How to prevent jokes from being self-defeating

Joking should be harmless. Elegant jokes are humorous, simple words and deeds that attract attention and make people laugh are funny, and humor is by no means equal to humor. A pleasant joke should be not only interesting, but also ideological and artistic. Even if we don't have such a height, at least we can't make vulgar jokes. Jokes with healthy and intelligent content can enliven the atmosphere, bring spiritual enjoyment and ideological enlightenment to others, convey the optimistic attitude towards life and rich personal accomplishment of the jokes, and set up a humorous and amiable image for themselves. Don't joke about sexual relations, other people's shortcomings or embarrassing experiences, and don't joke about anyone's privacy. If you are talking to a disabled person or patient, please don't touch his physical defect or illness when joking; Don't make fun of each other if they are just broke. If the other person just lost his lover, don't make fun of love. Such a joke can't be called a joke, but it hurts.

Don't play tricks on others. Joking is to make people more harmonious, not to make fun of others and vent their resentment. Pay attention to maintaining each other's self-esteem when joking, and don't use jokes to lower each other's status. It is a foolish act to stab someone you don't like with a joke, which must be resolutely put an end to.

Kitten is a cheerful young man. He often jokes when there are many people, but what he brings us is not fun but trouble. Lao Long is a foreigner with a strong dialect accent, and there is no distinction between "spicy" and "happy". Whenever the old dragon said these two words, the kitten would exaggerate his accent and start laughing casually. After a long time, he will get angry and ignore him. Xiaoqing is a little fat, so when the temperature drops in winter, the kitten says to everyone, "We are all as meaty as Zhang Xiaoqing, so we don't need to buy down jackets!" Xiaoqing blushed, gritted her teeth and hit back at the kitten: "Look at your steamed corn-bread, you will hatch chickens if you ignore it!" " "Song is short, and the kitten often says," Song wears clothes and saves cloth, which is really enviable. " Xiao Song gave him a dirty look. Gradually, the kitten's popularity in the unit became worse and worse, and finally he simply changed his job. But can changing jobs change the habit of mocking others? Kittens should really reflect on their words and deeds.

Taking jokes as a means of playing tricks on others and embarrassing others will make others look down on you. Even if it is unintentional, it has left a hateful impression on others, and any explanation is futile. Educated people will not accuse you to your face, but will gradually alienate you.

Don't catch shadows, seriously joke. The speaker may be careless, but the listener may pay attention. Never make jokes about things that are out of thin air, damage the reputation of others or easily affect others' lives. If you solemnly say that you see someone reselling prohibited items, seeing someone secretly dating, and hearing that someone has been cheated in chatting ... these negative and unfounded things are best not to be used as jokes.

Don't make too many jokes. At work, if you always talk in a joking tone, it will give people a cynical impression. In the eyes of others, you will have no prestige, be unstable and unreliable, and have no strong working ability. Therefore, I will not respect you in particular. Those who want to win people's hearts with humor and get promotion opportunities should be careful. Too many jokes are not a good habit.

Don't play too many jokes with the opposite sex. Sometimes jokes between the opposite sex can shorten the distance, but remember not to make too many jokes between the opposite sex, especially not to say dirty jokes in front of the opposite sex, which will lower your personality and make the opposite sex think you are unhealthy.