What's the difference between people who often read books and those who don't?

I want to study, keep fit and travel. Because it is necessary to have a strong body, so that the body and soul are always on the road to experience and experience. There is a clear difference between reading and not reading.

First, the height of the world is different. If books are compared to ladders, people who don't read only see the scenery on the ground and the bustling crowd; After reading a certain number of books, with a certain height, wherever you look, you will naturally go further; The more books you read, the farther you stand, the more scenery you see … until there is a gap in your chest and a universe in your eyes. Second, the temperament of not reading is different from that of a scholar. A person who likes reading hides the books he or she has read in his or her temperament, and his or her speech will reveal his or her unique temperament. A person who likes reading will naturally not look disgusting and ugly. The highest level of makeup may be the temperament that reading makes people develop.

Third, people who study and don't study have different attitudes towards the world. People who like reading books look at the objective things in this world, the humanity in this world and their own hearts through books. When dealing with the world, try to make yourself live in peace with the objective world and other people in this world, so that you can live in peace with your heart. People who don't like reading are often more difficult to break free when they are struggling or suffering. Read more books, see more of the world, experience more and exercise more. You will have a deeper love and experience for this world!

In the last two years, I began to read a lot. When I am fast, I read a book a day, plus about 8000 manuscripts. Because I joined the ranks of storytelling, I also met many readers. So I'll talk about this topic from my own experience and that of scholars around me.

1. People who often read books are different when they open their mouths. Whether a person likes reading or not, you don't have to ask, you can hear it right away. I once chatted with a doctoral supervisor by a campfire. A few words made me interested in him. His understanding of culture and history made me feel ashamed. No matter what I mention, he always tells a lot of interesting things, even a joke is valuable.

I sometimes attend some business parties. After talking at dinner, friends often tell me privately that I am different from others, and I know that I have knowledge (of course, I don't think I have anything myself, but I believe that whether a person has knowledge or self-restraint is easy to expose. )

As Oscar Wilde said, "If you have nothing else to keep people interested in you, then beauty is only five minutes."

2. People who often read books have richer and more stable hearts. I have met some freelancers whose income comes from reading and writing. I have joined the ranks of freelancers myself in the past two years. Reading has become a necessity in life and work. My daily life picture is reading and writing every day, from 8 am to evening 10. Compared with those office workers, my reading and writing time will not be shorter than their work, so I will be alone day after day, although occasionally I feel a little lonely.

With books as my companion and books as my pleasure, I have met a large number of authors and teachers who communicate with me in words. Sometimes when I read a passage, I strike the table as if I had met a long-lost friend or a beloved. Sometimes I forget to eat and sleep, and sometimes I feel that the author is talking to me right in front of my eyes. Their talents and ideas touched me, and I really felt very happy and full of peace.

Chen wrote in Jiang Xu, "Youth is fleeting, and youth is fleeting. Skin care can only give you a few years of brilliance at best, but besides that, what you need is the power to bring you elegance and peace continuously throughout your life. And this power is the power that can be given in the book.

3, people who often read books, life is full of interest and poetry. People often say that life is just a drag, where there is no poetry and distance. But I see poetry in many people.

I like to deal with people who study, so I will meet some book friends from time to time. Among them, there is such a book friend. He began to like and study Song Ci in high school. He can recite almost every Song Ci, and each capital can write more than 6,000 words to appreciate. His attainments are also reflected in his reconstruction of a set of aesthetic system of Song Ci, which is an innovation after years of painstaking study. Once we were in a chair in Starbucks, he turned on the computer and began to tell me something he liked. He also made a PPT and set the background music. I was completely immersed in his interpretation for more than an hour, which was really comfortable.

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The difference between people who often read books and people who don't read books is obvious. I'll start with the following five aspects:

First, there are obvious differences in temperament and behavior. People who often read books are the so-called self-satisfied, elegant, humiliated, calm and calm, and the inner things that people who don't read books can't show.

