In real life, what kinds of behaviors do people have that are without quality?

1. Smoking, eating and chatting loudly in public places never care about other people's feelings.

Yesterday, after a whole day of bus ride, everyone was tired. In the car, everyone is silent, either watching the mobile phone or watching the scenery outside the window. Suddenly, a middle-aged woman got on the bus with a big bag on her back and a bag of peanuts in her hand.

She leans the bag against the seat, and then sits on the bag and eats peanuts casually. Peanut shells are everywhere. The driver saw the situation in the rearview mirror and said, "Please don't eat in the car. Thank you for your cooperation. " Middle-aged women do not think so. They didn't seem to hear it. They continued to eat peanuts. This car smells like peanuts.

Some people regard public places as their homes and never consider other people's feelings. For example, in the square, trample on the grass at will and instigate children to spit and litter everywhere; Pick flowers in the garden and put them on the balcony at home; Smoking in the stairwell, and so on. People with quality know how to respect others and will not disturb or hinder others because of their words and deeds.

2, the opening is swearing, feeling that swearing is not enough.

Some people like to talk nonsense. Opening your mouth is swearing and accusing others. The afternoon before yesterday, at the entrance of the community, the community security guard and the resident Xiaomei quarreled. Xiaomei said, "You are just a security guard. What is there to be proud of? " ? I'm going to fire you tomorrow. Can you believe it? Who are you to stop me? "It turned out that the new security guard stopped Xiaomei and asked her to show her documents. Xiaomei was angry.

As the saying goes, "dogs can't spit ivory." A person with low quality, without wisdom and morality, can't say a good word. As soon as he opens his mouth, he curses. He also felt that he didn't swear hard enough, didn't fully highlight his personality, and didn't swear hard enough.

3. Cut in line or stick others' backs when waiting in line.

If you are in line and there is a person standing next to you, if you take one step, he will take another step, as if to crush you. How do you feel? I guess I want to call names, or force myself to endure and calm down. How do you feel if you jump the queue directly and there are many people waiting in line? Is it forbearance, or stand up and speak up and uphold justice?

Those who queue irregularly and have no manners are actually of low quality. He thinks he is a "related household" and has acquaintances everywhere, so he can't follow the rules. Such behavior exposed his dark heart.

4. It is an indifferent attitude towards others.

When people talk to each other, they should respect each other. Even if what others say is not good, you should listen clearly first. Don't interrupt or blame others casually. People talk to you because they trust you. I hope you can give him some advice.

You don't want to hear a word you say to others, but you are too lazy to listen, and your face is expressionless, which shows that you don't respect others. You look down at your mobile phone when others are talking, and then you just perfunctory "ah" when others ask? I guess both of them are embarrassed. This way of chatting shows that you have no quality.

5. Make fun of others' shortcomings, make fun of others and please yourself.

Some people think they are excellent, while others are one level below him. For example, when someone goes out in a suit, he says to others, "You still wear a suit in this day and age. You bought this suit when you got married. I guess you can't afford it in your current economic situation. " In short, it exposes the embarrassing reality of others and increases the shadow area in others' hearts.

No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings. If shortcomings are regarded as a laughing stock, it is estimated that everyone will feel bad. High-quality people will help others to correct their shortcomings and praise their own advantages, especially for people with physical disabilities, they should encourage others rather than make fun of them.

6. When you see a handsome guy or a beautiful woman, don't move your eyes and stare at others.

On the street, there are handsome guys or beautiful women, which is a landscape, and everyone is very eye-catching. However, staring at others or even tracking their behavior is a sign of low quality. In particular, some married people should pay attention to their own image, establish a correct aesthetic view, and don't judge people by their appearances.

At noon the day before yesterday, a middle-aged man stood next to a beautiful woman on the bus. The beauty was a little scared and quickly changed her posture, and the middle-aged man immediately followed. At the next platform, the beautiful woman got off the bus quickly, probably very scared. Such middle-aged people have no quality and are even suspected of doing things that violate the law and discipline.

7. Complaining about parents' uselessness and being an old man.

Zhu Dexiao comes first. A truly qualified person will not be unfilial to his parents, but will forgive their incompetence. If a person can't tolerate his parents, he will often accuse them of not making a lot of money and not buying him a house. This is actually a sign of ungrateful. It is not easy for parents to raise their children. As for the fact that families are not rich, that is another matter. Every generation has different difficulties.

Although some people are neets, they complain that their parents are useless. I once saw a small video in which a boy of seventeen or eighteen dragged his mother's satchel away. The young man took all the money in his mother's satchel in his hand, and then threw the satchel to his mother: "Your bag is back to you. Just 200 yuan, not afraid to see me. " Such people violate the law and have no quality.

8. When you meet a successful person, you will be cynical.

Some people are very jealous. If others succeed, he will be cynical. Colleague Huahua said early this morning, "Look at a star who looks like a crooked melon and a cracked jujube, and he doesn't know his pronunciation clearly, but he still comes out to make money?" No one should look in the mirror. "Flower flower, actually exposed the lack of his own quality, he is jealous of others.

Smart people will learn from others' strengths, be modest and not be jealous of others. It is wise to take the advantages of others as your own direction; It is foolish to take the advantages of others as the object of "sarcasm"