The more heartless and loving a woman is when she gives up.

Many people who have talked about love have summed up their love in one sentence, that is, "on and off". When appropriate, two people are inseparable and wish to love each other forever, but if they can't continue, they will refuse to say goodbye. It is not only a man who is rude, but also a saying that the more rude a woman shows after breaking up, the more she loves you. Love doesn't mean that you can be together with me. Two people have to face all kinds of things, go a long way and solve many problems. Some people are so sweet when they are in love that they want to hold their hearts in each other's hands, but when they break up, she acts like an iceberg, which is totally inhuman. This also makes many boys suspect that she was the one who loved herself to death a few days ago. How could she not be as good as a stranger to herself when she broke up? In fact, this is a very normal thing. As the saying goes, "It is rude to love to the extreme." The more a woman loves you, the more she will invest in you. Women are not like men. Once they like someone, they will be very devoted. Even if they put all their body and mind into it, women in love will not say "no". This also gives men the illusion that no matter what they do, no matter what they do in this relationship, the other party will love themselves as always. A Qing's love affair started when she chased her boyfriend. At first, people at school took it as a joke. Until they really came together, those voices gradually died down. Love got its wish, and the sweetness of Ah Qing and her boyfriend was enviable, but after they got along for more than half a year, A Qing found that the other party was not what he thought. He has a problem of male chauvinism, and feels that A Qing should be responsible for everything at home, and A Qing should take care of his face outside. A Qing continued to hold on to this relationship. However, with her boyfriend's excessive demands again and again, and his ambiguous behavior with other girls outside, A Qing finally couldn't help it. She left a letter of separation, moved out of the house they shared, and changed all the contact information. The boy thought that he could bring his girlfriend back as long as he bowed his head and saved her, but A Qing seemed to be dead this time, ignoring everything about him and even changing his city life. It's not that A Qing is too cruel, but that she has invested too much in this relationship. When she loves deeply and no longer loves, she only hates it. She knows that she will be soft-hearted, so she arms herself with rude feelings, so that this relationship will never be reunited. The same is true for those women who are heartless after breaking up. They know that they can't let go, and they can only choose this road in order not to recall your memories and not to let themselves be soft-hearted. What is the basis for the statement that the more heartless a woman shows after giving up, the more she loves you? When many people break up, they will encounter such a phenomenon: after breaking up, their ex-girlfriends become very heartless, as if they were deeply in love at that time, how affectionate they were when they were together, and how indifferent they were to themselves after breaking up, as if they had never loved each other. So, my heart that wants to get back together is like falling into a bottomless abyss. Whenever I want to climb up, I am beaten back by her indifferent and determined mind. Is there really no chance to get back together? Here, save me some nonsense, and I can definitely tell you an answer, yes, yes, and the probability of this can be as high as 9% or more. Because the more rude a woman shows after breaking up, the more she loves you. Why do you say that? Please read on: but before you get back together, you must first understand a truth: the most taboo of getting back together is that she doesn't need you, but you need her crazily. There was a friend who couldn't let go of his predecessor after he was broken up. He felt that if he left his predecessor, his life would be meaningless, so he kept pestering his predecessor, waiting downstairs in his predecessor's company, waiting at home, and trying to persuade all his relatives and friends around him. All available methods were used, but in exchange, his predecessor hated him even more. Later, he gave him advice: stop all entanglement and disconnect. At that time, he didn't want to do this. He thought it was impossible to get back together every day, so he didn't look for her. What if she forgot him and immediately had a new relationship? If you have similar questions in front of the screen, you can rest assured, because there is a term in psychology called sense of loss, which, in our common sense, is human nature. What is a sense of loss? Take feelings as an example. A sense of loss means that when a person walks around you every day, you don't care about her, and you may even find her annoying and redundant. But when she suddenly disappears one day, you will be a little unaccustomed, even miss her existence, and you will unconsciously start to miss your past, or see things and think about people. Finally, this feeling will become stronger and stronger, which will finally urge you to take the initiative to find her. In fact, many times, the more determined and crisp a woman breaks up, the more she will regret it