My boyfriend is a few years younger than me. His family is particularly opposed?

Both parents disagree, and your feelings have been severely tested. If you choose to continue, you must be prepared for a hard war of resistance. If you choose to give up, you should make it clear as soon as possible. Emotional things are most afraid of ambiguity and will consume your feelings.

Parents don't agree because of long-term considerations.

1. Unequal economic conditions. This is not a question of family conditions, but a question of personal working ability and income. In the traditional concept, it is generally believed that men are outside and women are inside. The age difference of 8 years old makes the man suffer more than the woman in work experience and income, and the woman's family will feel that her daughter will be overloaded with him.

The man's psychology may not be mature enough, and the woman has to face the fact that her youth has passed away. The woman's family must want the man to be mature and responsible, and he can take care of her, not her to wait on him. The man's family will consider the woman's age so much, which may be nothing at present, but after 30 years old, the woman will age rapidly and the age disadvantage will be obvious. Two people's looks will not be right, and a series of problems will also arise.

3. The problem of having children. Old people want women to have children at the best age, but the age difference of 8 years may lead to their hopes being dashed, or the man becomes a father at an early age and is still a child. How can he take care of the children? Either the woman gives birth at an older age, the first child is an older woman, and most of them will not give birth to a second child, while the old people all want to have more children and grandchildren.

4. Face problem. It is natural for parents to talk about their children's marriage with relatives and friends. Only when you are of the same age and have the right conditions in all aspects can you have face. They have nothing to show off, and they are afraid of being laughed at when they say it. The most important thing is that they don't value such feelings at all in their ideas. After all, it doesn't matter if the man is eight years older, but the woman always feels insecure when she is eight years older.

You two should also think about this relationship. After all, if the woman drags on for another two years, she really can't afford to spend her youth. Her family's opposition is not unreasonable. They must be more considerate than you.

If you want to be together, go firmly and let your family see your seriousness and persistence. If you hesitate and break up early, you begin to waver, which shows that you have no confidence in the future. This is the happiness of a lifetime, which needs careful consideration and must not be impulsive.