What is the reason why a Fuzhou man refused to divorce after being away from home for 20 years?

What do you think about marriage? Some people may think that marriage is the grave of love. When you enter into marriage, you lose the freshness of love, and life is filled with oil, rice, sauce, vinegar, and tea. Some people think that marriage is the establishment of a family and the gestation of life. I feel that marriage is an important moment to witness a person’s true growth. But no matter what, when it comes to marriage, we must first be rational and cautious. Don't get married easily when you are not ready to start a family and get married. This will not only bring a lot of conflicts to the lives of the two people in the future. At the same time, it is also a kind of harm to your significant other. So we have to think carefully about marriage.

For a woman, her husband is her biggest support and a lover who can accompany her until she grows old. If one day, my most important husband leaves me. I don’t think many girls will accept the abandonment of all the affection and affection. Well, I am disgusted that this kind of man behaves like this. As a man, you must shoulder your own responsibilities. Does abandoning your wife reflect your masculinity? And the latest news made me really angry.

This incident happened to Lin Dongming, her husband, in Fuzhou, Fujian Province late one night 20 years ago. He left his family where he had lived for decades without saying a word. From that day on, there was no news for 20 years. His wife Lan Guiqiu and his children and his parents. Don’t even know where Lin Dongming went? His wife Wang Guiqiu had to take on the important task of taking care of the family. But there are not only two elderly people to support at home, but also three children to raise. Goodbye, my wife Lan Guiqiu has spent so much effort and energy in the past 20 years to maintain the livelihood of this family. Later, when the three children grow up, they will also get married and have children. In order for her future son-in-law and daughter-in-law not to be laughed at by others, Lan Guiqiu, who had worked hard for 20 years, decided to find her husband who had been missing for 20 years with the help of the media.

But things have changed, and the husband who has been away from home for 20 years has a new family outside. Faced with her husband's betrayal, Lan Guiqiu was heartbroken and chose to divorce Lin Dongming. But he was rejected by Lin Dongming. He would find the reason equally bizarre. He said that his immoral behavior in the past 20 years was all for the good of his wife. Because he said that his marriage was arranged by his parents and that he was forced to get married by his mother who drank medicine. And because of some physical reasons, she felt that she didn't want to stay in this home anymore. The reason why he did not divorce was because he wanted his wife to have her portrait at home after her death. After hearing this reason, I really think this excuse is too funny. What does it mean to think about your wife and just ignore her for 20 years? I also have a new life outside and start a new family. It's just an excuse for myself.