What does it mean to be alert and flexible and adapt to changes?

Being shrewd and sophisticated, honest and gentle refers to the principles and flexibility of a person. When dealing with others, one must be upright, strict, generous and gentle, but also have shrewd, sophisticated, flexible and tactful wisdom. This is the principle of life that the ancients said is "a square inside, a circle outside" and the combination of square and circle. Only when a person is upright and can treat others flexibly and tactfully can he correctly handle complex interpersonal relationships. If we only have the principle of being upright without the flexibility of tact, we will not be able to unite and influence the majority of people, and it will even complicate conflicts in interpersonal relationships.

Shi Tao said in "The Language of Painting": "Everything with scriptures must have authority, and if there are laws, there must be transformation." Scriptures and laws are the principles and laws that should be followed when doing things. When implementing principles and laws, you must Flexible and adaptable to circumstances.

Society is complex and we come into contact with all kinds of people with different personalities. Only by thinking calmly, being alert and alert, having the wisdom to understand the world and human conditions, and adapting to circumstances can we calmly face complex social interactions.

"Lu Shi Chun Qiu" also said that the political country must change with the times. There must be laws to govern the country, but we cannot stick to the laws. Times have changed, and the laws must also change. Just like a doctor treats a disease, the patients are ever-changing, and the prescriptions should also be ever-changing.

The world is changing rapidly, and life is also ever-changing. If you stick to the routine blindly and don't know how to adapt, you will only end up with broken heads and bloodshed again and again. We must learn to be flexible and learn to adapt to changes. This is a kind of wisdom in life.

Life requires constant innovation and change. Instead of being content with the status quo, you have to take certain risks to challenge new things, because life itself is a process of gradual change. Nothing is static, and unchanged means falling behind.

Seek common ground while reserving differences and seize opportunities. In the face of adversity, you must have fighting spirit, but also know how to retreat or give up, and then when opportunities arise, turn adversity into hope. Things depend on human effort, and good wind relies on force to build harmony. Life is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat. In the changing times, you must adapt to changes and find a way out.

Sometimes adapting to changes in language can also reflect a person's wisdom.

Once, Lincoln spoke at a meeting of newspaper editors and pointed out that he was not an editor and should not attend the meeting. To explain the reason, he said: "Once, I met a man in the forest. The woman riding the horse, I stopped to give way, but she also stopped and stared at my face. She said: 'I just now believe that you are the ugliest person I have ever seen.' I said. You're probably right, but what can I do?' She said, 'Of course, you can't change your ugly appearance, but you can still stay at home and not come out.'" Everyone, thank you for Lincoln! Humorous and self-deprecating.

In a conversation, when the other party offends you intentionally or unintentionally and puts you in an embarrassing situation, it is an appropriate choice to use the power of language to get out of the dilemma.

Therefore, everyone should establish the concept of adapting to changes and innovation, keep learning, and strive to improve their quality in all aspects, so that they will not be eliminated in the fierce competition, and thus Keep yourself up to date with the changes and developments of the times. Only by adapting to changes and working hard can we always win the initiative and remain invincible in the fierce competition for survival.

In modern society, information is exploding and changing rapidly. Successful experiences in the past are not the successful guidance cases today. Everything needs to be analyzed in detail and applied flexibly to adapt to changes.

In the company's last exam, Liu Jia successfully won the position of Assistant Manager of the General Department with his flexible on-site adaptability. One day, Liu Jia, who graduated from the Department of Foreign Languages, and three other applicants were shortlisted for the company's final round of exams. The test question was to translate a technical document, but the professional terminology in the document made it difficult for several applicants. After Liu Jia got stuck a few times, she looked around the room and found several English dictionaries on her desk. She immediately told the interviewer generously that she didn't understand a few words and wanted to check them out in the dictionary. With the interviewer's permission, Liu Jia borrowed a dictionary and translated the information within the specified time with the highest accuracy, and was finally admitted. One of the losers said that he also saw an English dictionary, but because he was afraid of being underestimated, he did not ask for it and had to bite the bullet and do it himself.

The company's human resources director said that he did not look down on Liu Jia because she borrowed a dictionary, but felt that she had a flexible mind and strong on-site adaptability.

