Is it immoral for a boy to find a girl from a good family to change his destiny?

Of course, shouldn’t boys go out to make money on their own and find a girl they like to protect them? Why should I find a rich woman? I think this needs to be criticized.

Because today’s society is really unfair, we can all understand this behavior, that is, those who have no money will become less and less rich, and those who have money will become richer and richer. Now this In this society, it is extremely difficult to make money and find a job. For some boys, if their family background is not good and their parents cannot afford that much money for him to get married, he will have plans in this regard. After all, if a boy wants to marry a wife, he must at least buy a house and a car. These alone are already several million, not to mention living a good life. But even if the conditions are so difficult, we still want to work hard to make money, rather than opportunistically trying to find a rich woman. After all, a rich person also wants to find someone who treats her well. She will not fall in love with you, a poor boy, for no reason. Spend your hard earned money. It's definitely more comfortable than spending other people's money.

I remember that I once had a man from the same village who stopped going to elementary school and went out to work. He was only 20 years old and he found a woman 20 years older than him. It was because he was working under this woman when he was working. This woman fell in love with him and thought he was particularly young, handsome, and capable, and wanted to pursue him, but the boy said. The age difference between us is too big, and my family will definitely not agree. But the woman didn't give up and took the boy home. After returning home, my father said, this woman is older than your mother, how could you find such an old person. But this woman was extremely wealthy. She had her own house, her own restaurant, and her own company. These were all very attractive and made his parents reconsider his suggestion. In the end, he married his son to this woman.

The phenomenon of finding a rich woman is definitely there. And it happened to me too. I think it's understandable, because after all. Even though they are rich, they still like you and treat you very well. You have nothing else to ask for. Giving you a good life can also save you several years of struggle and get a lot of money. Smart people will make this choice.

However, young people, you are still young, you still have many opportunities, and you still have a long way to go. Why don't you go out and try it yourself? If you don't create something, how will you know that you can't do it? Why succumb to the life of the rich? Did you know? Some people marry into rich families because they are greedy for wealth. They are looked down upon and humiliated by others every day. By marrying a rich man, she got the life she wanted. But you will feel a lot of pressure in his heart because the circle of friends and social circle are completely different. Maybe he has never been to the places where rich people go, and she has never been aware of the topics that rich people talk about. He just lives in the circle of rich people like a fool.

The ugly duckling turning into a swan is just a fairy tale. Your fantasy life needs to be earned with your own hands. Don't be greedy for wealth, and don't be opportunistic. Everything has rules. If you want to live like a rich person today, you may sell yourself for money tomorrow. Girls shouldn't do this, let alone you are a boy. Boys should shoulder their responsibilities instead of marrying rich women. Of course, everyone has the right to choose their own life. No matter what decision you make, it is the path you have to choose. Other people's advice can only be used as a reference, so it still depends on your own decision as to what you want to do.