How to answer people's excessive jokes?

A contemptuous joke

Disdainful jokes include those aimed at insulting, mocking or despising others. For example, when a person says a wrong topic, others may laugh at him or her in a sarcastic tone. Although these jokes may sometimes be considered harmless, they actually weaken one's self-esteem and self-confidence and lead to social isolation.

Coping method: express your feelings clearly. If someone makes such a joke, you can tell them that it's not funny, which makes you feel uncomfortable. You can also suggest a more positive and supportive way to interact with others.

A violent joke.

Violent jokes are usually jokes that cause pain or discomfort. For example, someone may pinch you, pinch you, hit you or steal from you when you are not looking. These behaviors may not only cause physical harm, but also lead to psychological stress and insecurity.

Coping method: express your boundaries clearly. If someone makes such a joke, you should tell them to stop immediately and emphasize that you don't like such behavior. If this person continues to do this, you can consider reporting this behavior to the relevant personnel.

3 social jokes

Social exclusion jokes include those that exclude or isolate a person from the social circle. For example, sometimes people may make others feel neglected or isolated by "joking". This behavior may lead to feeling helpless, disrespected or depressed.

How to deal with it: build a more positive relationship. If you find yourself ostracized by others, you can look for people with similar interests. Establishing more positive interpersonal relationships can not only improve self-confidence, but also increase social circle and reduce loneliness.

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Sexist jokes

Sexist jokes are jokes that ridicule or insult based on gender. For example, a boy may use "girl" to humiliate another boy, or a girl may be accused of being "sissy" or "not woman enough". This kind of behavior not only violates equality and respect, but also may lead to confusion about one's identity and value.

How to deal with it: express your own views. If you hear such a joke, you can clearly tell others that it is inappropriate and explain how you view gender and equality. You can also consider cooperating with other supporting individuals or organizations to jointly promote a culture of respect and equality.

In a word, bullying under the pretext of joking is not only harmful to the physical and mental health of individuals, but also affects the whole social environment. Therefore, we need to be vigilant against this kind of behavior and take active measures to prevent it from happening or mitigate its impact.

In addition to the above solutions, the following are some additional suggestions:

Be aware of your rights: everyone has the right to be respected and treated equally, and there is no need to tolerate bullying or ridicule. If you feel uncomfortable or insulted, please express your feelings and ask to stop.

Cultivate self-esteem: Healthy self-esteem can help you face bullying and ridicule better and avoid being influenced by it. Improve self-esteem by looking for supportive interpersonal relationships, pursuing your hobbies and achievements, and actively participating in community activities.

Understand the impact: bullying on the grounds of joking may have a long-term impact on the victim, including anxiety, depression, inferiority and so on. Therefore, we need to take this behavior seriously and seek professional help when necessary.

Participate in advocacy: We can help promote a culture of respect and equality by participating in community activities, asking questions about bullying in schools, workplaces or organizations, and joining relevant advocacy groups.

Finally, bullying on the grounds of joking is not an acceptable behavior. We need to pay attention to, pay attention to and ask questions, and actively participate in changing the culture of respect and equality, so as to establish a more friendly and respectful social environment.