"Someone will press the door key of the elevator for you, waiting for you to come in." What can you see?

Americans are used to pressing the door key.

Some time ago, I heard that I took the elevator in America. A lady just arrived in new york and was surprised to find that no one pressed the close button of the elevator. Instead, many people will press the open button and others, and everyone will deliberately look back to see if there is anyone behind them to avoid closing their eyes to others. If you watch American TV series, you will find that mean and rude people always deliberately close the elevator door when someone comes. Therefore, few people touch the close button when taking the elevator in new york, lest people put themselves in the right position with the characters in the film and television drama.

Later, the lady returned to Beijing and found that there were fewer traditional hutongs in Beijing, and the vertical "hutongs" were comparable to those in the United States. On the first day of returning to China, she was looked down upon because she didn't press the close button after entering the elevator. Although the man on the same ladder didn't say anything, his eyes and the strength of the buttons have clearly expressed his dissatisfaction. Another day, according to American custom, she pressed the open button and waited for a young man to enter the elevator. After getting on the bus, he thanked him politely, and then stuck a finger on the close button. Every time the door just opened, he began to press it, which felt like subconsciously repeating a habitual action. For him, nothing in that moment is more important than saving a few seconds.

What would you do if someone in the elevator pressed the door key and waited for you to get on the elevator? I found that at home and abroad, most people will trot when they see someone waiting for him in the elevator to show that they will not delay others' time. However, according to the research, when pedestrians change from the original walking state to the trotting state, they actually need to stop and make a starting gesture. And this change takes more time than not changing. However, it is this seemingly time-wasting little gesture that has won the favor of people in the elevator, otherwise it may be regarded as uneducated. It can be seen that sometimes attitude is more worthy of attention than results.