The last romance: what will happen to girls who grow up in poverty? Nini gave the answer.

Girls should be rich and boys should be poor.

Nobody told me why I did it.

However, I saw the experience of Jusso played by Nini in The Last Romance broadcast by CCTV and iQiyi these days, and I understood why girls should have money.

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The Last Romance is adapted from Yi Shu's novel. At present, Iqiyi VIP has been broadcast to the fourth episode.

After watching four episodes in one breath last night, Nini played Jusso's long hair, long legs, red skirt and red lips, which was amazing as soon as she appeared, but her life experience was "gloomy".

Jusso has no mother, and his father is a prodigal son who lives abroad all the year round.

When she was 8 years old, she was put in foster care at her uncle's house. One day, her uncle's family went out for a drink. They locked her in the house and all the doors were locked.

Lock lock later said that if there was a fire that day, it must be her who was burned to death.

I worked for my aunt since I was a child, and I knew how to please others and compromise since I was a child.

There is a scene in The Last Romance: the lock in front of the door burst into tears, but after entering the door, the lock immediately switched smiles and handed the gift to menstruation.

My aunt praised her for being sensible. Can she not understand? Can she be willful? Can she live like a big lady?

I can't. Because of poverty, there is no condition and capital willfulness. Even the cousin she doesn't like knows that she doesn't love him when she pursues herself, but she can only endure not to make it clear.

Because I live in his house, if I refuse, I will be kicked out, even if I don't get kicked out, it will be very difficult.

Uncle and aunt, I can't say whether it's good or bad for her. They are not so much relatives as the relationship between the landlord and the tenant, because Zhu Suosuo's father gives his uncle and aunt a sum of money every month.

As for the money, it is not clear how much the lock cost.

There is a kind of survival difficulty in the world, and that is Zhu Suosuo:

Just graduated, no job, no parents, no money, I want to move out, but there are no conditions and I can only compromise.

Girls grow up in poverty, which is the first situation that is the easiest to encounter.

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Contrary to Jusso's situation, it is her best friend Jiang.

Jiang is not only the apple of his parents' eye, but also his grandmother's heart.

In the Chiang family, Sun Nan had everything he wanted, and he was very particular about what he ate and used every day. For example, even if only three or four people eat in their family every day, aunt will cook a big table. If she cooks crabs, she will definitely prepare some wine.

On the other hand, Zhu Suosuo, if you don't eat in the school cafeteria, most of them won't wait for her to eat together at my uncle's house. When she got home, either my cousin accompanied her or she went back to her room and ate a bowl of rice on the windowsill.

Zhu Suosuo wears those clothes every year and attends important occasions, such as my cousin's classmates' party, such as having dinner with friends. She always wears only her own red dress.

But what about ginger? The bags and clothes that she threw on the floor were all famous brands that her father bought for her.

Her father also arranged for her to meet people from different classes and let her learn different things, in order to shape her into a celebrity.

On one occasion, Sun Nan had a quarrel with his father because he refused to accept the violin performance arranged by his father. His father said that nothing in her hair, clothes and bag was not his.

In a fit of pique, Sun Nan decisively cut his hair.

Does Zhu Suosuo dare to do this? No, she can only choose what my aunt and uncle like to listen to and do every day, for fear that they don't like him.

This kind of lock, because of injustice, often leans against the window of his room. However, no one cares about her emotions and her grievances.

One day, Sun Nan took a lock to make her hair. Because it will take a long time, in order not to delay her aunt's work, Sun Nan asked Zhu Suosuo to help send the documents to Ye Jinyan.

At that time, the person who closed the lock was surnamed Ma. Let's just call him Ma.

Someone told Locke Ye Jinyan how to get to his office, but didn't tell Locke what kind of person he was.

Therefore, when Lock Lock met the horse and saw the horse in a suit and tie, she was sure that it was Ye Jinyan.

Without waiting for Ma's introduction, the lock left. Go back and ask him if there is a position suitable for her in the company. She is looking for a job.

This is the first step for Zhu Suosuo to move out of his uncle's house. If he wants to move out, he must first solve the problem of survival. If he solves the problem of survival, he must work.