Second, there is a great difference between knowing and not knowing. People who often read books are knowledgeable, humorous, able to quote classics and know a lot of things, just like an endless treasure. When communicating with people, everyone likes to listen to him and listen to him. People who don't study are bound to accumulate less knowledge, have a narrow vision and a short knowledge, and often care about trivial matters. When two people are together, they should be regarded as a disgusting person with boring content. Besides, now is an era of knowledge updating and information explosion. How can you keep up with the times without reading?

Third, the communication level varies greatly. People who often read books can make many high-level friends because of their aura. The so-called birds of a feather flock together, which is the truth. People and friends who don't read books are also their own circles and levels, so many things will inevitably bring negative effects to each other.

Fourth, the mind and tolerance are different. People who often read books are open-minded because they are good at thinking and introspection, and they also understand many people's different ideas. Therefore, they are very tolerant and sympathetic to everyone, and they are also good at understanding problems from each other's perspective. At the same time, when they are confused, they can also learn positive strength from other people's experiences, so as to overcome difficulties and treat life positively and optimistically. People who don't study have a relatively narrow vision, so when they encounter difficulties, they often feel that they are the most unlucky one and fall into a situation where they cannot extricate themselves. At the same time, they can't consider the problem from the perspective of others, criticize the value too much, and will easily blame others and be intolerant.

Fifth, the impact on future generations is different. People who often read books can set a good example for their children. It's hard to imagine that a person who loves to play often is an enterprising and promising person. So the principle of "top-down" is very realistic. Meng Mu's "Three Movements" tells us that the environment and neighbor's behavior have great influence on children's growth, let alone being parents. Therefore, if you want your child to study well and have a good future, you must first be a person who often reads books and loves learning, and set a good benchmark for your child.

Take myself as an example. Two or three years ago, I didn't like reading. Basically, I can't read a few books a year. But after getting into the habit in the past two years, I insist on reading books every day and reading two or three hundred books a year. Personally, there are three obvious differences:

First, read more books, and you will find that you can't learn without any knowledge. If it's not for exams and research, it's just to achieve the level of "understanding", "knowing" and "slightly mastering". Basically, you will have a little understanding after reading more than a dozen books in a certain field.

But more importantly, if you read more books about art and music, you will find that your literary accomplishment has also improved, because knowledge in different fields is related, and your knowledge will increase exponentially.

Second, the deepening of thinking ability, people who often read books will be "tangled", which lies in the collision and anxiety between different books, different authors and their own ideas. Because every book is a system and a very systematic exposition of a central idea.

And 100 book is equivalent to 100 people jabbering in front of you about how good their views and ideas are. Therefore, people who often read books must have the ability to think independently, think deeply and judge independently, which is necessary.

Third, improve your temperament. Can reading 100 change your temperament? The answer is no, even if you read 1000 books, it may not make you change a lot, but you will vaguely feel your own change, and even people around you will feel that you seem to have improved in temperament, and these improvements and changes are unspeakable.

Therefore, regular reading and persistent reading will definitely have a good influence. For example, elon musk used to study 10 hours every day, and it was pure reading time, so there are Tesla and Space X now.

In high school, the head teacher said to us, "When you don't know what you want to do, you can choose to study, because what is in it will be engraved in your temperament." The difference between people who often read books and those who don't can be seen from the following points:

1. In terms of temperament, I like a sentence in the movie Casablanca by Michael Curtis: "Your temperament now hides the road you have traveled, the books you have read and the people you have loved." People who read a lot will have a relatively peaceful attitude towards others. The more books they read, the more they know that knowledge is infinite. They respect everyone and always remain humble. They will not be complacent because of their little knowledge of things, nor will they argue with others easily. Therefore, people often say that he is rich in books, which means that his temperament is different.

Second, ideologically speaking, people who read more books have a more delicate and meticulous way of thinking. People who often read books will gradually develop the ability and habit of independent thinking, form their own cognitive system, have certain analytical ability of things, and are not easily influenced by others. They have a strong curiosity and thirst for knowledge about the world, quick thinking and unlimited potential.

Third, in terms of ability, people who love reading think that their learning ability, writing ability and expression ability are higher than those who don't read. Constant learning and a strong thirst for knowledge have promoted the continuous improvement of their abilities.

