What jokes can't be played casually between husband and wife?

The relationship between husband and wife can be as solid as a rock, or as brittle as glass, which can be broken with one blow! When people get along with each other, even in marriage, timely jokes will make the relationship between two people closer and create a better warm atmosphere. However, once the joke is overdone, it is easy to cause the other person's rage, which will not only fail to achieve the original desired effect, but will only make the relationship between the two people worse and worse. Therefore, married people must know that these five jokes between husband and wife must not be opened casually, especially.

First, make fun of each other's shortcomings.

In marriage, the three most taboo words are: no! Maybe you think you are just joking, but the speaker is not interested in the listener. These three words will pierce each other's hearts like needles and trample on each other's self-esteem, especially men, who are too competitive and self-esteem to stand such jokes from their closest lover. Although men know that they are joking, they always care unconsciously and even doubt themselves in their hearts. Playing such jokes too much is really likely to make men completely lose confidence and fall into a long road of self-doubt.

Second, deny the joke that the other party pays.

For example, a woman works very hard to finish a thing. She thinks that she will be praised by a man, and then she will show off with joy, but what she gets is the indifference and criticism of a man. How uncomfortable it is for women at this time! Although sometimes it's just a joke! Even in marriage, what I fear most is a kind of self-denial. When a person can't even find the minimum sense of existence in marriage, the inner coldness can easily freeze the passion of the other party. When a man does something wrong, a woman should not criticize him for incompetence in a joking way. No man can really stand it and not be understood, which is a fatal pain in marriage.

Third, make fun of each other's parents.

"Fuck you", woman, never make fun of your mother in front of men. For example, the most common thing in life is that many women scold her mother in front of her man and accuse her mother-in-law of being bad, or even doing badly. There are even some worse words that really make men explode in an instant.

Men must also remember not to make fun of each other's parents. Parents are the scales in everyone's heart and can't be touched. Even if parents are really bad, they can't tolerate others pointing fingers, even husband and wife. After all, they are flesh and blood, and that kind of blood relationship is printed in the bones.

Fourth, compare some jokes.

"Look at others", woman, don't compare your husband with other men, even if it's a joke. Men, don't compare your wife with women outside, because there is no comparability.

Compared with the strengths of outsiders, catching each other's shortcomings is tantamount to slapping each other hard, even more painful than slapping each other. When two people are together, they should encourage each other, so that they will be more motivated to go on and go better. Once they criticize each other, they will go downhill, which will only make your life more painful and depressing, and will only make each other unable to stay away from you.

Fifth, jokes about divorce.

Both men and women should bear in mind that divorce must not be mentioned casually in marriage, even if it is a joke. Talking too much about divorce will only presuppose the possibility of real divorce in the other person's mind, so as to really prepare for it and leave a good way out for yourself. And too many divorces will only make the other party think that this is a sign that your relationship is not important.

Whether joking or threatening to quarrel, always talking about divorce is the most unwise move. Couples who often say that they are divorced, most of them really divorced later!