How to treat jokes between friends?

I often meet jokes, but I haven't met anyone who has been collectively splashed with dirty water. Those friends may need to solve the problem, but I think it depends mainly on how they see it.

I am a college student and have always had a good relationship with people in the dormitory. Usually, I am often treated as a joke. Maybe people think I'm weak. Every time I am laughed at, I can only laugh along with it, or try to laugh, but I don't know why I am always set on fire by people in the dormitory. To tell you the truth, this smell is really unpleasant. Recently found a problem. To put it bluntly, I care too much about face. Think about it. When you are teased and ridiculed, do you want to go back with a smile? But if you care too much about face, you will be uncomfortable. How can you remember? Well, even if we go back, it's a bit like blocking people and hurting everyone's kindness. How to get along in the future? So, don't care too much about face. What if you win? What if you lose? Since you want to lose face, don't always emphasize that you are posing as a winner. When you really put down face, everything will be solved. Only in this way will you have a complete idea to go back and experience the fun of "slapping", and others will think that you are very interesting and generous, instead of thinking that you are easy to bully and will catch you next time.

Parting line.

Now it is 202 1 year, and the above answer is already the time for college. Looking back now, it seems to be very funny. But for me at that time, it was really painful. As for now, it may be that I have experienced many things, and I have something I really should care about, so I may not care so much about my friends. The focus of life is slowly on how to improve your career. If it were me now, I might not have taken this kind of thing seriously before. Because life, if it has been plain and smooth, how is it possible? That's not life, even a game can't decide whether to win or lose, right? Although you are frustrated by the environment, you are still your best friend.