later, and human nature is capricious. Let me tell you a common phenomenon in feelings, but you can't see it clearly. In real life, everyone doesn't want to lose the feeling of "being loved". You must never underestimate the limits of narcissism and the need for being loved. In fact, most people feel in their hearts that it is always good to have one more person to love themselves in this world. When you are particularly concerned about women, women seem to be able to feel your concern, so when she feels that she can "eat you" psychologically, she will not care about your existence, but when the other person feels that you don't care about her, she will feel a sense of loss, and this sense of loss will drive her to take the initiative to find you. You have to understand that if you want to save a person, when your sense of need for her is greater than her sense of need for you, then you are at a low emotional level, and the initiative to get back together at this time lies with your predecessor. Whether you can get back together successfully depends not on you, but on her. Therefore, when a woman is rude after breaking up, the more rude she is, the less you should pester her. When she is not used to you no longer pestering her, then she will take the initiative to find you. The more heartless a woman shows after she gives up, the more she loves. 3 When a woman becomes indifferent to love after she gives up, she will care about everything and care about it. Everything about him is closely related to himself, and he will take the initiative to ask questions and take the initiative to participate. When he is in trouble, he will make suggestions without hesitation. Whenever he asks for advice from himself, he will seriously think and give the best advice. I can't see that he is anxious, and I can't see that he is disappointed. Instead, he will become a think tank to help him really solve the problem. But when hurt, the heart has died, it will take back its care and care. From then on, everything about him has nothing to do with himself. His joy will not be shared; His difficulties will not be shared. When he asked for his own advice, there was no sincere advice, but the word "whatever". What men do, how to deal with, they don't give advice and don't participate. His business is no longer his own business. Once the heart dies, his attitude will become indifferent. How he is, whether he is dead or alive, he has long been indifferent. Verbally, when you become extremely cold and love someone, your words will be full of enthusiasm. In the tone of yin and yang, the inner joy is conveyed and the warmth is given. But when that heart died a little, it changed from meeting each other happily to being relatively silent. Don't want to communicate, don't want to say a word, can be silent. If you can't be silent, you will also use the word "whatever" to deal with it. Simple two words, but it is bold, cold, no longer have a trace of temperature. Such coldness, like a knife, will sting people's hearts and feel that disgust and resistance. Once a woman's heart dies, there is no gentle whisper, and that gentleness has long been exhausted. In that cold speech, there is a refusal, and no longer craves care and pity. In the cold words, there is no longer pleasing and pleasing, but I am eager to clear the relationship between two people. It is best not to talk or communicate for the rest of my life. That coldness is the closing of the heart door, and there will be no more heart-to-heart, and there is no emotional sustenance. In getting along, it is more and more perfunctory. When a woman loves a man, she will love him more than herself, will be single-minded, will be centered on him and will change around him. When a woman's heart dies, she only loves herself, and that person becomes irrelevant. I even wish he would leave his life and be quiet and peaceful. Once the heart dies, it will become more and more perfunctory and love to answer. I am busy with my own affairs, no longer relying on it, and no longer suffering from loss. Start to rely on yourself, make yourself independent and strong, and make yourself your best support. The focus of life will shift back to yourself, and you will be full of yourself. Reason, maturity and independence are the brand-new self, the self remolded after the death of the broken heart. When facing him, I am no longer lost, no longer silly and persistent, but I don't care. The word "casually" conveys perfunctory, and will no longer care about his feelings and thoughts. No matter what the other party says, there will be no fluctuation in his heart, and he will not take it seriously. He will only use "casually" to send it away and then continue to do his own thing. Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "A man's harm to a woman is not necessarily that he fell in love with someone else, but that he let her down when she had expectations." When you are full of enthusiasm, you get disappointment again and again, and that heart will die a little. Since then, I have no hope for him and I am no longer willing to go on with him. I'd rather be lonely than compromise myself. Everything about him has become indifferent, indifferent, and even more indifferent. There is no need to be caring and attentive, no need to show your heart, only the cold word "whatever" is left. When a woman begins to take on everything silently, then he becomes dispensable and can be alone.