He believes that workers who can make clever use of existing conditions and complete tasks quickly and with high quality are the talents that companies need most.

Sometimes, when something embarrassing happens, using the power of language to adapt can protect people's self-esteem and reflect the speaker's generosity. This is a kind of wisdom.

Once, a British TV station interviewed Liang Xiaosheng and filmed the TV interview program on the spot. A sophisticated and witty British reporter walked up to Liang Xiaosheng and said: "For the next question, please answer it with the shortest one or two words, such as 'yes' and 'no' without hesitation." Liang Xiaosheng nodded in approval. The mirror visor snapped, and the recording microphone was immediately stretched out in front of Liang Xiaosheng. Reporter's question: "Without the Cultural Revolution, young writers of your generation would probably not have been born. So in your opinion, is the Cultural Revolution good or bad?" Liang Xiaosheng was startled, and the question was so "tricky". He had an idea and asked back He said: "Without World War II, there would be no writers famous for reflecting on World War II. So do you think World War II was good or bad?" The clever response made the British reporter suddenly stunned, and the camera immediately Filming stopped.

When faced with some personal questions, many people asked are quite conflicted. At this time, we can use some ambiguous words to answer.

When Japanese actor Ryoko Nakano was in China, she was asked by a reporter when she would get married. It was really difficult for her to answer the question as she had just lost her love. But after thinking about it, Ryoko Nakano cleverly replied: "If I get married, , I will definitely come to China for my honeymoon.” This answer not only got rid of his own embarrassment, but also made the reporter laugh.

There is a joke that shows the result of not knowing how to adapt.

Once upon a time, there was a hat seller who worked hard to sell hats every day. One day, he was very tired from hawking, so he stopped under a big tree, put his hat under the tree and took a nap. When I woke up, I found that all the hats around me were gone. When I looked up, I saw many monkeys on the tree, and each monkey had a straw hat on its head. He thought that monkeys like to imitate people's movements, so he quickly took off the hat on his head and threw it on the ground. The monkeys also followed his example and threw their hats on the ground. The hat seller happily picked up the hat and went home. Later he told his son and grandson about this strange incident. Many years later his grandson inherited the family business. One day, when he was selling straw hats, he fell asleep under a big tree like his grandfather, and his hat was also taken away by a monkey. The grandson thought of the method his grandfather once told him. He took off his hat and threw it on the ground, but the monkey didn't follow him and stared at him non-stop. At this time, the Monkey King appeared, picked up the hat on the ground, and said: "Are you kidding! Do you think you are the only one who has a grandfather?"

We should also break the conventional thinking in work and life. Learn to adapt to changes. Some of the conclusions and thinking methods that have been formed in our minds are not necessarily completely correct. We must dare to doubt ourselves. We must not remain unchanged and get stuck in the past. Our thoughts must be constantly changing and always new, so that we can better seize opportunities.

Wit is not easy to come by, but it is an important factor in our success. Only courage and wit can help us overcome difficulties.

One day, when Ruth opened the door, she was greeted by a man with a knife and a fierce look on his face.

Ruth was startled. She immediately understood her situation, but she quickly calmed down. She smiled and said to the man: "Friend, are you here to sell kitchen knives? Let me I took a look at the knife, and it looked pretty good, so I bought it." Then, she invited the man into the house and said with a smile, "You look like me. A former enthusiastic neighbor. I am very happy to see you. By the way, do you want coffee or black tea?"

This man who was originally full of murderous looks was a little at a loss. He stammered: "No, thank you, thank you!"

Ruth smiled and brought a cup of hot coffee, took out the money, and bought the man's knife. The man was completely confused. He looked at the money in his hand and hesitated for a moment, then walked out. When the man reached the door, he suddenly turned around again.

At this breathtaking moment, the man said to Ruth: "Miss, thank you for changing my life.

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True bravery must be accompanied by composure and wisdom, because only with the courage to be resourceful can you have the wisdom to deal with problems, the ability to adapt to crises, and avoid becoming a "brave man" "The harm caused.

Therefore, we must understand human psychology in order to accurately capture the other party's thoughts. We must train our courage, let bravery and wit complement each other, and resolve every crisis into a turning point.