Every time I send my girlfriend roses, it is better to buy daily necessities than to spit them out. What is the most romantic person you have ever met?

? Through your question, the first thing I know is that you think your girlfriend is a very unromantic person, but in fact, I can't feel your girlfriend's unromantic just through your example. Buying flowers is just one of the manifestations of romance. Real romance exists in the bones, and it is an inner thought and gesture that is inadvertently revealed. So I think the person who doesn't understand romance the most is the person who regards form as romance itself.

This may not express my meaning clearly, so I put it another way. Form can be learned, just like provocative routines widely circulated on the Internet. Everyone who is not romantic knows that sending flowers, watching fireworks and enjoying the moon are romantic. When they know that these forms are romantic expressions, they can learn, because sending flowers, watching fireworks and enjoying the moon can be done by anyone if you want.

An originally boring person will send flowers when he knows that he is in love, and he will also go to a flower shop to buy a bunch for each other. This is like a formula. When people are doing this, they just think they should do it, or everyone is doing it, so I will do it. Everyone thinks this is romantic, and I also think this is romantic. But I really have no intention. That's why I said that the person who knows the least about romance is the one who is taught how to love, what is romantic in love, and then does these romantic things like completing a task.

Don't like receiving flowers, but like receiving daily necessities, isn't it romantic? She may have a romantic side. Maybe she will follow her lover unconsciously, maybe she will take care of her body and daily life properly, maybe she will prepare a fresh dinner for those who are waiting to go home, maybe she will make the wardrobe fragrant, maybe she will share it with you unconsciously when she sees the beautiful scenery ... Do you think it is not romantic if these things are not written into romantic textbooks or quoted as formulas? If you think sending flowers is romantic, you can only say that you may have a different understanding of romance, but don't deny her romance because of it.