Ancient men had wives and concubines. Why do some people say this is a tragedy?

How much do you know about ancient concubines? Generally speaking, men all want three wives and four concubines, and women all want a pair for life, which fundamentally reflects the difference between men and women.

Is the life of three wives and four concubines good or not? Don't worry about answering everyone's questions. Let's recall the biography of Zhen Huan first. Do you remember how many concubines the emperor had?

Anyway, there are countless pear blossoms, but it is said that Yong Zhengdi is still the emperor of harem girls with fewer concubines. People with many children like Emperor Kangxi naturally have more concubines. No matter which court play, there will always be the word rain and dew. In fact, there is a reason for this, because it is impossible for a person to spoil a person. Many times, for those beautiful women who have just married in the door, they have to hang for a while. After all, there are many. Even if you share a room with someone, you have a head. For example, in a month, there must be more than ten days in the main room, and the first and fifteenth days must also be in the main room. If you don't do it, then someone will accuse you of being addicted to women. If you have an official position in the imperial court, you may even lose your job.

that this is not the important question. You have a wife and a concubine, but you can't do whatever you want. If wives and concubines live in harmony, it will be even more difficult. After all, there is a fire in the backyard. Why do others believe that you have the ability to coordinate the relationship between people?

Generally speaking, you can not fulfill your obligations before you are 60 years old, but before that, you still have to satisfy your wives and concubines. And as a man, it is difficult to raise such a big family, but you have to obey the etiquette. If you don't like these, it doesn't matter who you are. If you suddenly like one, it will be more troublesome. After all, although sometimes thinking with the lower body, but suddenly using the upper body, it will inevitably be unbalanced.

In ancient times, concubines were actually equivalent to commodities, without any status or dignity. Sometimes, they are even given to each other or sold to brothels. This idea really makes these women feel sorry for themselves.