No one can help but save himself! Only you can save yourself?

The older you get, the more you understand that in this life, you can only be sad and happy.

Walking in the vast sea of people, watching people come and go, you will feel that no one can really understand their joys and sorrows.

Those who try to ask for help and want to talk will soon? Arrive at the station? Some people have already got off the bus, but the one who can walk with you to the end may not want to talk to them, or there is no second person.

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You don't have to tell everyone about your pain.

Adam. Smith wrote in The Theory of Moral Sentiments:

In this world, no one can really feel the pain of another person. You have an arrow through your heart, and you are in pain. This is only your own business.

When people reach middle age, most people have experienced major life events such as studying, choosing a job, getting married, having children and buying a house. Make a living? Pressure goes hand in hand. The more I am in such a predicament, the more I feel that my soul has nowhere to put it. All of a sudden. Where are you going? , a little more anxious and sad.

Is there a benchmark before and after the career? Chasing troops? If you don't continue to work overtime and dig deeper, you are likely to be eliminated in the next round of competition. What you used to be proud of has now become a shortcoming to be overcome. Say goodbye to the glorious past and stand on a new starting line. What else? Houlang? When children rush together, the feeling of being at a loss will often come.

Emotionally, our parents who have been attached to us seem to have died in an instant. I want to say something, but I find that I have neglected the communication with my parents in recent years. Our world, which they don't understand, is drifting away from us. Only simple greetings, only mutual concern.

Educating children seems to be forever painful. Other people's children are always so perfect, and their own children always have too many shortcomings. After deep thought, they suddenly realized. What's wrong with you? You owe all this to yourself? Debt? . Trying to make up for it, in exchange for his wandering back.

And the lover who accompanied him for half a life, how many people can be glad that TA is still around?

When people reach middle age, they are used to wearing masks to hide their pain and restrain their sadness. There seems to be nothing to celebrate or praise. One question after another is the normal state of life. Pleasure in pain is the pursuit of the moment.

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Writer Ma De said: There are 6 billion people around us, but in this life, we live among 60 people at most, leaving only a few people you love most, from pain to joy to sadness, from birth to death. These people are your world. ?

It's just, under the foreseeable circumstances? Friends circle? Not many people sincerely hope that you will have a good life.

It's not that I'm waiting to see your jokes, but that once you surpass them, you will have a sense of superiority, which is a silent burning for them. People are becoming more and more polite to you.

The mother can't hide her joy and needs someone to talk to. In fact, many people often can't hide their inner excitement when facing the sudden good news, and want to get it off their chest.

But they forget that this kind of happiness, for others, is unspeakable pain.

Your son has been admitted to a key university, but other children may still be struggling with which college to attend. Your high-profile publicity highlights the helplessness, powerlessness and helplessness of others.

So, don't let your happiness become a sword and hurt people around you invisibly.

When you are happy, you must keep your heart, and you must not get lost in ecstasy and fall back to the bottom of your life.

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A truly powerful person is lonely but not lonely.

As the saying goes:? Cattle and sheep flock together, and tigers and wolves always walk alone? . Does a person really start to mature, do his own thing, become a strong person, and involuntarily stay away from ineffective social interaction and it? Different aspirations, different ways? Crowd.

Looking back, I tried desperately to squeeze into some glamorous groups and try to be with them? High end? People have a dialogue. However, I spent a lot of time, money and energy to get to know each other, but I really couldn't help myself.

Because, you're not one? Character? How much did you know when you were young? Character? , can't catch up with the words, more can't carry out cooperation in the true sense, to achieve the goal of mutual benefit.

When you start to be a better self, you won't care about the strange eyes cast by others when you go shopping alone; I don't care. When eating alone, choose a quiet corner. I don't care, a person has ups and downs on the road of chasing dreams. No matter how hard and difficult the road is, one thinks, one walks, one carries and one is tired.

Writer Zhou said:? When we are alone, we stay away from others and affairs and return to ourselves. At this time, we face ourselves and God alone, and have a dialogue with our inner and mysterious forces in the universe. ?

Being unsociable doesn't mean that you don't live well. A purposeful and directional life will be different. However, you should have enough perseverance and endurance to walk through that long road of struggle.

Rousseau said: I am never bored when I am alone. I can't stand chatting all my life. ? A truly powerful person is enjoying loneliness and realizing the gorgeous turn of life in loneliness.