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According to Wuhan media reports, Sharla Cheung (a pseudonym) is from Shiyan City, Hubei Province. She is the only girl in the family, and has been a "magic weapon" in the eyes of the world since she was a child. This year's college entrance examination, she was admitted to Wuhan Institute of Science and Technology, and school will start soon. Sharla Cheung decided to go to Wuhan a few days in advance and stay in Wuhan with her uncle for a few days. Two days ago, the whole family was preparing luggage for her: my mother was afraid that the school quilt was not thick, so she brought her three thick quilts; In order to reward her for going to college, her father bought her a laptop. Bring all the clothes you usually wear and buy several sets of spare ones in spring, summer, autumn and winter; "Good Memory Stars" and MP3 players sent by relatives must be brought; Grandparents bought five bags of snacks from their hometown from the supermarket. I'm afraid she is not used to eating in Wuhan. Brothers and sisters also bought her many toys, and she specially chose a big teddy bear to take with her. I usually like reading books, and I specially prepare boxes to hold ... I packed them in two days, and the things I brought were fully packed in ten boxes.

"Recently, I have received many cases of conflicts between parents and children due to the start of school. The most concentrated one is that parents put too much pressure on their children and stimulate their hostility to learning. " Teacher Tao's hotline psychological counseling teacher and teacher Hu Wenyu of Nanjing 12 told the reporter, "Our parents pay too much attention to their children's learning and ignore their psychology. For parents, children's learning difficulties will make them anxious, but once the methods are wrong, children will only become arrogant, uneasy and depressed because of their parents' emotions. "

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The day before yesterday morning, my grandparents, my parents and my aunt took Sharla Cheung to Wuhan. When the bus arrived in Wuhan in the evening, the uncles and aunts had already met at the drop-off point. The family took three taxis to squeeze in.

College entrance examination score: 359 points

Tomorrow is the day when the freshmen of Southeast University officially report for duty. Dongda is the first university in the province to start school. Therefore, on August 23rd, when five "baby students" from Grade Three of Grade Three in 2009 of Dongda University came to the school, Yu He, the youngest candidate admitted to Jiangsu universities in 2009, became the first batch of freshmen in Jiangsu this year. Where are these "prodigies" and why are they "gods"? Yesterday, the reporter came to interview Jiang Yan, a quaint "little girl".

During the interview, Yu's mother was very calm about her daughter's admission to Dongda University. "It is true that our family environment is very relaxed, and we have not deliberately trained her to become a young college student. It's just that she succeeded in several attempts, and everything went with the flow. I don't expect my children to achieve anything in the future. I always tell my children that you don't have to make progress, but you must be a kind and hateful child. " Cai Yunqi

She also has "early education" but emphasizes "nature"

Compared with 1 at check-in.

Comparison 2 Parents' Teaching and Learning Methods

"My college life can't be better, there's nothing wrong with it." The little girl responded disdainfully to the reporter's concern. No wonder her parents "beat their chests and feet" at home, chanting that the little girl is "heartless" Yu's mother told reporters on the phone yesterday that she and Yu's father were "driven" back by their daughter on the 23rd. As soon as I arrived at school, Yu began to raise funds for registration, payment, business materials, etc ... Everything must be done by myself, leaving Mom and Dad "hanging" aside. "I wanted to stay with her in Nanjing for a few days, but she had to go home." After returning home, parents miss their daughter who has never left home alone day and night. Yu's mother worries too much, and her children never wash clothes at home. I often get up very late in the morning ... After all, my daughter is only 14 years old. But at the other end of the phone, Yu simply ignored her mother's worries and began to get a little upset after receiving the third call every day. "I have solved her worries. I can wash clothes and get up at 6 o'clock every day. The only inconvenience is that there is no bicycle, and the school is really too big. " This "little adult" is unsmiling. Yu's mother told reporters that Yu is such a strange little girl. She is very independent and has made her own decisions since she was a child. Cai Yunqi

Date of birth:1995165438+1October 23rd.

On the day of registration, she drove her parents home.

After applying for Dongda Junior Class, the school opened a one-person class for her, and each teacher made a compact study plan for her senior three. After completing the senior three course, I spent more than 20 days meeting him head to tail. These 20 days are probably the most serious days for Yu to study, but he didn't stay up late. Because of her young age and the relaxed environment given by the school, she never burns the midnight oil or goes to cram school. Teacher Zhou Rucai, the head teacher, said that the little girl's study habits are very good, she is very serious in class and her hobbies are also very devoted. When the college entrance examination was issued, Teacher Zhou found her hiding under a tree to keep a diary before the college entrance examination!

