My ex suddenly asked how you were.

After breaking up, the other party asks how you are doing, and what is your psychology?

Now that you have left me.

Don't ask me how I am.

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In a relationship, if you are the first person to change your mind, if you are the first person to fall in love with others, if you are the first person to disappoint me, if you are the first person to leave, if you are the first person to give up our feelings, then after you leave, don't ask me how I am doing.

Because of the passage of time, most of me have survived the most difficult time of a person, most of me have put you down, most of me don't want to hate you, most of me don't think of you often, and most of my heart won't hurt so much. At that time, I could probably keep the most basic peace and stabilize my love life.

In that case, don't go out and add my friends, and don't ask me how I am after separation. Because this question will hurt me, because when you ask this question, I will probably sneer and I won't know what to say.

Because you can help me when I speak ill, but I won't let you help me. If you can't help, then I don't have to say anything bad. But when I say I'm doing well, you might say, "That's good." But what good is it? Are you relieved or lost? Anyway, living well is not your credit, and it is not necessary for you to know it or not.

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It is true that a person may feel guilty after leaving another person to love others, but that is not love, just a little pity. If the other person lives well, it seems that TA can love others with more peace of mind and be happy with others. Therefore, TA will still care about whether you are doing well, but the purpose is only to make yourself feel at ease.

Of course, there are people who are completely heartless. I can't wait to disappear immediately when I leave, for fear that those who stay will pester, retain and beg again. So it will disappear without a trace, as if it had never been to your world.

This kind of person is good, because the ruthlessness, determination and simplicity of TA will make you give up completely and make your world clean, as if that person is a dream, and you have no news and dynamics of TA, as if it never existed, but it will help you forget.

On the contrary, it is the kind of person who drags his feet and can't carry it clearly. He wants to disappoint people and clean up the mess. Seemingly soft-hearted, heavy feelings and heavy righteousness, in fact, most of them are selfish for themselves. TA may be kind, but TA is cruel in your love. Because TAs only know the desire to enjoy and pursue love, but they don't know the dull long-term and responsibility.

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Therefore, after they change their minds, TAs often look back when they go to others, and occasionally care about you and pity you. Some people will probably take such care and pity as a lifeline, and comfort themselves after grasping it: TA still loves herself, still can't let go of herself, and will come back and regret it. This is an impulse, it will be solved. ...

If the people who stay keep thinking like this, it's hard to get out and let go, so it's also very sad. It's ironic to ask people how they are doing at this time.

So, if you want to abandon a person and leave a person, then leave quietly and live your new life quietly. Don't always turn around and ask people how they are doing. They have a good life, that is, after they gritted their teeth and survived, or they may have spent it with others. People are not doing well, and you can't do anything to change and help. Anyway, it's none of your business whether people are good or not.