Education experts call for burden reduction, but why do many parents not buy it?

For a long time, doing homework with their children has become a worry for parents. Whether in kindergarten or when their children are in elementary school, many parents are ridiculing: "I might as well go to school!" Some people suggest reducing the burden on primary school students, but at the same time, schools should also reduce the burden on parents. It is recommended that the “reading homework” tasks given by schools to parents must be appropriate and reasonable. This statement has been agreed by many people. Especially some wonderful assignments, I really hope the school will think twice. Some netizens said that in order to cultivate children's observation skills, kindergarten teachers asked children to draw the moon at the same time every day for 30 consecutive days.

As a result, the parents felt sorry for their children and were unwilling to let them work hard, so they actually lost 8 pounds. Not only that, the school also asked the children to count 100 million grains of rice and then bring it to school. These "wonderful" homework are tortured by parents. Even if it's not that exciting, such as making an ice flower when winter comes, planting trees and raising seedlings on Arbor Day, it's not something that many parents can easily understand. However, these are all fine. It takes a little effort, but there's still a chance it can be done. If you look at the news about accompanying primary school students to do their homework, it is really a good idea.

There used to be a very popular joke on the Internet, which said, "When you don't talk about homework, your mother is kind and filial. When it comes to homework, she will jump around, scream, and amuse passers-by." Laugh, the old man’s blood pressure rises, and the neighbor can’t sleep! One second we are glued to each other, and the next we are separated, the same is true in life. As long as the child is sitting at the dining table, he either wants to go to the toilet or wants to drink water. In short, there are ten thousand reasons to walk around the house. If you can finish the homework within an hour, you have to play with the pencil box or pick your fingers, but you can't do it quietly.

When parents see their children like this, they want to beat them every minute, but they have to restrain themselves. The end result is that they suffer internal injuries. Some parents even put a scaffold in their hearts, and then came a truth: Forget it, saving your life is very important! Parents often think that the reason why their children are like this is their own problem, that is, they are not serious and don't work hard, and they must criticize their education. If they can't, they have a long memory. In this way, children can become other people's children, sensible and smart. Is it really all the children’s problem? Not really. In the process of accompanying their children to do homework, parents sometimes do bad things with good intentions.