Why are high-quality women left behind? Is the standard of mate selection for leftover women too high?

"Leftover women" has become a very common phenomenon in society, and many of these women are excellent women. However, in the eyes of many people, high-quality women are left behind because the standard of mate selection is too high, but in fact, many leftover women are left behind because the social circle is too narrow. Let's take a look at the mate selection criteria for high-quality women!

1, the criteria for choosing a spouse for excellent women

First of all, an understanding person.

Understanding is a word used to describe women, but it seems a bit inappropriate to describe men. But as a strong woman, her understanding of life is sometimes more thorough than that of men, and I am afraid that understanding the shining point of women is really not in place. There is a simple reason. Their strong dedication to work has weakened their femininity. Finding a more considerate husband is what they really need.

Second, a generous man who is good at romance.

If a woman achieves something in her career, she will naturally have social intercourse. If she finds a man who doesn't understand amorous feelings and is petty, she will definitely not stand what a woman does in the outfield, which will inevitably bring disaster to family harmony. For a strong woman, you must not expect them to reach the standard of ordinary women. After all, such a woman lives in a very different circle from other women.

3. Spoiled wives and men who are good at housework.

When a man marries a strong woman as his wife, he must understand that this kind of woman will definitely not worry about daily necessities. As a man, you must be prepared to undertake housework. Otherwise, the couple will drink the northwest wind without cooking, and the couple will not do housework, and the home will become a garbage dump. If you have children in the future, you may have to be a "nanny". Only in this way can your family life be harmonious.

Fourth, a mature man who is educated in the hall.

"Going to the hall" was originally used to describe a woman's ability to deal with people and know the rules and etiquette on the scene. Now it is also reasonable to use it on men. After all, many men in real life are not allowed to go to the hall, lack basic education, or simply don't know the rules of the scene. Such a man will make a successful woman look down upon and be teased by other friends in her circle of friends. This will lead to the end of marriage.

Fifth, a man who is single-minded and not fancy.

Finding a man who is not a playboy is the greatest wish of all successful women. However, it is really hard to find a man who is not a playboy in real life. After all, now is a world of sexual freedom, an era of laughing at poverty rather than prostitution. Therefore, as the husband of a successful woman, you may not have a solid economic foundation, but you must not be a playboy. In this regard, many strong women can't get into any sand in their eyes.

2. What kind of men do girls dislike?

(1) impulsive indecision

A man who attracts women must be an attractive man. At least in front of men, no matter how strong a woman is, she wants to have a mountain to rely on. Therefore, a person may not have huge wealth, but he must not be a person without opinions. If you see what your friends have invested to make money. You just put down your essential job to start a business, which will only make women feel that you are an irresponsible and reckless person.

(2) Dirty

Many men say. Ah, that man is so untidy. That's called taste. It does smell. It just stinks. Men can be casual, but never careless. Bearded face. Wearing a shirt for several weeks. Even the house is full of dirty socks. No woman likes this.

(3) Male chauvinism

It is a group of men who can't recognize the reality now, that is, no woman will die without you now, and they have always put themselves in the highest position. Tell women what to do. Even if you have more money, you have more power. All you get is a hypocritical woman. Besides, you're not. And want to be treated like a king. This is something you absolutely need to change.

(4) a man lying in love.

Lying is a stunt that every man has. But I advise you not to carry forward this stunt again. Because this habit is bad. Don't think that women are fools and can be fooled by you. Actually, I was just watching your jokes. So don't lie to women.

(5) Men who are too controlling.

Some male friends, once in love, regard their girlfriends as their own possessions, for fear that others will take them away. Seeing her talking and chatting with others will make her lose her temper. Maybe at first, women will think your behavior is cute. It may take a long time. It can't stand the idea of flying away.

(6) A cynical person

If you complain about your bad life all day. Complain about the world's injustice to you. You can find people and things to complain about everything, so congratulations. You'll be the kind of person that women hate. Women never look at men by their mouths, but by your actions. A person who can only complain about others will never get into their eyes.