A little girl in Guangdong cried in ancient costume and refused to go to school. How should parents guide their children's emotions?

A little girl in Guangdong cried in ancient costume and refused to go to school. How should parents guide their children's emotions? We should reason with him as an adult and formulate some reward and punishment systems for him. He can be rewarded when he goes to school, but he loses what he loves most when he doesn't go to school. Let him know that going to school can actually help him learn a lot of knowledge and get a lot of things. After all, children sometimes want something, but that's impossible. For example, they don't want to go to school. Are they really not allowed to go to school? That's impossible. We all know that going to school is actually very important for a child's growth. A little girl in Guangdong cried and refused to go to school. At this time, she can actually cry for a while.

After he cries, you can reason with him. For example, if you go to school, I can reward what you like. If you refuse to go to school, then take your favorite toy or your favorite food home with me. Then you will stop eating him for the last half month and let him choose for himself. If he chooses not to go to school or eat what he likes, he can let him go home first and put his favorite food in front of him. Believe it.

And in this process, children should be taught not to cry easily to solve problems. Crying is a sign of weakness. When he wants to buy something or do something, he can consult with his parents. Crying won't solve any problems, it will only make others think that he is a nuisance and let him know that crying can't solve problems. Don't tell his parents in this way again. In this matter, slowly guide the child from crying to not crying at the beginning, then slowly reason with him, tell him that crying can't solve the problem, let his mood gradually stabilize, and then tell him what is right and what is wrong. After all, children are all the same, and it is understandable to cry when they are young.

But how can parents teach their children not to cry so much? How do they teach their children to show their parents what they want to do and say? That's all that matters. After all, they have to educate him for a long time. For such a long time, if they don't teach their children, tell their parents the truth. If they are not taught, their children will express their emotions. If they don't speak slowly about others, they will hate their children as parents after staying in school for a long time. As long as he makes really good friends, he will gradually want to go to school. After all, it's not fun for children to be alone at home. Let him realize the feeling and fun of having good friends at school.