Ponytail, round face, height 1.5 meters. The little girl in front of me is younger than the actual spring and autumn. What do you think her junior high school class should be like? But this little girl "triumphed" and rushed into a famous university. Can she adapt to life far from home?

So, how to meet the start of school accurately? Teacher Hu put forward her suggestions: First of all, parents should help their children to put down their study burden and take their children to wait for the school. For example, parents can ask: School is about to start, which teacher's class do you like best ... You should communicate with your children more, the theme should not be limited to learning, and you should help your children establish a happy relationship with the school with your heart; Second, help children adjust their biological clocks. If parents rudely pull the child out of bed and let him study, the child will certainly be unwilling. Parents can ask their children to go out for breakfast, or let them sponsor themselves and wake themselves up; Third, parents should let their children have a process of adjustment and adaptation in case their children really don't adapt to school. What if the child is still sleepy on the first day? I got up slowly and didn't want to go to school, but I didn't complain when I got up early the next day. Parents should be sure. This is also an effort of children, and appropriate incentives will have unexpected encouraging effects. Wang?

The reporter asked Sharla Cheung: "Where do you put so many things in your school?" Without thinking, she replied, "I don't know. Anyway, they packed so many for me." According to Chutian Metropolis Daily.

Parents who are about to start school are too "chanting", and many students fall into "starting school timidity"

Seven relatives of the "best" freshmen in Wuhan escorted 10 boxes of luggage.

Editor's comment: Every child is an individual. It is impossible to find an educational method suitable for all children. Parents are naturally concerned about their children's learning, but whether this concern has a good or bad impact on their children depends on whether your care method is suitable for your children. Parents may wish to focus on communicating with their children more, finding out the most suitable education method for their children, and taking care of other children's learning lessons, but it may not be half the effort. We report Xiao Yu's "early education" experience as a child prodigy. It is not that this is suitable for every child, but there may be more examples of "early education" not being effective or even failing. What we want to tell our parents is that Xiaoyu's parents succeeded because they found the most suitable education method for their daughter's temperament. This is the proper meaning of "personality education".

"School will start soon, and I'm not happy at all. My mother has been whispering in my ear all day: You should relax and study quickly, 100 1hs.com, it's no use crying if you don't improve your grades at the beginning of junior high school! " Ding Ding (a pseudonym) is a fifth-grade student in a primary school in Nanjing. She called our hotline and complained about the tedium of starting school. The reporter learned from Mr. Tao's hotline yesterday that the nagging of some parents directly aggravated the children's fear of going to school as the school started.

Graduate school: jiangyan middle school.

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Editor's comment: the gap lies in the word "can be the master". Children will live independently sooner or later. When they enter the university, their minds must be mature. You see, the "prodigy" has been his own master since he was a child, and Wuhan's answer is "I don't know". The gap around here is amazing. Parents can learn from their love for their children. However, sometimes there is only a thin layer between love and hurt.

In this year's college entrance examination, I scored 359 points, exceeding the one-day line 1 1 point. When it comes to her daughter's growth, her mother Pan Ailan is full of details. "Yu is a successful case of my early education." Yu's mother just got married and bought a famous early teaching book. She began to teach her children step by step according to the book, so that they could learn Chinese characters from birth. In the remaining 3 months, all the things in the family are labeled with corresponding words, and the 6-month conference is called "table"; When you are 8 months old, you can read everything posted at home; By the time I was 3 years old, I had learned nearly 3,000 words and could skillfully calculate addition, subtraction, multiplication and division within 10. At the age of 4, Yu boarded the incomparable weekend stage of Jiangsu Satellite TV, recited "Mulan Poetry" on the spot and answered questions with the host. After coming back, she became a local starlet. 1999, the rest who should have entered kindergarten entered the first-grade class xafp20 12.com, and then advanced to the third grade. This jump made Yu famous in one fell swoop.

Yu's mother said that the name prodigy brought a lot of troubles to their family. When the daughter's grades are good, everyone thinks it is right; There are many cynics when her daughter's grades drop. Some people even criticized Yu's teaching methods. My daughter's grade in the second day of junior high school fell, and the pressure was great, and the whole family almost abandoned it. Later, Yu's father changed his daughter's name to make her invisible, and Yu gradually walked out of the low tide and was admitted to the intensive class in jiangyan middle school with excellent results.

"I have been asking everyone not to call her a child prodigy. This has little to do with IQ, but the cultivation of the day after tomorrow has played a role. " Yu's mother kept saying. Yu has the same idea as her mother. "I'm not a child prodigy. I am really not a child prodigy. I just adapted to such an environment since I was a child. Intelligence is not a problem. "