In fact, Zhu Suosuo didn't think that there would really be her position in the company, but whenever there was an opportunity, she would seize the lock needed for work to solve her situation.

Ma Jian Zhu Suosuo is cheerful, lively and beautiful. She didn't refuse immediately, but asked her to leave her phone number and contact her if there was a suitable position.

Jusso is happy, but I didn't expect it to be difficult to find a job.

A few days after returning to my uncle's house, Ma called Zhu Suosuo and asked her to have dinner together. That place is a very high-end restaurant, there are no ordinary private rooms, only a dozen private rooms are left.

Ma didn't say much, so he booked a big private room directly.

The waiter in the restaurant is very polite to Ma, and everyone calls him Mr Ma.

When they left for dinner, the people in the restaurant stuffed presents into the horse's hands.

Zhu Suosuo believes that anyone who can work around Ye Jinyan must have background, power and money. Otherwise, an ordinary employee of a horse can't drive a BMW and invite people to a high-end restaurant without blinking.

At that moment, Giusso chose to believe that horses could bring light to her life. She hopes that she can firmly grasp this light and escape from her aunt's house.

To this end, Zhu Suosuo doesn't even allow himself to check the horses.

You can't change your situation, you can only trust others, so it's easy to trust others. Girls grow up in poverty, which is the second most vulnerable situation.

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After Ma invited Zhu Suosuo to dinner, he said nothing about his work. He just asked her out more frequently, took her to buy brand-name bags and cosmetics, and asked Suosuo to bring all kinds of things back as gifts for his uncles and aunts.

In fact, everyone with a discerning eye knows that this horse is unrealistic. A man often asks a woman out without mentioning her request. In fact, there is only one purpose: hitting on her.

But Giusso couldn't see clearly. In other words, she saw it clearly, but she didn't care.

My best friend Jiang said, should I please check this horse for me? Zhu Suosuo said no.

Once the horse asked her out, and when she came back, the horse took her hand off the steering wheel and held Zhu Suosuo's left hand directly.

Zhu Suosuo cocked his head and glanced at the horse, tears fell down.

She said, "You are so kind to me."

The horse was a little embarrassed, and his eyes suddenly dodged, and Zhu Suosuo could not see it.

When she got home, she told her uncle and aunt that she would move out after a while. Her boyfriend drives a BMW, which is very kind to her.

On the surface, my uncle and aunt enthusiastically kept her, closed the door the next second to discuss, opened her room when Zhu Suosuo left, and so on.

Arranged in a room with only one bed next to the kitchen, Zhu Suosuo burst into tears.

She is more determined. She wants to move out and live with horses. However, what does Ma do at work, where is his home, and how many people are there at home? Zhu Suo's lock is unclear, and she is only eager to move out.

She doesn't even want to think about it: in fact, she moved out of menstruation's house and went to Ma's, that is, she just boarded.

I want to walk from one place to the next, thinking that it is my terminal, but it is only a post station I met, but I can't see it clearly. Girls grow up in poverty, which is the third most likely situation.

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Then how did Zhu Suosuo find that the point he wanted to dock was just a post station?

On one occasion, my father married foreign women, who looked about the same age as Zhu Suosuo. He brought her back to see him. He heard from his uncle and aunt that Zhu Suosuo had a boyfriend, and the BMW driver sent him home every day.

Father wants to see him, because he will leave soon.

After Zhu Suosuo told Ma, they bought many things together. However, when she and Ma went to see her father with big bags and small bags, Ma suddenly received a phone call saying that she could not accompany Suosuo and asked her to see her father by herself.

Jusso got off the bus halfway, and the horse deliberately went around where Jusso was sitting to adjust his seat and tidy up the cushion. This looks a bit humble.

Zhu Suosuo didn't think much, only thinking that his company might really have something urgent to deal with.

One day, Zhu Suo was in front of a building and saw the horse's BMW. He also saw the horse with the door open, bowing to a man.

Zhu Suosuo called Ma and he said he was in a meeting.

If you bark again, the horse won't agree.