Generally speaking, reading cultivates one's temperament, and reading can cultivate one's own temperament, making oneself gentle and bookish; Reading is like a book, writing is like a god, reading more can improve your writing ability, and writing articles can make you think quickly; You can never get tired of reading old books, and you can learn only by reading them carefully. Reading can improve your comprehension. You can know the truth as long as you read them carefully. Reading can make a person accumulate knowledge, and a gentleman can learn to get together. So, from now on, let's put down our mobile phones and read more books.

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A book gentleman once saw such a passage-

Someone asked: After studying for so long and reading so many books, girls will eventually return to an ordinary city, take an ordinary job, marry a woman, do laundry and cook, and teach children. Why bother?

A: The reason why we insist on it is because even if we end up in trouble and wash away the lead, the same job will have a different mood; The same family has different moods; The same offspring have different qualities.

This answer is really amazing. Maybe this is the difference between reading and not reading.

Some people say that before the college entrance examination, the knowledge reserve in life is at its peak. I know the working principle of celestial bodies, organic and inorganic reactions, I can speak English, read ancient Chinese, get a series of numbers and draw a cone ... now? Don't say that you take the initiative to accept new knowledge. You don't even have time to read "casual books". Other hobbies are completely useless except playing mobile phones.

Many times, it is in this unconscious way that we have made changes and opened the gap. And what difference will reading books often bring to us?

1. Using professional books will increase your chances of success.

Sure enough, I don't know from which day, I will never see TOEFL boys again. Having lunch and chatting with other friends in the office building, I realized that he had got an MBA admission notice from a business school in new york.

For him, Metro Line 2 not only connects him with his dream, but also connects him with a broader life in the future. For us ordinary people who lack attitude and determination, Metro Line 2 is just a means of transportation to go home.

Therefore, reading books often can bring us a kind of faith and strength, telling us never to complain that everything around us is not satisfactory. All you need to do is read more books first, accumulate and then explode, and achieve a different self.

2. Decorate your appearance with "leisure books".

Wang Xiaobo's appearance is recognized as "ugly", and even he himself often jokes about it. And why do people like him? Because he is very interesting! His interest comes from his tireless reading. Wang Xiaobo said, "As an interesting person, I certainly won't give up the opportunity to become interesting through reading." He used his life of reading to prove what he later said as a "network celebrity"-beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million.

People not only don't think he is ugly, but think he is cute!

Read more, and your appearance will naturally change. Many times, we think that many books we have read are gone, but they still have potential, in temperament, in speech, in boundless mind and in broad pattern. There is a book that says that reading often is not necessarily professional knowledge, as long as it makes you feel good, you can dabble. For example, purple sand or Chinese painting, anything beautiful will make you sublimate.

People who often read books have lost a lot of hostility to life in the past, and no longer try to be brave and tease. For work, there are fewer complaints and more methods. For people around you, be more tolerant and grateful, and less concerned and resentful. People who don't study, what they say and think in their hearts are all idle articles without nutrition. Zhang's parents are short-lived, and they eat all day and have no intention of getting involved. After all, they are homeless children who lack spiritual position.

As for whether regular reading will make you beautiful, give it a try!

I have also read such a passage: "Judging people by their appearances is absolutely scientific. Character is written on the lips, and happiness is exposed in the corner of the eye. Rational sensibility is put in the voice, and sincerity and hypocrisy are reflected in the pupil. Standing posture shows talent and tolerance, and gait shows self-cognition. There is a recent mood in the expression, and the past years are in the brow. Clothing shows aesthetics, and hairstyle shows personality. Look at your hands and feet professionally. "

To put it simply, people who often read books exude elegance, self-cultivation, kindness, fraternity and atmosphere. People who don't study reveal power, vulgarity and lewdness in their manners.

The book has its own golden room, full of poetry and enjoying itself! Read more books.

There is an essential difference between reading and not reading. Many people can hardly live without their mobile phones. The information that can be seen on the mobile phone is fragmented and fragmented. Really smart people still have to read books often. What's the difference between people who read books and those who don't?

First, people who read books are basically leaders or people with taste.

Second, rich people. The richer a person is, the more time he has to really read a book. I have contacted many bosses of companies, and they have made a plan for themselves to read at least three books every month. And often share it with employees of their own company and organize learning.

