Girl, can I use a dish to describe you?

The ancients said: Beautiful scenery is delicious. One interpretation of this idiom is to describe a woman's beauty and attractiveness. It can be seen that as far back as ancient times, people have linked the beautiful taste experience of food with the visual experience of beautiful women. I think the reason why the two can establish a connection is mainly because they have the following two basic similarities:

Is the first good-looking?

If we use a dish instead The beauty of food may lie in whether the ingredients are carefully selected, whether the color is bright, whether the workmanship is fine, whether the presentation is beautiful, and whether the overall appearance makes people appetizing.

The beauty of a girl lies in whether she looks beautiful, whether she is well-dressed, whether she has a slim figure, and whether the overall appearance makes people want to know more about her.

Is it the second most delicious?

For a dish, deliciousness means whether it tastes great. When chewing, the signal sent to us by our brain is " "One more piece" or "Spit it out quickly".

For girls, "delicious" probably means whether it is interesting, whether it has a good personality, whether it has its own thoughts, whether it is very temperamental, whether it has high emotional intelligence, etc.

With these two basic similarities, I can ask this question:

Girl, can I use a dish to describe you? Is it good-looking or delicious?

Let me answer this question using the breakfasts I made and the real data they brought to the table.

I make breakfast every day and post it on the Internet. After about two weeks of posting, I discovered a pattern, that is, no matter what I cook, what is its nutritional value? Photo Beautiful breakfast photos will always get more views than less beautiful breakfast photos.

Please see the real screenshot of my backend below:

Relatively beautiful ones generally have more than 300 views;

If you don’t want to be pretty, you won’t even get 100. Can't pass.

The same is true for girls. If you are a very nutritious dish, but the visual effect is not good, then no one will have the urge to taste it, let alone get to know you. nutritional value. So the first thing people see is always your appearance. When a boy first sees that your face, figure, and dress make him interested in exploring, he will approach you and get to know your heart deeply. You may think that men are too utilitarian. We have been taught since childhood that inner beauty is the most important thing, but to a certain extent, this is how the world works.

If we cannot change the world, then we can at least change ourselves. I can think of many girls who may feel that their congenital conditions are not good, their appearance is not outstanding, their figure is not tall, and they cannot become goddesses no matter how much they pay attention to their appearance. Maybe we will never become a stunning beauty, but we can change the changeable parts and make ourselves infinitely more beautiful.

As long as you are willing, you can change at least the following two items:

First, improve your dressing taste

This one is actually very simple. You need to subscribe to expensive fashion magazines. Just pay attention to how the heroine in it wears every day, what jewelry she wears, and what hairstyle she wears when watching popular online dramas. Every day when I go to Taobao, I look at how other models wear clothes and think about why their clothes look so beautiful in photos.

Then take photos of the clothes, hair accessories, and jewelry that make you excited and save them. After a while, if you sort it out again, you will surprisingly find that you can match your own style of clothes with ease. As long as you use your hands, you can have a qualitative improvement in your appearance, so why not do it.

Second, exercise

Exercise can make your lines more beautiful and stylish. Choose an exercise method that does not put too much pressure on you, such as yoga, running, swimming...and then stick to it every day. The improvement in quantity will inevitably lead to a qualitative leap.

Maybe after a few months you will find that your skin is better, your figure is more symmetrical, your belly is gone, and you feel more energetic.

So, once again, external beauty is really important. To a certain extent, this is really a world based on appearance! So don't let "inner beauty be the most important" be your reason not to change. It may be a perfect excuse for laziness.

Let’s use my breakfast to answer this question. The reading volume of my breakfast is above average, but its number of likes is very low, and the comments in the background are full of doubts. The reason is that my title and picture are all about how to make scallion pancakes, but my scallion pancakes are actually bought from the supermarket. . . You can look at the picture to see the truth:

My breakfast can be described as flashy. Others saw it and were attracted to it, but found out that they had been deceived, and then left, leaving angry words. The same is true for girls. If you dress up beautifully and attract the attention of many boys, but after less than three sentences, you tell them that you are studying Chinese and have not studied the process of how steel is made. . Then the boy you attract based on your appearance will not only turn around and leave, but also tell his buddies that you are just a flower vase and don't mean much. Of course this may be a bit exaggerated, I just want to make a metaphor.

So without inner qualities, no matter how beautiful you are, it only lasts for five minutes. So what exactly is inner beauty? I have summarized the following points:

First, you have to be interesting

Mi Meng has said that being interesting is a lifelong aphrodisiac. So how can you be interesting? You need to know a lot and have a lot of knowledge before you can have something to say when chatting with others. Even when you know enough, you can have a game mentality and express your feelings in a humorous way. Point of view, make your conversation full of laughter and laughter, make him want to chat more times after chatting once, and it will be difficult for him to forget you!

If you haven’t reached this level yet, you can go study. Mr. Yang Jiang once said that our biggest problem is too many ideas and too little reading.

Secondly, you must have independent thinking

It is easy for you to get lost in the crowd if you follow what others say. On the contrary, if you can put forward your own unique point of view, it will make the other party shine and feel that you are He is a person with deep thoughts. Imagine a male idol said that he recently watched the movie "Inception" and thought it was great. One girl said: "I watched it too, and I liked it very much!" Another girl said: "The ending of this story is a bit hasty. It might be better if it were like this." Who do you think the male idol will chat with next?

So how can we have unique ideas? Ideas are based on deep thinking. When you see something, you can draw inferences from one thing and think about it from multiple angles. Only in this way can you learn from the strengths of hundreds of schools of thought, integrate them, see the whole thing clearly, and then form your own opinions.

Wilde expressed his views on love. He said that the main purpose of divorce is to get married; he said that love begins with self-deception and ends with deceiving others. This is the so-called romance. The main reason why he is able to put forward unique views and be remembered by others is that he has thought deeply about human nature and love.

The breakfast dish I put at the end is one that has the most views and the most likes, and it has helped me gain a lot of fans. The reason why it attracts so many people is because it is beautiful; the reason why it makes people stay and like it and want to know its author is because it is delicious, rich in content, and others can learn something.

So, now look at which level you are in the table below, and then work hard to climb up, and strive to become that delicious and beautiful dish as soon as possible!