At this moment, Zhu Suosuo's phone rang, and it was Ma Si.

The other party told Zhu Suosuo that the horse was the driver. Because I fell in love with Zhu Suosuo, I bought her brand-name bags and cosmetics, invited her to eat in high-end restaurants and so on. And was fired for embezzlement. The company asked Zhu Suosuo to return those "dirty things".

Despair, incomprehension and confusion haunt Zhu Suosuo. She never dreamed that such a routine bridge actually happened to herself.

She found her best friend Sun Nan and said that she was angry and desperate not because the horse was a driver, but because he shouldn't have lied to her. If he tells her honestly that he is only the boss's driver, she may not dislike him.

At this point, Zhu Suosuo has no way out. If she moves, she will be released. In addition, my cousin also launched various pursuits for herself. She doesn't love him anymore, and it seems inappropriate to go back to her aunt's house.

So, she had to move to Sun Nan's house.

I moved my things out of my aunt's house, stood in front of the alley where I walked countless times every day, looked up at the window where I had leaned, and looked down at the narrow and long stone road. Zhu Suosuo's heart aches because of the stone under his feet, because he lives in the house in Sun Nan, but he still lives under the fence. In fact, there is no essential difference between this and living in my aunt's house.

However, it is time to move out. Only in this way can I get it back by letting it out myself. Only in this way can my cousin really understand what love is; Only in this way, you don't have to play dumb in front of your uncles and aunts in the future; Only in this way can you see the scene of your departure from your father without standing at the window and looking down. ...

So, pulling the password box, Zhu Suosuo smiled very complicated, and then she left without looking back. Even if the stone on her foot hurt her foot, she didn't stop.

This is another road that Zhu Suosuo chose, one that forced her to choose the way forward, because she couldn't turn back, whether it was from her aunt's house or Ma's house.

Don't allow yourself to turn back, you can only force yourself to move forward, because there is no retreat. Girls grow up in poverty, which is the fourth most likely situation.

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However, none of the above situations actually trust a person easily because of a certain hope. Finally, it turned out to be just confusion and despair brought by a scam.

This situation is actually the worst.

So Zhu Suosuo's wish is to find a good job and be independent, of course, after the fourth episode.

Before 4 episodes, Jusso often burst into tears and was confused. He is often moved to tears and wants to commit suicide because of a kind word and a warm move from others.

The root of all this is that Giusso has never carried a brand-name bag, worn comfortable and beautiful clothes, eaten in a high-end restaurant, tasted the taste of bread, or even been really loved and warmed by a normal person.

However, this can't blame her. It's weird. She was born a poor girl.

Psychologically, such girls say that because they have never seen the world and played anything good, they have no long-term vision, so everything is good and novel.

This reaction is reflected in Jusso, that is, she looks at the horse and thinks he is the best. She felt that anything he bought her was unbearable, so she was very grateful to him.

Some time ago, I watched Dwelling House by Liu Liu. Seaweed has fallen from a famous college student to a mistress in Song Siming because she is grateful to him for helping her sister. When seaweed was invaded by Song Siming for the first time in Dwelling House, she said to herself psychologically:

Great. I owe him. I'll pay.

Why did Song Siming help her sister once, and seaweed was grateful?

In fact, the reason is the same as Zhu Suosuo: they are all poor daughters.

In the house, seaweed's mother also said:

As the saying goes, it is not unreasonable that boys are poor and girls are rich. Now that I think about it, I have suffered in my life, because I have no money and I have not provided you two sisters with a better life. However, if you experienced wealth as a child, you will not be confused by this little kindness, and you will be grateful to put your life into it.

It is not unreasonable that boys are poor and girls are rich. However, there are thousands of families in Qian Qian. How many families can support girls?

In my opinion, girls are not afraid of poverty. The key is that they grow up in poverty and know how to gain self-satisfaction and sense of accomplishment through their own efforts. Instead of "drifting with the flow" because of poor family circumstances and easily giving your future to others, it is better to treat life with the mentality of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely", so that even if the living environment is worse, you can slowly create your own warm sky. ...

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