Third, people who don't study definitely don't have high taste and self-cultivation. There is no intention to belittle anyone here. People who read books are generally full of brains, and he often shares them with employees and organizes them to study together.

Fourth, people who often read books and study will have short-term goals and long-term goals, and they will be able to follow their own plans or realize their ideals.

Fifth, people who study often infect children and influence them. This kind of family atmosphere is generally good. Children's academic performance will also be very good, and children will be more sensible.

I started my real reading journey from May 20 16 to May 2 1 2008. I seldom read books before, and I haven't read many books for several years. From that day on, I read 7 1 book. From the slow speed at the beginning to the fast speed now, I have read 42 books on 20 18, and the reading habit has been formed. The changes brought by reading are: 1. I feel smarter than before and see things more thoroughly. What was once ambiguous is now suddenly clear. 2, the language is rich in vocabulary and many idioms are handy, which I didn't expect. I have more knowledge. The books I read include ancient and modern Chinese and foreign, astronomy and geography, so I have stored more spiritual food to enrich my soul. Reading has become a part of life. A day without reading is like something missing. Reading has become not only a habit, but also a part of life. I have lost a lot of interest in TV and internet, and books are more and more attractive to me. 6. I feel more and more ignorant, as if there are so many unknown things to explore and learn. 7. Every time I write reading notes, I write more smoothly ... There are too many benefits of reading. I will stick to it and let myself see my change!

Someone once asked, "I read a lot of books, and then I forgot most of them." What's the point of reading like this? "

A: "I ate a lot when I was a child, but now I can't remember what I ate." But what is certain is that some of them have grown into my bones and flesh. "

The difference between reading and not reading lies in:

1. Reading can broaden your horizons. It is impossible for people to experience everything by themselves in this life, and some contents can be obtained from books, which are more practical and common sense. For example, rotten ginger and sprouted potatoes cannot be eaten! My grandmother talked about it all day today because I threw away the ginger she bought the day before yesterday (it was rotten in the refrigerator for two days). The old lady is usually frugal, but it would be a pity to lose her. She told him that rotten ginger was poisonous, but the old lady didn't believe it ... which left me speechless. There are naturally different cultural differences, customs and natural landscapes around the world. Of course, if you have money and time, you can play by yourself. If you have no money, you must read books to understand.

2. Reading can cultivate self-cultivation. The ancients in China paid great attention to self-cultivation. There is a golden house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book. When reading a book, you will get some previous experience, ways and means of dealing with people, emotional intelligence can be improved, and sentiment can be cultivated. I don't always feel lonely when I am alone. I have to find someone who can make me happy. Low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude.

Reading can improve temperament and charm. There is a temperament that is not expressed by appearance. The so-called modest gentleman is as gentle as jade. This kind of temperament integrated into a person's personality is fascinating.

There is a difference between language and speech. In terms of language, people who read books have more gorgeous words and more elegant speech. Also express a meaning "I love you", people who don't read books can only say I love you, and people who read books can say:

"The moon under the sea is the moon in the sky, and the person in front of me is a lover."

"linglong dice Ann red beans. (I don't know if I miss you deeply) "

"Beast furnace sink hookah, cui marsh residual flowers. (write a line of acacia biography) "

"I have a Qian Qian knot in my heart. I only hope that you can be like Yao, Hua Hudie on the platform, with flowers turned into snow and white hair as before. "

"It seems that this star was not exposed for whom last night."

I love you, anyone can say it, but writing these beautiful words into love letters has left a relatively deeper impression on people.

5. Reading can gain an independent personality. One should have one's own thoughts. I think it is very important to know what he wants to do and get an independent personality. Especially for people who want to get rid of the shackles of their families and have their own ideals and ideas, reading is really important.

Being born in a family is bound to be influenced by some ideas of being born in a family. If you can't jump out of the shackles brought by your family, you may be like this all your life. Get married, have children and settle down.

Distinguish between right and wrong, what the elders say may not be right. Form your own ideas and analyze a problem from different angles. This, I think, is of great significance to education.

So reading books is like petals. When these petals make up a flower, everyone will marvel at your beauty.