birth to three children, and Ada Choi was pregnant with three children. Their marriage must be happy enough, and the husband is willing to bear part of it for them. A happy marriage will make women have the will to have children.

Take Alyssa Chia and Jiexiu as examples. After they got married, they gave birth to two daughters, Alyssa Chia's third child. Many people say that Alyssa Chia is really happy because Jiexiu takes care of them.

Before the show starts, Jie Kaixiu always gets up early to make breakfast and take care of the children. Men are willing to take on family responsibilities, while women are not afraid to have several children.

Similarly, in The Houseman, Justin became a new father, which made many people call him an ideal husband.

Because he will help take care of the children, cook and do housework, and he is willing to sacrifice part of his career for the children and support his wife's career.

In marriage, the sense of security given by men is very important. In terms of fertility, women always have to bear more risks and responsibilities, such as unemployment, becoming fat and ugly.

The man who really loves you will be the harbor behind you.

He won't dislike your ugly figure, but admire your greatness as a mother; He won't accuse you of not taking good care of the children, but will comfort you to take over the diapers and bottles in your hand.

An insecure marriage is like a piece of sand. Husband and wife can't really walk into each other's hearts, and Qi Xin can't work together in a better direction.

Marriage is the cooperation of two people. Only by supporting each other can we go far.