People who can talk usually get along well. How to avoid offending others?

First, making fun of others is easy to make enemies.

A wise man will never make fun of others. Although he can win everyone's smile first, what other benefits are there? There is no benefit at all; Secondly, if you tell other people's jokes, if they are polite, that is, if they are narrow-minded, then you will be in big trouble. They will remember you all their lives and try their best to attack you, and then you will be more than one bargained for.

Therefore, it is best not to tell other people's jokes. On the contrary, if you tell them, you are not a smart person. Only those frivolous people have nothing to do and make fun of others. And a responsible and enterprising person can't finish his work all day, so he has no leisure to make fun of others.

Frivolous people are the most likely to get into trouble. A person who often makes fun of others is not a down-to-earth person. They are shallow and frivolous, and live by their own feelings. They think that as long as they are happy, they don't know that the hardships of life will not let anyone go. When you push a cup to laugh at others for a change, you should also be prepared to meet life's counterattack.

Second, it's easy to be disgusted to ask about other people's privacy.

In life, there is another kind of person, whether you like it or not, who always chases you and asks you some things, some of which involve your own privacy. Of course you won't tell them, but they are always asking questions and you are bored, so they make excuses to change the subject, but they will still ask questions. It's really annoying to meet such people, but you don't get angry easily, so you should try to avoid them.

There really are such people in the world. Lao Wang, my boss downstairs, is such a person. He always asks everything, as if he knew everything in the yard. Once my child got sick with a cold. I went to the hospital with clothes and toiletries. When he saw it, he caught up with me and asked him where he was going. Why does he bring so many clothes ... It's annoying.

Why does everyone bother him? Because he is good at embellishing, if the child is ill, he will tell others that the child in a certain family is very ill. If he knew I was alone in the hospital, he would say that so-and-so's wife ignored the children and only went to work. In short, everything that comes into his mouth will be exaggerated. Such a man without smoke will avoid him in the yard because he is very capable of making trouble.

Third, don't talk about others, so as not to cause trouble.

Steady people don't talk about others casually, let alone gossip about others behind their backs. If there is such a person, everyone knows you are a person who likes to talk about others. Since you can talk about others behind their backs, you can talk about yourself behind their backs. So everyone is very wary of such people. Because everyone is on guard against them, it is impossible for them to have deep contacts with others.

A person who likes to talk about others is very annoying. What's the matter, everyone should say it clearly, and don't play tricks. Most people who do such things are dark little people. They are weak in heart, dare not be aboveboard, and can only sneak around. When they are behind the scenes, someone will deal with you sooner or later. Such people are also the most troublesome.

Smart people don't say these three words. They try to be kind to others instead of making enemies everywhere. When they do this, their lives will become smoother and wider.