Boyfriend thinks idolization means doing nothing and often quarrels about it. What should I do?

Boyfriend thinks idolization means doing nothing and often quarrels about it. What should I do?

I think the first thing that comes to mind in this question is myself, but the difference between you and me is that I am also an idol, but my boyfriend will not say that I am not doing my duty, because I am a more rational one in idolization. For example, if he has any albums, I will buy them. If not, I'll search online. I won't say that I have to buy an album to really support him, let alone every concert, every activity, every activity. If it is really idolization, I think I will give up, because I don't have so much energy to chase him, and I can't give up everything to chase him, because he has his life and I have mine. Idolatry is blind worship. If it is really idolized, I think it will only harm you and your family in the end. For example, there was a girl who was idolized. Her father sold blood to raise money. She attended a star concert. So if you are such an idolater, then I think you should make a good change. After all, we are just ordinary people, and idolization is just a pastime. In order to relieve the pressure in our life and work and find ways to relax ourselves, there is no need to be too persistent.

So if you are a rational idolater, I don't think your boyfriend will say anything! So I think you should ask yourself a question. Is your idolization too strong?

And if you are really a rational idolization, your boyfriend will say that you have nothing to do, so does your boyfriend misunderstand idolization? I think you can have a good communication with your boyfriend and see what the specific reasons are between you, so that you can solve it and go on better.

If you have had serious communication and the problems between you have not been solved, then I think you may want to consider it. Can you and your boyfriend go on? Because if you are a rational idolized person and he can't understand you, then I think he must not understand you enough. Finally, I think the contradiction between you will get bigger and deeper. Then I think such feelings must be something you don't want to see. So after you talk, it's still the same as before, so consider your relationship carefully.

And that man. If you really love your girlfriend, if she is a rational idol, then I think you should think about your own problems. Why don't you like your girlfriend to be idolized? Do you have any misunderstanding about idolatry? If you really love your girlfriend, then you should also find your own problems. Don't let you break up because of this little problem and miss the most important and cherished person in two people's lives. Fate is rare. Once you meet, please cherish it and don't give up on each other because of a little thing. If you are dissatisfied, you can directly ask. No one knows how others comfort you, and how can she know your pain. Conversation is also a means of managing love. If there is any problem, just say it and solve it together.